Re:Time AloneandCold: I hear you there Lettingo. Lets see seperated March 31 2004. Divorce is final in the next two weeks. So really a year and not one single date. Like LettinGo I am ready, just have not had the opportunity.
Bug
Re:Time browngreen: Well, I'm not going to "date" for a long time, if ever.
But I moved out at Christmas and was asked to go out to play pool with a guy in my SCUBA class last week-- another classmate came as well, so it wasn't a date, but I met the first classmate yesterday to walk dogs, just as friends. Although I haven't clarified that with him, I'm pretty sure the feeling of friendship only goes both ways, which in my life is really somewhat rare so I really appreciate it.
(He's canadian-- maybe they are just more "friends first" oriented, if I may make an conclusion).
BG
Re:Time craez: i've been single for two and a half months now, and i'm not even REMOTELY interested in dating. i'm in NO hurry to go through this crap again.
besides, dating TERRIFIES me. i don't think it's fun AT ALL. so, i'm screwed. i'm gonna be alone the rest of my life, unless i just happen to meet a man who likes to hang out and fall in love that way. (that's the only way i'm comfortable doing it. you know, watching tv together, working out together, that sorta thing.) as a matter of fact, the prospect of dating scares me so badly, that the thought of being alone forever actually scares me less. IF you can imagine....i've NEVER liked dating. it's like getting a root canal. I HATE IT.
is it just me? it's just me, isn't it? nobody else dreads dating?
Re:Time Jennicole: nope, it aint just you craez..on our first date my H and i went to his house to watch a movie and he cooked me dinner. i had recently been in my car accident, so i had a limp. i totally played off that and said all i could really do was hang out. luckily he is the same way!
Re:Time kissingkim: Me too, me too! I have never dated, I married the men instead. lol
I have been divorced for nearly 3 months now, seperated for 7 months, and not one date. Now that I read what Christy had to say, I can totally relate to the gag factor when I finally do, hadn't really thought of what might happen. I could see that happening to me. I have met a few men online, and as soon as it comes to the point where we actually talk or plan to meet, I freeze up and delete him...so much easier than a 5 thousand dollar divorce!! LMAO My problem is since I have never dated I never matured into chit chat or flirting, just considered myself an old married woman. But I long for a real date, and look forward to spending some time with a man again. Right now I am too busy working and caring for my boys though, so no dating in my future. LIke some of you, I would need someone to literally show up at the door and ask to hang out. ;D Not bloody likely.
Oh yeah, married 10 years this last time, nearly 5 years the first time. Ugh.
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