Am I doing the right thing???? CPmommy: OK, guys, I feel nuts here!! STBX is still living with his parents and apparently they are having out of town guests this weekend. So he wants to stay at the house, with us. I told him no. He's asked me four times, I've told him no four times. He's asked me why and I've said, "Because I don't want you to!" and he says, "That's not a good reason." *%(@^$*#^%
Now, this is the same man, who when I was nice to him at our 6 yr old's birthday dinner, thought he was making some headway with me and we were getting back together.
I just don't want him there. I can't stand the sight of him. And I don't want to confuse the kids. Now he's telling me he wants ME to move out and HE'S going to take the kids from me because I'm not living in reality.
I'm just so drained. He makes me crazy.
Re:Am I doing the right thing???? Shanna: He is not your responsability....don't let him wear you down.
That being said my sTBXH is here staying for the weekend so he can spend time with the kids and I can still keep them alive....he is so irrresponsible I dont' trust him to take them.
Re:Am I doing the right thing???? soTiredOfHurting: Sully is right. You are responsible for you, not him. It sounds like he is using scare tactics on you since you won't let him have his way. Don't let him bully you. We are here for you.
Re:Am I doing the right thing???? dj: Heck yeah you are doing the right thing...he no longer lives there and you are NOT his backup plan! Hold strong cp!
Re:Am I doing the right thing???? CPmommy: Thanks, guys. He's definitely a big bully. And he makes ME feel like the crazy one.
I know what you mean, Sully. I don't trust him with the kids, either. It scares me.
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