Re:What would you do? AmyMarie1972: Thanks guys for your advice. I will leave it, although it is still tempting.
As for divorce he does not want to get a divorce as neither one of us can at the moment afford it although I am hopefully getting a job soon and I will find the money.
Just a thought though, if you were seeing someone and their ex knew that they were cheating on you wouldn't you want to know? OK she might not believe me because of who I am but if it came from another source wouldn't you want to be told?
Re:What would you do? caringmom: Thanks RAL, the real funny part was, getting even felt better than sleeping with him ever did.
AmyMarie1972, yes I would want to be told. I just don't think you should put yourself in that position. As good as it might feel to you at the time, you have children you have to think of, and as ww9111 said, you shouldn't rock the boat any more than it has been. Let him make the mistakes, don't stoop to his level.
My opinion too. :)
Re:What would you do? ww9111: Amy:
Just a quick note on your divorce, if things are not complicated and you both can agree on everything then you should be able to do it pro se.
Here in Pennsylvania the Clerk of the Court even has pre-printed divorce complaints that you simply put your name on and write them a check for $120 for the fees.
Dunno what your situation is but thought I would offer this information in the event it is helpful.
As to your question, yes I would want to know, but the problem is the messenger. From her point of view you have your husband to gain and so she probably wouldn't want to believe you anyway. He would spin it as you trying to break them up.
Re:What would you do? slowlearner: Hi Amy,
I can fully understand the temptation, I'd have trouble thinking of a single reason not to get this little bit of revenge. But hey, you could hurt her a little bit by telling her this, but your ex will one day hurt her a lot more than you ever could.
If revenge is what your after, don't worry, your ex will take it for you sooner or later.
Re:What would you do? Ladybug: Any woman who goes after a married man and especially a married man with children is Trash!! If you tell her, you might enjoy seeing the pain on her face at that moment, but in the long run, you’ll be doing her a favor. She doesn't deserve it. I wouldn't tell her.
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