Re:tossed aside!! rhismom: Yep, it sucks...being replaced.
I could've handled this whole divorce thing much easier if there wasn't another woman involved. I know the marriage was "over" years ago--the love was just not there anymore. Too much pain. But I kept plugging along at it--wouldn't give up. Then we finally decide to do it and BAM! He gets another woman in the picture within 2 weeks. Apparently he had her waiting on the back burner for just such an occasion. That really bites. It's humiliating and demeaning to think I'm so easily replaceable. Makes me feel like dog poo.
Re:tossed aside!! Dunno: Know how ya feel and am sorry you are having to feel it even. Yes, after years of loving, admiring, all the good things about a person, it seems unjust, unreal he can just walk away, "toss you to the side". Is what he did to me as well, only difference, I never knew what hit! Or that it was going to happen! I ask myself all the same questions, then I have to answer....what has she got over on me? Youth, no illness to stand in her way, money, a home, and mostly, the man I have loved and shared my life and heart with for years!! If it was someone else would it be different? I don't know, really. Would I feel better if he had left to just leave rather than for another woman? Yes, I believe it may have been easier to take. Also, shows my stupidity that it had gone on for seven months prior! Sooo many things I should have, could have done, but...it happened, nothing I could do....
