what am i doing?!? craez: i'm so confused. i feel like i have no clue what i should be doing. i don't want to "date", but that's because i don't want a boyfriend? and what's the point of going out with someone if you know it's only gonna be once or twice? do you think i'm scared? maybe i'm scared. sometimes i think it's too soon, but other times i feel like if i don't throw myself back out there, i'm NEVER gonna do it! i don't know what to do!
i texted The Fireman. i'm thinking about asking if he wants to go to a movie with me tonight. i figure since i waited to the last minute, i'm buying the ticket, and i can make him meet me there instead of picking me up, that it's not really a date. but then again, what's the point of "hanging out"???
i think i'm really f-ed up in the head about dating and love now. i have no clue what to do. i don't know how to casually date without developing feelings. (it seems like my guy roommate is SO good at it.....)
does anyone think i'm overreacting or being ridiculous? (it's ok if you do. i clearly need help and am asking for it.)
Re:what am i doing?!? tyrogers: Hmmm.......Overreacting?? No. Overanalyzing? Maybe. Don't put so much thought into the actual definition of the word "dating" or "relationship" or "boyfriend". Just go with the flow. I know, I know....easier said than done! If you only go out with someone once or twice that is not bad! Everyone needs buddies. If you go out with someone and they ask about being exclusive and you don't want to, well then let them know. If they are worth your time, you won't lose them.
JUST GO WITH IT GIRL!!!!!!!!
BBH - Tyleena ("Ty")
Way Down South in 'Bama
Re:what am i doing?!? craez: aww...thanks for responding. i DO get myself worked up, don't i? sometimes i need someone to slap me and shake my shoulders and say, "GET AHOLD OF YOURSELF, WOMAN! YOU'RE LOSING IT!"
i love ojar. i REALLY really appreciate your calm and rational insight. i feel like i'm 12 sometimes.
Re:what am i doing?!? tyrogers: I need that shake every now and then too!!! I love OJar as well. Sort of keeps my head on straight sometimes. Trust me though....when you overanalyze....it just makes your stress level skyrocket. HOWEVER, we are women and I think it is just in our genes to overanalyze everything.
:-* BBH
Re:what am i doing?!? craez: i wouldn't need to overanalyze that stick of dynomite we were talking about yesterday! haha.....
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