Ex's ! pisces_goddess: Well here's an update.. As if it is not bad enough to have 1 ex I have 2 *L* Someone on here said 80% of 2nd marriages end in divorce.. Well I am the poster child for that statement. First ex sends me papers yesterday that he is taking me back to court to have his $40 a week child support reduced.. I only received my first payment in 2 years the other day. I dont know whether to laugh or go kick him! He see's his kids 6 hours a month.. His choice not mine.. Just wanting to play "Disney land" dad.. THen! Ex #2 tells me.. Well if the woman is the one that chooses to leave the marriage then why should the man still have to financially support the child (we have 1 together) bc it was her choice to leave she should just have to do it. WTF?? I dont know where I picked these losers .. but I sure as hell am going to try not to make the same mistake a 3rd time.. I want to knock both of their heads together & tell them to grow the F*** up already!
Re: Ex's ! JASPER: What @ssholes!It's a good thing your moving on with your life.I'm shocked to hear you have to ex's I guess it don't get any easier the second time around.I guess you better take extra care in picking the next time around. Isn't it wierd how for some reason it seems we are always attracted to the same kind of people.So watch out for the wierdos!
Re: Ex's ! hurtingverymuch: ditto with Jasper.
So what if you left, there probably was no other alternative but for you to leave. The child is still his and he needs to help support it. No kidding he needs to grow up.
My kid wants to get a dog, s2bx tells him it's not a good idea cause no one is home all day. He may be right but you know what, in my opinion, he's the one who chose to leave and he's not living with us, what the hell does it matter to him, and what right does he have to tell us whether we can get a pet or not. Sorry, I know that this problem is much smaller than yours, but it just irritates me when he thinks he can still tell me what I can do. >:(
Anyway, I hope everything turns out for you. Good luck and take care.
Hurt
Re: Ex's ! down2basics: You know - the point your x's are missing is - YOU'D STILL BE THERE HAD THEY ACTED LIKE HUSBANDS and not RETARDS!!! Duh!!! (imagine a big capital "L" on their foreheads!!!)
I know exactly what you mean - my x threatened me with that - but his parents won't let him....they are again taking the moral high road - they "take care of their responsibilities" - Coddswallop!!! They can't even spell responsibility!!!
Hang in their sweetie! We are all pulling for you!
d2b
Re: Ex's ! JimB:
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Coddswallop!!! [/quote">
Is that a technical term? :P
