Blankety blank late car payment dj: Alright...against my better judgement, I let my ex refinance her car last spring (she had moved out but we were still together) and put me on her loan. She couldn't have refinanced on her own and as I said, we WERE still together but I had misgivings.
Now, she is late with her payment...again...and I have the bank calling me telling me that they need payment in the next six days or else they will report us to the credit bureau...GRRRRRRRRR! Hells bells...I don't have the dang money. Why can't she just refinance? I've been so nice to her about this and I am thinking it is time for me to get pissed off here. I'm waiting for her to call me back so I'm just trying to get some of my frustration out before I talk to her....GRRRRRR!
Re:Blankety blank late car payment soTiredOfHurting: I hope that this does not come across as me trying to rub it in...that is not my intention at all. However this that you share just makes me so thankful that me and the STBXW have no joint bills. I would be in the same boat as you, my Ex can not handle her money at all. That was another reason why we never got a joint account.
Sorry to hear that you are going through this.
