its been two years mittens21: So i was engaged and it was great. I had been with my ex for almost three years and i was really in love. Then he started acting strange and we broke up. I was devistates and determined to get him back. So determined that i lied alot and did things i wouldnt normally do. Now he hates me. Now i have a boyfriend and me and my ex have been broken up for almost three years. I contacted him a month ago to tell him i was sorry and he was horribly mean. I still love him and i want him back. Any advice? I noticed he checks my online journal alot. Does he still love me? should i say something? is there anything i should say in my journal so he knows i miss him? i am so sad i just wish he felt the same way.
Re:its been two years teacherwriterguy: As a general rule:
If you feel something, and you genuinely want to say it, just say it. Rather than posting something in your journal and hoping he'll get the hint, tell him clearly.
Maybe that reflects on other parts of your story?
[quote"> I contacted him a month ago to tell him i was sorry and he was horribly mean. I still love him and i want him back.[/quote">
It almost sounded like a mixed message? You are sorry but he was the mean one?
I don't want this to sound judgemental - it's really not meant to be. Just, imho, relationships and communication are hard enough. Keep things simple and direct.
teacherwriterguy
Re:its been two years Dino: If your ex still says mean things to you after 3 years, I don't think there is much chance of him ever coming back to you.
I think it's natural for us to be curious as to how our ex's are doing and that is all I think he is doing.
I think you should let go of him. It's not doing you any good, and it's not fair to your new boyfriend that you still love your ex.
Re:its been two years mittens21: thanks for the advice guys...i just cant help thinking about him.
Re:its been two years badperson_failure: hye how can u tell he checks out your journal a lot?
thanks
if i visited someones homepage, can they tell where my pc if from like what city or who my laptop is registsered under tho i dont know if i did that?
thx
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