forgiveness pre- Valentine's Day down south xhubbie: Many of us will not have a companion this Valentine's Day while our x's and stbx's will sometimes have someone.
It's important to remember that this situation is not permanent. "This too shall pass".
You have to remember to forgive otherwise this holiday will 'eat your lunch'.
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Re:forgiveness pre- Valentine's Day LettinGo: No suggestions ... just wanted to say, yeah - this sucks. My birthday is the 9th, the V-Day on the 14th - looking forward to it being over with.
Actually though, even though STBX "has someone", he appears to be more unhappy than me! ;D
Kelly
Re:forgiveness pre- Valentine's Day down south xhubbie: I'm listening to Yahoo launch right now.
Liz Phair's "Why Can't I" is playing in the background
I wouldn't mind having someone think of me. My ex doesn't have that in her. ::) She has no passion. She can't help it. It's just the way she's made. :-\
I'm concerned about others, especially those with more raw pain than my own, who has a stbx or ex who has deliriously happy while he or she is miserable. I'm not miserable, but it does eat at me that all my efforts blow up in my face.
I'm trying so hard to move on and have a life of my own. Meanwhile she jumped right into a relationship and it seems to be working outstandingly. In her new relationship, she seems to be in love and is also very wealthy.
As I've repeated many times before, I want to be so happy and so busy that I don't care. I basically have nothing going on now except for a mirage that looks real, feels real at times, but never materializes into something you can see and touch (only dreams, hopes, etc that never come true) sorry :-\ long story
Re:forgiveness pre- Valentine's Day :broken:: Valentine is all about the people you love. My Valentine is 4 years old and I wouldn't change that for the world! All we've been through brought us closer. We deserve to celebrate each other that day. :)
Re:forgiveness pre- Valentine's Day devochic: Ojarians always have perfect timing. ")
I was starting to freak out as V-Day approaches. I have been healing, but the thought of him buying her valentines day presents irks me. Although I know I shouldn't care. But thinking positively, I have been growing since the split. ANd this valentine's I am going to care about the person I need to care about. I am going to love the person I need to love most. I am going to adore and accept the person who I need to accept. Myself.
