Re:Ladies opinions please (ok guys too) MadorSad: Dude
Try the date thing take her some place you have never gone to give it a shot bra I mean it. Sides what you going to lose give it a shot .
My 2 bits
MoS
Re:Ladies opinions please (ok guys too) lemondrop: MoS,
Please don't take this the wrong way since I am the Queen of typos myself but I just had to laugh... do you realize you wrote "bra" instead of "bro"? Hee hee - what do you have on the mind anyways??
I'm no better myself... I once sent an IM that was supposed to say "Hang on a sec" but my finger slipped and I wrote "Hang on a sex"... I was mortified... lol... ;D
Sorry to hi-jack... Daveinfl - I say go for it... good luck...
LD
Re:Ladies opinions please (ok guys too) Daveinfla: Good question Ride. I dont know if she does these nice things because she wants to keep me around while she goes out and checks out single life or if she feels guilty for leaving or if she truly cares about me. I do know she was afraid I was going to see an attorney about a divorce and told her friend "he can file for a divorce I don't have to sign anything". I am lucky her friends like me and have told her she's crazy for leaving (she admitted that in one of her private sessions with our counselor). Anyway you guys think I should go for it but now if I waffle on this issue I will look weak. How to turn around and say ok lets date without looking like a spineless wimp?
Re:Ladies opinions please (ok guys too) Dino: It sounds to me like she really wants to be with you but she is missing feeling that way towards you. I wonder if she realises it will take effort on her part as well. At least she wants to try with you.
If you love her and want to be with her then I think you should do anything in your power to make her happy.
Just say you have been thinking about it and you really want to make your marriage work. Tell her you love her and you feel that dating her will strengthen your bond. Something like that anyway.
Who cares how you look?? This is your Wife. You shouldn't be ashamed of feeling weird about this kind of thing happening.
Give it a go and make it work.
Good luck
Re:Ladies opinions please (ok guys too) browngreen: DATE HER, DATE HER, DATE Her!
Don't ask about reconcilling, don't talk about your relationship--- just show your interest in her.
If, that is, you are interested in her, who she is, gettig to know the other 50% of her life.
That is what dating is all about-- getting to know someone.
Don't use the dates to work on the marriage-- that will fall in to place if it's meant to be.
And as for looking weak, I don't think she'll care. Tell her you miss her, and of course you'll date, and are sorry you had to think twice about it.
I don't know your wife, but that would definitely mean a lot to me, and my husband would feel the rewards of such behavior.
Just my 2 cents.
BG
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