Re:Should I apply for a divorce? AmyMarie1972: Well he has just informed me that him and the ow are moving in together. He left just 7 weeks ago he says not for her but that I think now is a load of sh*t.
Re:Should I apply for a divorce? riversandlakes: Hail Amy,
I don't know about using divorce as tit-for-tat to get back at him - making him pay or run around or do all the dirty work...
How about your healing? Won't divorce give you a sense of a clean cut and peace of mind? If so, why not...
Amy, surely you have heard of "emotional girlfriend" or "safety net" or whatever they call it these days...
Re:Should I apply for a divorce? AmyMarie1972: Yes Rivers,
That is my main concern that he is using me as a safety net if it doesn't work out between him and the OW.
But here it is I dont want to let that happen.
Would divorcing him be the way to go to let him know that?
I don't know. You see one of the problems that I have is will I be string enough to tell him no if it doesn't work out between him and the OW. At the end of the day he has chosen her over me. I always told him that I would never come in second place. Ain't gonna happen. So yes I am strong enough to tell him No.
I just feel as though divorce says that's it finnished and I will be able to move on with my life, but then what if it doesn't. So much confussion and doubt as to what is the best way to go. I know that grasping every piece of hope that we would get back together is really not doing me any good and I have got to let go completely.
Why did life have to get so complicated?
Re:Should I apply for a divorce? riversandlakes: Why? :(
I don't need your sympathy
There's nothing you can say or do for me
And I don't want a miracle
You'll never change for no one
I hear you reasons why
Where did you sleep last night?
And was she worth it, was she worth it?
Chorus :
Now I'm strong enough to live without you
Strong enough and I quit crying long enough
Now I'm strong enough to know you gotta go
There's no more to say
So save your breath
And then walk away
No matter what I hear you say
I'm strong enough to know you gotta go
Re:Should I apply for a divorce? AmyMarie1972: Thanks again Rivers
What song is that?
Sounds as though it was written for me.
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