Re:~Sometimes It Just Really Hurts~ Shanna: My family has tried to push me to be meaner to him and to not let him talk to the kids and blah blah blah....that isn't what is best for my kids, but they can't hear that...only their ideas can be heard....I must agree with them and take their opinion. All I want is for them to listen, give me their opinion and then let me make my own decisions without judging me on them.
I feel your pain!!
HUGS
Shanna
Re:~Sometimes It Just Really Hurts~ Sad Eyes: CPmommy~
You know I have said this a million times but I am going to say it again. Our situations are too much alike....it's freaky huh? I can't wait to meet you...we will have to much to talk about. But then again....I don't want to talk about that there. I just want to enjoy all the great ojar people that are going!
Did you say Chicago??? ;D :D (Thanks...I needed that!) ;)
Sully~
I hear you! Like I told my sister today....I want your advice...but please don't shove it down my throat and expect me to jump on it. I need to take time and make sure it's the right advice for me. My family is the same way. I wish they would just understand and support me. That's all I want.
Thanks again you guys...you are really helping me out!
Re:~Sometimes It Just Really Hurts~ CPmommy: Sad Eyes -
I just posted my pic on that other thread, under dating and single life (I think) so you can see what I look like (so you'll know who you're looking for!)
Less than a month!!! It'll be a blast!!
Re:~Sometimes It Just Really Hurts~ teacherwriterguy: Nobody is in your shoes, SE. Nobody can tell what it's like to be you, with your emotions, in your relationship.
I totally understand wanting to stick it out and really make sure that you are at peace with what you are doing.
I endured long conversations from my father about how my wife wasn't worthy, wasn't educated, wasn't good enough, why was I staying, etc. etc. Ultimately, I knew that it was about what I thought of myself - I wasn't going to feel okay with ending things unless I had seen it through all the way.
See ya in Chicago - we play a mean game of Scrabble. And if THAT's not enough to brighten anybody's day...
twg
Re:~Sometimes It Just Really Hurts~ Sad Eyes: TWF~ Thanks! I do need to do this for myself and nobody else...I don't want to regret anything...that is why I need to do it this way. Just makes it hard to have them do this to me...I am going through a hard time already, now is when I need them the most! But hey, what doesn't kill us will only make us stronger....Right? It better anyway.... ;) Hey, did you say Scrabble??? I am so there! Can't wait! It should be a great time! I so need that right now... :D
CPMommy~ Page 4 under my old name Favorite Angel...just so you know who to look for too! ;D
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