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well the story goes like this.. i was well i am so inlove with the lad its un true. im nearly 17 and we've been together for nearly 2yrs until 2months ago i recieved a text message saying he doesnt want me anymore.. he loves me just doesnt want me. i cried for weeks until he turned up on my door asking to be friends. even though i knew the friend thing wouldnt work i went along with it as i thought that if we was friends maybe he might want me back after a while anyways. everytime he saw me smile he'd start making me feel down again by saying he loves me... i.e..so id get my hopes up and then be pushed away again. i really dont know what to do.. i dont have a bad life ive just started modeling and my friends are amazing. i feel so bad i just want to cry all day long... sometimes i even wonder why i am alive. i know people go though this all the timebut it feels like im alone in the world fighting.. but as soon as i get but up im pushed back again. if that makes sence.. i did see my ex last night and asked him just to leave me alown for a few days as i need to get this feeling to go away.. i just dont know if im doing the right thing.. i mean when will it be time to find someone.. ahh i need advise.. sorry for bothered every1. lisa.x
Re:i need advise so bad Stressed: Hi Hurting To Much -
As a mother of a teenager I want to speak to you as though you are my child, but I know you don't need or probably want that. All I can say is I was once your age and remember having my heart broken and crying my butt off wondering 'why me'?? I remember letting myself do this and feeling better after some time. You are not alone. So many people are feeling the way you are. The people around you may not be going through the same thing and they probably don't understand the hurt you are going through although I'm sure they try their best. You will feel better eventually - it's normal. It's like phases that you are going through right now and only time will heal.
I would suggest you just take time to focus on yourself and when the time is right, you'll find someone without even trying. Who knows, maybe even the lad you love so much.
You're no bother. This message board is here for you.
Take care.
Re:i need advise so bad exclusive: hey i no what your feeling, am 20 and we both are still young, still got alot of years for happyness,
am hurting and crying everyday because she is out having fun and has feelings for someone else, advice i can give you and i wish i could do the same is to, stay away from him, make him miss you, completly ignore him and start to :), am trying to do this, i know its hard but at the end of the day we have to face that they dont want us, but we are better and we will be loved by some one in the future,
good luck lisa and dont worry :)
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well the story goes like this.. i was well i am so inlove with the lad its un true. im nearly 17 and we've been together for nearly 2yrs until 2months ago i recieved a text message saying he doesnt want me anymore.. he loves me just doesnt want me. i cried for weeks until he turned up on my door asking to be friends. even though i knew the friend thing wouldnt work i went along with it as i thought that if we was friends maybe he might want me back after a while anyways. everytime he saw me smile he'd start making me feel down again by saying he loves me... i.e..so id get my hopes up and then be pushed away again. i really dont know what to do.. i dont have a bad life ive just started modeling and my friends are amazing. i feel so bad i just want to cry all day long... sometimes i even wonder why i am alive. i know people go though this all the timebut it feels like im alone in the world fighting.. but as soon as i get but up im pushed back again. if that makes sence.. i did see my ex last night and asked him just to leave me alown for a few days as i need to get this feeling to go away.. i just dont know if im doing the right thing.. i mean when will it be time to find someone.. ahh i need advise.. sorry for bothered every1. lisa.x
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If there is a positive in having your heart broke at this age it is that you in all likelyhood have a bunch of friends to vent to and to occupy your time. USE THEM!
