Has Anyone's STBX had an affair with another married person? A002702: My stbxw is having an affair with a married man and tried to tell her that she is on the wrong path. she says left me not b/c of the other man but b/c she fell out of love with me. That seems like the answer we all get, but she doesnt want to realize that she is not in love with me b/c she let herself have feelings for someone else. What came first, the chicken or the egg? Anyway, I was wondering if anyone else experienced this and if your stbx having an affair with a married person that the OM did not leave his/her wife/husband and they were left just being the mistress or the play toy? My stbxw says that she is doing shat is right for her and that she is happy. I am waiting for the day shere her life falls apart b/c of her choices like mine has.
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Re:Has Anyone's STBX had an affair with another married person? RecoveringinDE: My ex had an AE with a friend who was married and has a child herself. And she had cheated once (that I know of) before on her ex with another friend who was also married. My ex and the ow are still together. Figure that they deserve each other. Catch that? rofl.
Re:Has Anyone's STBX had an affair with another married person? Shanna: The OW in my story is married and they are supposedly working on their marriage. She won't leave her husband for my stbxh. My stbxh said to me I lost you both and now I am alone (or something like that). Stbxh and OW "accidently" sleep with one another if they are around each other and they jsut spent a month together and her kid is calling stbxh Daddy.....stbxh says wht he is doing isn't wrong bc OW's husband treats her bad and she just doesn't know any better and that is why she doesn't leave him. ::)
Anyway....Ow's husband knows they are still cheating, but loves her so much he is just going to deal with it until they PCS or he blows his lid and kills them both
Re:Has Anyone's STBX had an affair with another married person? caringmom: My ex had an affair with a married woman. Lasted probably a little over a year. He left us and got his own place so he could be with her. Funny thing happened, she left him after that because she didn't trust him. She said if he could do that to his family now, what's stopping him from doing it to her and her kids in the future.
She's happily married with her same husband, they never divorced. My ex is living all alone. I've moved on with my life, never to trust him again.
I think I ended up with the last laugh here. CM
Re:Has Anyone's STBX had an affair with another married person? st_david: Yes, my ex did the same exact thing - had an affair with a married man and said it happened b/c she didn't love me enough. Even she admits that there were no problems between us until he started pursuing her so I have my doubts. He didn't leave his wife so she can't help but feel used. In any case, you should realize that you are way too good for your ex and that you deserve to be with someone who is kind, honest and respectful. People who cheat lack those qualities and they end up with each other.
