Re:ok, met him IRL need help scrdbyelmo: met him friday and talked to him saturday night he had gone on a 6 hour round trip to buy a boat on saturday and had a long time to think...he is only about 5 months post absolute seperation/divorce and said he enjoyed meeting me and has some things to work out and would like to continue just reeaaallll slow...we all understand that so i was totally cool with that and actually went and saw him again today to see his new boat...he seems really cool and just needs time to move into things??? ill just be careful and try my best to not get hurt again...