Re: If I remember, you left me. LicoriceWhip: barelybreathing:
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Re: If I remember, you left me. hdad: down2basics,
To answer your questions you could see my first post or I could simply answer. 1. She told me she wanted out after I had taken a job transfer we had discussed and she had agreed to. I was then 150 miles away but still saw my son at least 2 days a week. 2.I have been paying more child support than was agreed to. Including some of her bills. I've stopped that. 3.As far as her "friend" goes he has always been lurking in the shadows. This was the person she went to for advice on our marriage when we were having trouble. I'm sure he gave her a good, honest, unbiased opinion.
Re: If I remember, you left me. down2basics: Hdad,
I am sorry I missed your original thread...I will go back and read it...again - sorry!
d2b
Re: If I remember, you left me. down2basics: ok - I consulted with my "friend" again - here's what he had to say...As I had stated before, he's the closest thing to an expert I can find on your given situation and I have found his insights quite valuable in my reconcilation of my divorce....
thanks! d2b
As you might have read in d2b's post, I'm not from this board, so I'm not really privy to your story. As you said in your thread-starting post, however, it's been awhile since you posted, so d2b probably wouldn't be familiar with your story even if I were a member of this board. If you're going to post, it's probably a good idea to provide a synopsis of your sitch for those of us who are neither psychic nor blessed with photographic memories...
That being said...
1) It's good that you have been maintaining regular visitation with your son. That speaks well of your commitment to your child.
2) It's also good that you've been paying child support. I understand that you've been paying more than the two of you agreed to, but have you been paying what the court will order when the D is final? If you haven't, you could be potentially liable for the difference from the date of separation when it goes to the judge. If you have, I recommend you stick with that, plus half of the required medical costs for the child, and let her deal with the rest...
3) It looks like she has been having an EA with her "friend". Do you know/suspect that it has become a PA yet? Do you want to know?
I guess the main question I have is: What do you want to happen here? Do you want to finish the divorce and move on, do you want to find a way to possibly reconcile, or is it something in-between? I really can't give you any kind of coherent response until you can answer that question.
Awaiting your response...
Phyxius
aka....hmmmm?
