Re:Why it's all worth it... OldSchool: dsxh,
Yeah, it sucks to not get responses but this is a test bud. I think Kellekae's original post was simple and very thoughtful at the same time. Just as I felt like my eyes were widened when my ex told me she didn't love me anymore, so they will again when the right person steps into my life.
I do believe to that the type of life you lead for yourself will attract the exact same person when that lucky lady does come into your life again. Do you want to be stuck in that rut, asking why, being pi$$ed and frustrated? No, none of us do, but it's ok to feel that way. Just don't let that thinking take over what is possible.
It is possible to love and lose that love also. Every positive has the negative, but with every negative has also a positive. You'll start seeing some more positives soon, and when you do all the time you've had to reflect and heal will serve it's purpose in the future.
OS
Re:Why it's all worth it... snowyheart: right on Kelle,
without love what's the point. that's why we will go through anything, wait as long as we have to, to have it. The real deal.
That's what makes divorce so damn hard, because we had love but lost it. Nothing is worse than losing love.Nothing is better than receiving it once again after a long drought.
thanks for the poem/expression/ramblings
Re:Why it's all worth it... whythisnow: Love is what keeps the universe going. It is the un-explained energy that pulses through every atom
and holds everything together. It is life, God, energy and matter rolled up into one.
Losing it is like losing the O2 we breath and that is why we are here on this board. To figure out how we lost it, why we lost it, and heal ourselves to get it again.
You can love your parnets and your children but loving another soul as a partner and wanting to unite as one is special. I have woken at 3am dreaming about like a ghost that taunts me from the past.
I am afraid to look for it because it hurt sooooo much when I lost it . Lust is a cheap imitation that has no worth.
Give me the strength to be pure of heart and worthy to find love again. It is the holy grail.
FIDO
