Re:Do they really know soTiredOfHurting: You will get ther in your own time RaL, thanks though for pointing that out. Healed has a nice ring to it. You will get there too. Good luck and Godspeed in your journey.
Re:Do they really know auminer: Thxs for the support, Its only been since january that I feel like its truly over..sometimes... I wonder how she will feel when she knows im involved with someone.. Maybe reality will set in for her..
Re:Do they really know soTiredOfHurting: Auminer - By then it most likely will not matter to you if she reacts to you dating someone else. You won't be doing it out of spite, but because you are ready to. So the importance of her realizing will have diminished. Right now it is harder because it sounds like you still hold onto hope. When you are ready you will go to the next stage of healing. Only when you are ready. Once you look back you will be surprised to see how far you have come. I know I have been.
Re:Do they really know justme15: Hope you guys don't mind a women jumping in
I don't really think they do realize it till even the kids won't talk to them. Mine is about a jerk and half but Think that now that I have broke contact with him is finally getting smart. I don't know how things will turn out for anyone on this board but do know that one way or the other everyone will better for what they are going thru. In a perfect world everyone would be happy forever. I am going thru the same as you but he is the one wanting out. He also knows he could have me back. I know this is not much help but hope you know that everyone here is here for you.
Just remember whatever you do make sure it comes from your heart. Be true to you and the rest will fall into place
"hugs"
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Re:Do they really know auminer: My problem is that IM still there for her. If she needs help oim there etc.. Of course for the kids sake Id do anything.. I still talk to her about things about the past.. Perhaps its better if I limit the contact with her. I know I dont want to know what she is doing but curiosity gets the better of me..From what Ive read limiting contact is a good thing.. sigh... best friend and no contact .. not a pleasant thought...I firmly believe she finds it easier because she has theis other guy to talk to. feel for.
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