Re:Going through a difficult time... snowyheart: mt2a, How are ya?
So, are you wanting a divorce from your husband? If so please state the reason. Other than you think he might be cheating or he hit on your sister. those aren't valid reasons for divorce. IMHO. It's hard to have your life turned upside down, but it's also a good time to prioritize. Family intact comes first in my book. Ahead of all of our personal wants and desires(ie grad school). Are you two separated?
Simply my 2cents
Re:Going through a difficult time... AmyMarie1972: Hi,
I am so sorry to hear about your situation. Staying married to someone for convienience leads to an unhappy life. What you really need to do is to forget about everything else other than what would make you happiest in the long run. Don't stay with your husband because of the children or for financial support. It is important that you stay with him because you want to. What will your life be like if you do stay with him? Will you be forever checking up on him, driving yourself crazy wondering what he is up to because your education will suffer if your head is full of questions. You will not be able to concentrate. When you have decided whether you can forgive him or not then you can worry about your next move. There are ways around every problem but you must first decide what you want and whether you can live with the decision that you make.
I wish you all the luck in the world.
Re:Going through a difficult time... snowyheart: Before you decide on what you Want, try to find out if it's Right. Right preceeds everything else. If it ain't right it's going to turn ugly down the road.
Wouldn't you agree? :)
