Re:A question of looks.... RecoveringinDE: I have to agree. There has to be an attraction. For me, I look at the eyes first. Then I look at the whole package. If I don't like what I see when I look in your eyes, I will not go any further.
Re:A question of looks.... MadorSad: Looks you say well take a look at some pics on the other thread. Not a bad looking buch if I do say so all looks do is get the ball rolling. Like the fat man said hot chicks that are mean or $itchy no thanks I'll take me a nice funny lady anyday over them 8)
My 2 bits
MoS
Re:A question of looks.... timetobefree: I think the answer is "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." What is good looking? I don't know...it is different for every person. For example, I do not find Brad Pitt good looking AT ALL. I just do not see what the fuss is all about. Now Brett Favre? Bring it on! But I am sure there are women out there who don't think Brett is good looking and think Brad makes the world go 'round (which makes them crazy but that is besides the point ;D).
If we all had the same tastes, then there would be way way too many single people!
Amy :)
PS--And I agree, personality goes a long, long way to making a person physically attractive!
Re:A question of looks.... sheydp: Look matter to me NOT AT ALL! My first boyfriend was not good looking, in fact, my first thought when I saw him was "my god, that is the ugliest guy I have ever seen". Until I looked in his eyes. Talk about Cyrano! Still love him to this day. My STBX was pretty good looking when we met, but is now mostly bald, with a paunch and saggy chin. Didn't matter at all to me. I don't see the outside once I get to know people. I know I am weird that way. I don't notice what people are wearing, but I notice their expressions. Maybe I am crazy, but looks really don't matter!
Re:A question of looks.... tarasan: I agree with bitterdino a few posts up, but at what point does that start to enter into one's mind? I don't it is different probably with different people but curious as to when it has happened for others. My split up has only been going on a week and the thought of another right now is almost sickening although I know at some point it will come.
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