He is just a SOAB AmyMarie1972: Now I am relly really pi**ed with him. He is a complete SOAB that I really wish had never entered into my life. He is a complete and utter waste of space and I really do hope that he has the worst life that anybody can have.
I phoned him up because our that is OUR 8 year old son has really lost it. He has gone on a major destruction around the house and is really hurting the 2 younger kids by thumping and hitting them. He has been like this since his dad left and he blames me for his dad going. Well all that the a$$h**e had to say was I will talk to him about it the next time I see him. My son ran away yesterday, was gone for an hour. When I eventually found him he said that he wants to live with his Dad he doesn't want to be with me.
Of course I dont want to let go of my son, but I would still see him virtually every day if he lived with his father and I have got to think of the younger kids. They have bruises where my son has hit them. The bedroom that they share has been totally trashed.
My husband said when he left that he would be happy to take any of the children with him. I of course at the time said no. Well he has now decided that he doesn't want any of the kids. It would interfere to much with his new found social life and with his new girlfriend. His son needs him and he has turned his back on them.
He is a total and utter D***head. How the f**k can he just turn his back on his children all because of her. How can anybody do this.
I so feel right now that I want to rip off his head. What a bas***d.
Re:He is just a SOAB tyrogers: Let it out girl!!!! My ex has made threats about taking our daughter from me.......has he yet? Well, of course not! Why? Because he is too busy with his new wife and her three (3) kids (two of which are his). I mean, come on, like he REALLY wants to take on yet another child? In a 3 bedroom trailer? PU-LEEZZZZ. My ex just does it to try to get me pi**ed off. Plain and simple. When I don't argue back he gets really mad...I LOVE it!!! My first thought.....give him a little time.....by the end of the day, he will realize what is going on and be a little more cooperative. He just wanted to pi** you off and make you mad because that way he knows he still has control over you. I know it sounds twisted but sometimes that is how the other party (regardless of male or female) thinks.
CHIN UP!!!
((BIG HUGS))
BBH - Tyleena ("Ty")
Way Down South in 'Bama
Re:He is just a SOAB AmyMarie1972: Thanks buba. I know that I have got to let him stop getting to me, but now the kids are involved and you know what it is like to be a mom you fight tooth and nail for them
Will try and stop
Re:He is just a SOAB tyrogers: Trust me, I know how it is when the children are involved. I fight with that every day! It gets rough. I know. Just remember that you are better than he is in every way!!! When it gets too rough, vent on here, let it all out, count to ten, take deep breaths! I do the breathing thing quite frequently!!
BBH
Re:He is just a SOAB Ladybug: Same here girls. My XH has said awful things to me about what kind of mother I am. Before we went to court, he was always threatening to take them from me. We live in his home town. It's pretty small and his family is pretty well connected. He said things like "how many character witnesses do you think I could get" and "Who do you think they are going to believe?" He was trying to intimidate me. He knows that he's family connections bug me a little. I just went to the school and got all the conference notices and report cards etc that were ALL signed by me and told him to give it his best shot. It didn't even come up in court. The Dumba$$
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