open letter to the other woman slowlearner: First, a big thank you for this opportunity for me to take the moral highground and say whatever I'm thinking without actually having to send the email. I know that what i'm saying/thinking is crap, but it's in my head and this is the safest way for me to get it out there.
This is the letter i'd like to send to the slapper who has walked off with my man.
Hello A**a,
I have a couple of questions for you, please answer yes or no, and feel free to add your comments.
1. Were you really SO desparate to get a man that it didn't matter to you that you were taking someone else's man?
2. Does it bother you that I'm paying the price for your happiness?
3. Is there any part of your tiny little little brain that tells you you are doing a really bad thing and that no good can come of it?
4. Is there anything you'd like to say to me in your own defence?
Just one more thing A**a, remember this, what goes around, comes around, and it's your turn next. I hope I'm here to see your pain.
Cheers A**a, here's to you getting what you so richly deserve!
ok, now all i have to do is resist the temptation to send it to her... but then again, why shouldn't I send it? I can't imagine it will give her any more than a moment of discomfort.
Shall we take a vote? To send or not to send?
Re:open letter to the other woman dolbaby1977: can i borrow that??? :) pleze!!!
Re:open letter to the other woman slowlearner: you can have it on one condition - if you get a reply, you post it here. ;D
seriously, i would love to know how the cheaters partner feels about what they do.. I can second guess what my ex would say, but I have no idea how a woman can live with herself knowing she has broken up a relationship that was between two other people.
Re:open letter to the other woman teacherwriterguy: Hi there,
Despite the temptation to send it, just a thought before you do:
What kind of response do you actually want to get? What's going to make you feel better?
The chances of getting an intelligble, well-thought out, honest response to the questions are probably nil.
The chance of hearing hurt/shame/guilt from the OW are probably pretty low.
Human beings being what they are, the most likely response (I'd bet) is something designed to be hurtful back at you - something that characterizes what's going on with your ex and this OW. Knowing that, do you want that response?
Just playing Devil's Advocate here, but having written an angry letter and gotten an angrier reply myself, it just made things worse rather than better.
teacherwriterguy
Re:open letter to the other woman heartbroken4: slowlearner
From experience, I can say that they feel guilty however they try to block it as much as possible, they are greedy! I went a confronted someone who I thought was my friend someone who I invited into my home, and she denied it all and acted like she had done nothing wrong. I learned to never do that again. It is not worth it.......they could care less how we feel they are happy so why should they care how we feel. I do agree with you on what goes around comes around!
HB4
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