Mini Vent!! LostTeacher: this is just a tiny vent, but one that is bugging me more lately...
here it is, 3:50pm on a friday, school as been done for 20mins, i have a ton to do, but i am on here, in my classroom.
why, you may ask? why are you at work on the computer and not going home?
well, the dumba$$ gave me the oldest computer that i think we have ever owned as my own, and then didn't even provide me with the right cables to hook it up.
so now, i don't have a way to check the message board, or research at home, or do anything that requires a computer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ok, i feel better.... feel free to offer your own little vent of something tiny, but worth a tiny rant!
Re:Mini Vent!! LostTeacher: ok......... so i guess no one else has their own little venting that needs to happen......
i don't believe that!!!!
for example, today's vent is that it's been 3 weeks since any contact was made, and i am getting sick of dealing with him through a lawyer. it's not that difficult, but i just want it to be over, so i don't have to think about any contact with him.
darn, i miss him, wish i didn't anymore... :'( :'(
Re:Mini Vent!! kellekae: hugs...it does get old dealing with it. I can sooo relate it took me almost 4 yrs to get out...when I talk to him (about the kids), it's just as bitter, anger, and hatefilled as it ever was. I was hopeful for a long time that he would get over being so angry..but no I just think it's how its going to be. HUGS...
Re:Mini Vent!! dazedanddivorcing: Sorry about that computer deal. What happened the last time you talked to him--without going through a lawyer?
You are my new hero since you can go three weeks without contact! I am not ready for that step, but I admire your resolve. :D
Re:Mini Vent!! LostTeacher: thanks.
it's not like i have had much of a choice. when i talk to him without a lawyer, i just turn to mush, and try to beg for him to reconsider. and then we just get into an argument, and it's useless. i have tried to talk to him, but he just sees too many things differently. he also talks and acts like a different person, even though he tells me he's not. but if he wasn't a different person, then he wouldn't have done all of this, so of course he's changed. i do the no contact thing to try to stop obsessing about it. although that seems to be all i have been doing lately. maybe it's time to try the non-venting links for a while.
