what to do...about webjournals annastarlet: Well, my ex and I have been in no contact for a while. He e-mailed me about a week ago and we had an extremely cold, brief AIM conversation. I have not talked to him on the phone in a little over a week. The only connection I have to him now is his AIM away messages, which show that his life is absolutely fabulous without me (well he is a guy, so I don't count on him to leave depressing away messages).
Anyway, he's been pretending he's fine, but when I talk to him on the phone, I know he's not. He's confessed to me and several friends that he is not fine. Its all very weird.
I had a sneaking suspision that he read my livejournal still and he recently made it very obvious (he's a boy! haha...what do you expect?!) without telling me. I have pretty much made all of my entries about him or being sad friends only now....but I almost find this unfair. Its not his right to know that I made a good grade on a test or had some fun with friends. He opted to be out of my life for now, so he shouldn't be allowed to read about it, should he?
Should I make my webjournal friends only now or what?
Re:what to do...about webjournals teacherwriterguy: You could make your entire webjournal friends only.
Or you could restart the webjournal under a new name and only release that new name to friends.
You can see the temptation though - you look at his AIM away messages to get a sense of how he's doing. He looks at your webjournal to get a sense of how you're doing. Letting go of those ties, no matter how tenuous, is very, very hard.
teacherwriterguy
Re:what to do...about webjournals annastarlet: i agree. I think I am just going to make the journal friends only...and he can't read it. I'd rather do that just because its too much trouble to change an account I've had for almost 3 years.
