Re:small update... wdotzler: Hi everyone,
Sorry I didn't reply to this sooner, everything has been busy this weekend. Thanks for the replies though. ;D
It's so strange that there were so many ppl living the way I was. I thought it was just me. I have been blaming myself saying that I was just too weak to get out of it. I don't believe that anymore. Yes I could have gotten away from him awhile ago but I didn't want to. I married him cuz I loved him, or at least the person I thought he was. I was naive to believe that he loved us enough to fix the problems. It's ok now, its so peaceful not to wake up and have to plan a day depending on someone elses mood. I can relate to all the things you guys said. I guess our exes will just have to find other grumpy ppl so they can be happy. Apparently happy ppl don't do it for them. :P
Wendy
