Re: questions for both men and women allmixedup: Me and my ex have been working on things on and off. We are off but talking right now. She told me she was afraid to tell me how she feels about me with fear of rejection. So I tell her how I felt about her thinking it would make her feel better and she still won't say anything. Usually I just get, I'm sorry. Whan she says that all the time it is like a slap in the face. She'll do and say things that make me know a lot of her cares and wants me, but she won't come right out and say it. My head is about to explode lately.
Re: questions for both men and women justme15: I just wonder how to get him to talk. I have tried I love you and everything I can think of. Maybe one day he will see and at least give it a real second chance.
I just want to scream and kick something sometimes......lol
pooh
Re: questions for both men and women Chase: pooh,
the worst part is that slow realisation that you can't make them do anything... maybe he's confused, maybe he's determined and doesn't want to explain himself, maybe he just can't talk. It's a horrible hopeless feeling when you're trying and your partner doesn't seem to be, I'm so sorry!
Chase
Re: questions for both men and women justme15: Thanks Chase. I think he is depressed and doesn't want to admit it but I only know this because I went thru it myself for a year before I realized something was really wrong and had to get help from somewhere wasn't getting it from him. I have learned that in the last few days to just leave him alone and pray and have faith
pooh
Re: questions for both men and women Chase: My counsellor tells me that my behaviour over the last few years was symptomatic of depression too, and I know I had no idea what I was feeling, except I just wasn't interested in anything.. part of that was because my wife was slowly pushing me away, but who knows if that caused my depression, or if it was the other way around! What I do know is that now that I've finally worked it out, and want to talk, it looks like my wife is not interested. And I don't know if she ever really was, because she never talked to me about how she felt about our relationship during the time, just slowly shut me out of more and more of her life. Have you suggested to him that he see a counsellor? I sure wish I had started a year ago, instead of just recently.
Chase
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