Re:Broke up a week ago exclusive: imjake, does your X still want you, or did she just say it a couple of times,
Re:Broke up a week ago imjake: I Don't know or care if she want's me back. This happened many years ago( 8 years ago). She came in and out of my life for about 2 1/2 years after she broke my heart. Mostly, she would tell me how I was the nicest, cutest guy she ever knew and she would try to win me back. It was too late. She had hurt me to deeply to ever trust her again. Furthermore, I wasn't in love with her, I loved who she used to be. In fact, I will always love that person. I didn't date for almost 2 years after that break-up. Even though, I was getting asked out by beautiful women like 10 times a day(I was working as a male underwear model in college).
I was like Noah Calhoon from The Notebook.
Heartbreak is the worst, especially if you are an old- fashioned, innocent-type who wears his heart on his sleeve(me). I could'nt date because I did'nt want to hurt someone like she hurt me. What a chump!
Girls are wierd. They say they want good guys but they often end up leaving them because they get scared.
I mean, I was a completely loving, faithful, sweet and accepting of her faults. Her own friends all thought she had lost her mind when she left me. I had like 5 or 6 of them ask me out after she dumped me.
That's life!
Re:Broke up a week ago Liran: dude...wow...underwear model...what a stud...how did u know you were ready again to date...?
I'm 23, and broke up w/gf of about 2 years about 5 months ago. I tried to get her back, but unsuccseful. She wasn't my first gf, but my first love (that means that i'll have more, right ?). I haven't really gone out much since then, but i'm still comparing everyone I meet to her, and haven't been on a date yet. I did have a one night stand, but it was a week or two after, and it was really empty, def. not worth it.
I find myself thinking about what she is doing, how she is moving on w/her life, and i'm stuck in the past. But, I guess it is like the sunscreen song..."The race is long, and in the end it's only with yourself."
-Liran-
Re: Broke up a week ago Shags: I do not mean to necro but I just had to reply to this. It is crazy how this is EXACTLY what happened to me a week ago. We were together for 4 years.... and she left me because she wasnt sure she loved me. Everything is the same down to I was her first, but she wasnt mine. We left on good terms. The only difference is this is the third time she has left me. I dont really know what you guys can/will say. Just glad this has happened before and not only to me. Hopefully the original poster is still around, I would like to know how you made out almost a year later. Any advice will help, do I wait again? My mind tells me no, my heart tells me yes, my friends just dont know. It is odd not being with her because we have just always been. Everyone has just known us to be. I want to talk to her everyday, its so hard because we were best friends on top of lovers, we talked to each other every day for 4 years and helped each other through things nobody could even imagine. I have not talked to her since the breakup, and I do not plan too for an other month. I am a very jelous guy and the thought of her with anyone else, or even liking someone else brings rage I do not want to have. Is it wrong not to be talking to her? She was very upset she was losing a friend, but I was losing my love. I am on a rank, sorry. Thanks for reading guys.
