Re:Good the Bad and the Ugly soTiredOfHurting: I made mine before I made did my relationship autopsy. I also carried around a list in my planner called 'Reality Check' it contained various comments that she had made since she had left and the things that led up to her leaving. I was really trying to come to grips with would the relationship be worth saving, b/c I hate giving up. It was an eye opener for me. More has happened since I made that list, but since I am done there is no need to keep it anymore. It went in the trash alongside the last 2 pictures of her that I kept.
