Re:Online Dating! Beren: Count me in the unmatchable 20%.
Grizzly Beren
Re:Online Dating! Beren: I figured it was because of my lack of delta brain waves.
Grizzly Beren
Re:Online Dating! kissingkim: I won't do the match up things, they all want money. I figure the day I have to pay for romance.......
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Re:Online Dating! in_search_of: I did the eharmony thing, and according to them, I am pretty much compatible with everyone ... or at least I got a lot of matches. Part of the problem you might have had with Eharmony is that you are not eligible for their services until you are divorced, not separated etc. I am not sure if this is the case, but that could be one of the issues. I have met a few people on eharmony, and I had really good luck with it. I mean, I talked to a lot of people that I was not interested in, but I talked to a lot of people that I am. In fact one person that I met on there has become a good friend of mine, we live to far apart to make a good couple, and both of us are in school, so for right now, just chatting and being friends is working for us, and its a lot of fun. he is a great guy, and well, I enjoy talking to him.
It all goes to, its not meeting the right person (I truly believe that there is more than one right person out there) but meeting the right person at the right time.
Re:Online Dating! down south xhubbie: These online dating sites are pretty good at making you feel bad. Before joining them, I thought surely I'll make at least a few good matches. When I actually joined as a full member (broke out the credit card), I thought that it was cinch that I would meet at least a couple of dates.
What did it teach me? That I, apparently, have absolutely nothing to offer the fairer sex. :-[
Whenever my wife kept breaking my heart and telling me, "I don't love you anymore", I finally said, "well there is someone out there who will.. probably more than a few who will. " :o Wow did I ever have a rude awakening coming to me?
Also please remember that you shouldn't base your self esteem on mass appeal. As I told my mom when she was single, "it only takes one". That's still true for you, me, and any other undesirable rejects on here. ;) :)
Confidence can fool people also. On here, I let my guard down and let people know my innermost thoughts. At work, I'm a first class professional and project an air of confidence. Sometimes, in my moments of weakness, that little voice inside of me whispers, "you idiot. There probably laughing behind your back. You're ugly. You're stupid. Nobody takes you seriously. Your work is a joke. People wonder why you have confidence in yourself"
It's a bonus to have nice packaging, however, because then people might take time to get to know the real you. If a woman does that with me, I like to think that they will be very pleasantly suprised.
one already has ;D
although I think she may be mad at me right now :(
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