Re:Do they really know riversandlakes: [quote author=willow78 link=board=1;threadid=9031;start=0#msg71533 date=1111097121">
I also would take my stbx back in a second, and he knows that, he knows I still love him and that him living with her hurts me terribly. But all I get from him is" I can't make things right." " I have to live with what iv'e done." or, " You don't know what I think or feel."or, " If I could do it over I would do some things differently." He makes me feel like he has regrets and realizes his mistake. But even so, he still goes home to HER every night. I have to see him every day, and let me tell you that is so hard!! I also see her every day when I leave work, because we all work at the same place!!!! I guess you can go back to the old adage, " Actions speak louder than words." I still hold onto hope anyway because I still feel very close to him, like we still have a connection, I guess any thing can happen right? Most likely not though, even though statistics show that only 3% of extramarital affairs stay constant. What do we do????????? :-\
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Oh, willow. What is there to do? It's a blur line between intuition and false hope. Till today I still hope for her to return and we can rebuild our broken world...at the very least I can continue living now, just the missing and hurt are too overwhelming at times :-\ :'( :'(
What is there to do? Continue living, and hope for the best, yet realize - waa... - he/she might not return - ever :-\ :-\ :'(
Re:Do they really know legionuvdoom: Maybe sometimes two people are in a bad relationship, or one or both of them are in it for the wrong reasons, but is cheating and abandoning your partner really a justifiable solution to ending the relationship? Especially if the cheater pretended nothing was wrong. And i don't think dropping "hints" once in awhile is enough. Some people don't realize you're dropping hints. Why can't people be straightforward and honest, before they start seeing another person?
