Re:Immaturity toonew: Christopher, I know what you're going through. Losing someone is no easier when you're young. I actually think it's harder. I still lok back on my first love with a "what if?" feeling. But I've also been in your ex's situation where my STBX did not want me with my friends because they are mostly male. If you are not able to say that you trust a person with no questions asked, then you don't trust them. It's a do or don't thing. Now I can't justify this but it's human reaction that when a person refuses to trust you, even though you've given them no reason, you begin lying or hiding your actions. Please learn that you can't control or change the personality of a person that you want to be with. Don't be with them unless you can accept them COMPLETELY. This will make you and the people that have relationships with much happier. You're young and have LOTS of time to learn. Find someone who's on the same page as you though. Someone that you can mature with instead of someone that you need to "guide" to maturity, because this will only make them resent that you didn't let them have their time.
