Have a Date- Help Butterflygirl: OK...I listened to my fellow ojarians and agreed to date....tonight :o
Help!!! As sad as this is, I have NEVER EVER been on a date in my life. My ex and I were friends forever and never dated we just kind of fell into a relationship...never official and we never even had an anniversary because we never officially had a first date.
So I am so nervous that I am about to puke. I cannot eat in front of him. What if I spill something and he wants to go to a place where there will be dancing too.
I know this is so pathetic but I am seriously at a loss :-\
How do you guys do this????
Re:Have a Date- Help Bubba: One - please eat. I hate women whom order things like a salad or something mean while their stomachs are growling. Who cares if you spill something? You are human, right? Now I would suggest you keep burping and farting to a minimum, or at least till you get home. I would not advise picking your teeth with your toes either. Other then that have fun. Enjoy the food, and hopefully the conversation. Order some wine to help you relax if you need to. Go and dance and have fun. Don't worry about it. It is just like sitting down with anyone else on the face of the planet. We all eat. We drink. No worries.
Re:Have a Date- Help lookin4alite: First, calm down, he is not perfect, he is human. Second expect him to act like a gentleman and if he doesn't then just move on. After about 10 good dates, it won't be so painful. Dress nice, put some makeup on and just have fun. Relax and take your time. It is not being slow but it is considered well though out if you just take your time. If there is dancing, start at a table with a drink until you feel comfortable. If you wanna dance just go out there and enjoy yourself. Do not worry about what others think, he invited you so he must be interested. So smile and have fun!
take care
lite
Re:Have a Date- Help lemondrop: I am so agreeable these days.... geesh...
OK - I have to agree with Bubba on this one - keep the burping and farting to a minimum!
And Lookin4alite is so right! He is human! And keep this in mind too - I bet he wants this to work just as much as you do so he's just as nervous. Take a deep breath and remember that he wouldn't be doing this either if he didn't already like you. So try and be yourself and the rest will come naturally... : )
LD
Re:Have a Date- Help loshyra: Butterflygirl...
TAKE A DEEP BREATHE NOW LET IT OUT SLOWLY!!! OK good. :) You will be fine. Order food. And like Bubba said, make it something other then a salad, guys hate that especially on a first date. Go and enjoy yourself. Think of it this way, if it helps at all, at the very least, you will have a new friend...if nothing else. Take it slow, and have a good time. And remember always smile.
;D
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