Re:OMG...again? ambergem: Well...let's just say I have a theory that having kids is a bit like an insurance policy for her - especially since he and I are still technically married.
Re:OMG...again? AloneandCold: They are on their second child and you are still married? And how in the world would she think that would matter since it obviously didn't for him with you?
Re:OMG...again? ambergem: Well...this is the woman who moved in on my ex almost immediately after we split up...I don't think logic had much to do with anything they've done so far...
I think that he will never leave - I had to break it off because he didn't want to "fail" at being married...um yeah, I think cheating qualifies as "failing" don't you?
Must confess of course that he isn't entirely to blame - we both made our share of bad choices!
Re:OMG...again? AloneandCold: I don't think except in very rare cases it is everyone just one person to blame.
Dang. that has to be hard for your kids, too much adjustment in too short a space of time. Does he at least focus on them at all when they are there?
And yes cheating is definitly "failing" I would think.
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