I em still not over him???what should I do!!!

I em still not over him???what should I do!!! yesi: HEY THIS IS MY STORY
I MET MY EX-BOYFRIEND 4 YEARS AGO AND I JUST STARED TO GO OUT WITH HIM.EVERYTHIGN WAS FINE THE SEX THE KISSING THE TALKING I MEAN EVERYTHING WAS FINE I DONT KNOW WHAT HAPPEND HE STARTED TO CHANGE WITH ME HE WOULD FIGHT WITH ME EVERY TIME HE SAW ME HE WOULD BLAME EVERYTHING THAT HE DID WRONG SO WE TALKED AND WE SAID IT WOSENT GOING TO WORK OUT FOR US. I EM REALY SAD ABOUT IT!!!!! I STILL THINK ABOUT HIM I STILL HAVE FELLINGS TOWARDS HIM HOW DO I GET HIM OF MY MIND HOW CAN I STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM I NEED SOME ONE TO TELL ME HOW TO DO ALL OF THIS THINGS HELP ME PLEASE !!!!![color=Pink"> [/color">
Re:I em still not over him???what should I do!!! r7: Me and my xbf were dating for 5 years, and were making plans, but finishing school first, I thought everything was going great, he caught me completely off guard when he announced 2 months ago that "if we don't take some time apart before we get married, we may regret it". Well, he's started doing really stupid things, so I'm not holding my breath!

I guess what I'm trying to say is you're not alone. I think about him constantly. It does get better with time, the downs get less down, and the highs get further up! And it helps if you surround yourself with friends who treat you well, so that you can see how you should be treated. Stay busy!! Work out! Those are great distractions. You can pm me and I pretty much always stay signed on aim if you need to talk. Seriously. I know what it feels like to feel alone and feel like there is nobody to talk to and nobody to understand. So, feel free! ~r7

Re:I em still not over him???what should I do!!! Dino: hey there yesi
my ex left me out of the blue 3 months ago for another guy. dated 6.5 years and owned a home together.

you are going to have feelings for your ex for a while. it sucks to hear but it gets better with time. i still think about my ex all the time but it doesnt hurt as much anymore.
i found the best way for myself was to spend as much time with friends as possible. i lived with a friend for a week right after the breakup. that helped me so much