Re:back to square one heartbroken4: down south xhubbie
Your not naive your are looking for something meaningful. I cand totally relate to that. I am nervous about dating when I am ready too. I really am not looking to date for years and years I want to be with someone who I could love and be with forever and wont be based on what I look like. There are men hitting on me and I just feel like I can see right through them (dog) and I know that is because my x was hot hot...but treated me bad! So I can relate with your issue on not being based on your looks..thats how my relationship started out for both of us and now look we are getting divorced!
Are you definate on what your are looking for besides whats already mentioned?
Re:back to square one Sad Eyes: dsxh~
Just make sure you aren't to caught up in how you look...I mean it how I said it...because if you are than even if the right one does come around you may never give her a honest chance because you may be insecure and not believe her if she says you are all that and more on the inside and the out. Remember...when you first start to date someone it takes time for some people to say how they feel....some people hop on board with the compliments...but some people want to know you inside and wants to know what makes you tick as a person and in the end the outside will be that much more to get excited about. Remember everybody is different to how they may or may not respond as far as a person's outer appearance. Give them a chance and make sure you are not caught up in getting validation. Sometimes our biggest enemy is ourselves.... :-\
Wishing you the best!
Sad Eyes
Re:back to square one MadorSad: DSX
Hey man just bet you women will love ya buddy so why the hell could some women not fall head over heels for ya I mean come on buddy you are a cool operator and funny sharp and most of all a good man take that to the bank it covers the checks in my world stay the corse ;D
MoS
Re:back to square one hardened_heart1970: [quote author=down south xhubbie link=board=20;threadid=7554;start=0#msg60451 date=1107506804">
I feel that I'm back to square one.
#3 beauty is in the eye of the beholder. ***isnt this supposed to be beerholder?
whats really funny is looking at personals. most adds will say its the inner beauty that counts, and not outter beauty.
then they say they will not respond to emails without pictures. thats conrtadicting aint it?
we will find the one for us, but it will take time. good luck,
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Re:back to square one down south xhubbie: After reading the first post in this thread, it does come across as very vain and shallow. :o I can't believe that I wrote that out.
When you have inner turmoil, it's easy to blame things outside of yourself.
When I was in high school, I went to some counseling for family related problems. I also went again back in 1998 and 1999 for some problems with depression. There are some things, however, that I've never dealt with that I plan of facing now.
thanks for all of your replies.
