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"for the best...." "for the best....".
anger anger.
Why do I still feel like I have to be nice? Why do I still feel like I have to be nice?.
A year ago today.. A year ago today...
Feeelings & Manipulation Feeelings & Manipulation.
How do you let go? How do you let go?.
Jilted Jilted.
New Here really need u'r support New Here really need u'r support.
I am just plain MAD! I am just plain MAD!.
Any leave"ers" with regrets? Any leave"ers" with regrets?.
Trying to be friends? Trying to be friends?.
Week of reflection... Week of reflection....
Calling all Guys - Identity Crises Calling all Guys - Identity Crises.
separated and talking? separated and talking?.
Feelings of Losing it All Feelings of Losing it All.
Addiction Addiction.
What do I do NOW? What do I do NOW?.
x families x families.
My infamous ex... My infamous ex....
What do you like about not being married What do you like about not being married.
Recently Seperated Recently Seperated.
Separated a year - what a year it's been Separated a year - what a year it's been.
Take care of YOU...HOW?? Take care of YOU...HOW??.
Sad Sad.
Thanks for the prayers & good wishes! Thanks for the prayers & good wishes!.
we talked again... we talked again....
So The Possible Truth Comes Out So The Possible Truth Comes Out.
Drugs Anyone? Drugs Anyone?.
should marriage be 'work'? should marriage be 'work'?.
seperated seperated.
IS IT TO SOON TO DATE! IS IT TO SOON TO DATE!.
separated and confused (long!) separated and confused (long!).
She Filed Today She Filed Today.
ARE YOU CRAZY OR WHAT? ARE YOU CRAZY OR WHAT?.
Wish me luck! Wish me luck!.
What do you miss about being married..not ex? What do you miss about being married..not ex?.
Getting ready to take my kids back to the EX Getting ready to take my kids back to the EX.
I AM HAPPY! THANK YOU I AM HAPPY! THANK YOU.
Was this adultery? Was this adultery?.
Leaning on family Leaning on family.
Really Alone! Really Alone!.
What can I expect? What can I expect?.
ex's remarriage ex's remarriage.
I told her how I really feel Part II I told her how I really feel Part II.
My Story My Story.
we had the talk we had the talk.
Hate a hidden factor? Hate a hidden factor?.
I told her how I really feel I told her how I really feel.
Mental Illness---Bipolar Mental Illness---Bipolar.
separated too separated too.
Does Trust Die Forever? Does Trust Die Forever?.
OBSESSED OBSESSED.
can the leopard change its spots? can the leopard change its spots?.
Divorce if Final Divorce if Final.
A Hard Time Dealing A Hard Time Dealing.
Update Update.
happy anniversary to moi happy anniversary to moi.
home home.
No Wonder I am going Crazy No Wonder I am going Crazy.
The "Defining" Moment The "Defining" Moment.
made my bed? made my bed?.
Jumbled Feelings Jumbled Feelings.
What I've learned What I've learned.
Nightmares vs. DAYmares Nightmares vs. DAYmares.
I nwas such a sucker.. I nwas such a sucker...
I was such a sucker partt II I was such a sucker partt II.
Mixed emotions Mixed emotions.
who to tell? who to tell?.
now what ... now what ....
Seemingly endless train wreck with an ex... Seemingly endless train wreck with an ex....
When to start 'dating'? When to start 'dating'?.
Update Update.
Good Day/Bad Day Good Day/Bad Day.
Should I Call? Should I Call?.
SENDING LOVE SENDING LOVE.
LOSING MY MIND - NEED LAW ADVICE! LOSING MY MIND - NEED LAW ADVICE!.
Anniversary Anniversary.
Children Children.
New Here New Here.
so now what do i do with it? so now what do i do with it?.
BEING ASKED TO GO SOMEWHERE BEING ASKED TO GO SOMEWHERE.
New at this New at this.
Need Support Need Support.
STANDSTEAL! STANDSTEAL!.
alone alone alone alone alone alone.
some of you out there in the same position? some of you out there in the same position?.
If I remember, you left me. If I remember, you left me..
traveling alone traveling alone.
MAILED PAPERS BACK TO HER LAWYER MAILED PAPERS BACK TO HER LAWYER.
Idealism Idealism.
Detachment Detachment.
Fake it 'Till you Make It Fake it 'Till you Make It.
X'S FOR FRIENDS? X'S FOR FRIENDS?.
BAD DAY BAD DAY.
the apartment the apartment.
Does Moving Away Help? Does Moving Away Help?.
separating separating.
DEFINING MOMENT - STILL DEPRESSED DEFINING MOMENT - STILL DEPRESSED.
Ex's ! Ex's !.
Ex still can upset me.... Ex still can upset me.....
and still be friends.... and still be friends.....
So Angry and HURT!!!!!!!!!! So Angry and HURT!!!!!!!!!!.
Losing "IT" Losing "IT".
just wanted to share just wanted to share.
hypothetical relationship hypothetical relationship.
it's been a few months... it's been a few months....
Crashed and Burned Crashed and Burned.
tired tired.
the house the house.
Grief Over Going Back to Work & Not Being with DD Grief Over Going Back to Work & Not Being with DD.
Ouch! It really hurts! Ouch! It really hurts!.
Just received papers today Just received papers today.
Me Me.
Thoughts... Thoughts....
Nothing To Say Nothing To Say.
STALKER MODE STALKER MODE.
Been separated almost a month now Been separated almost a month now.
don't know what to say don't know what to say.
How do you keep going in terms of work? How do you keep going in terms of work?.
where am I where am I.
What To Do What To Do.
Convincing Convincing.
Order of Protection (Restraint Order)? Order of Protection (Restraint Order)?.
Crying Crying.
Single parenthood stinks Single parenthood stinks.
STUCK STUCK.
Timetable For My Recovery Timetable For My Recovery.
FINAL DIVORCE FINAL DIVORCE.
GETTING BETTER GETTING BETTER.
Tearing At My Heart Tearing At My Heart.
People asking how you feel People asking how you feel.
June 26th, 2003 June 26th, 2003.
Had a bad day... Had a bad day....
FUTURE POSTS FUTURE POSTS.
EMOTIONAL PAIN EMOTIONAL PAIN.
THE NEED TO BELONG THE NEED TO BELONG.
When do the dreams stop? When do the dreams stop?.
MAKING PROGRESS MAKING PROGRESS.
Internet Activity Internet Activity.
My story My story.
NOT SURE WHAT IS GOING ON NOT SURE WHAT IS GOING ON.
There is light..... There is light......
Update Update.
Advice from me: RUN from blind dates...... Advice from me: RUN from blind dates.......
10 Yrs today 10 Yrs today.
BURDEN BURDEN.
THE NERVE! THE NERVE!.
Still in her Clutches Still in her Clutches.
Confidence to overcome Confidence to overcome.
I won't be making many friends with this. I won't be making many friends with this..
I'm a mess I'm a mess.
TRIPPING! TRIPPING!.
am i normal am i normal.
What do I really want? What do I really want?.
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY? HAPPY ANNIVERSARY?.
but I'm not the one who wants the divorce... but I'm not the one who wants the divorce....
Whoa...I could really use some help here... Whoa...I could really use some help here....
How to rebuild or do you let go? How to rebuild or do you let go?.
AM I WRONG? AM I WRONG?.
Why is it so EASY for him? Why is it so EASY for him?.
Hurting... Hurting....
Anyone want to talk? Anyone want to talk?.
trusting again trusting again.
Name Change Name Change.
Violent wreck this weekend :( Violent wreck this weekend :(.
question question.
Still Riding on the Crazy Train Still Riding on the Crazy Train.
where to go from here where to go from here.
A disaster growing bitter A disaster growing bitter.
Reaching out for a little hlep Reaching out for a little hlep.
Do people really change? Do people really change?.
Update Update.
I'm back I'm back.
this is crazy! this is crazy!.
Moving on and meeting someone Moving on and meeting someone.
Getting sad again Getting sad again.
Ex showed up at my house tonight... Ex showed up at my house tonight....
First Lawyer Meeting First Lawyer Meeting.
On a merry-go-round On a merry-go-round.
is there ANYTHING I can do? is there ANYTHING I can do?.
So sick of being jealous! So sick of being jealous!.
devastated devastated.
STAND UP AND BE A MAN! STAND UP AND BE A MAN!.
Divorced in Indiana Divorced in Indiana.
Having a hard time letting go. Having a hard time letting go..
All dishonesty hurts, doesn't it??? All dishonesty hurts, doesn't it???.
My Story My Story.
Man how pathetic Man how pathetic.
Newly Separated Newly Separated.
what if cheaters had a message board? what if cheaters had a message board?.
Can't believe it Can't believe it.
Holding my breath and crossing my fingers... Holding my breath and crossing my fingers....
last and final offer! last and final offer!.
To Everyone - Thanks To Everyone - Thanks.
paperwork done! paperwork done!.
Birthday Birthday.
what I did wrong... what I did wrong....
Just starting this Just starting this.
today just sucks... today just sucks....
should we split should we split.
what's goin on? what's goin on?.
thought I was doing better thought I was doing better.
I GOT A PLAN! I GOT A PLAN!.
Would it be worth it? Would it be worth it?.
Just Go away? Just Go away?.
Tomorrow is the big day for me. Hurray!! Tomorrow is the big day for me. Hurray!!.
Why me? Why me?.
Happy Father's Day Happy Father's Day.
Virtual Daddy Virtual Daddy.
New here, seperated, trying to decide New here, seperated, trying to decide.
I refuse to let my STBX bother me I refuse to let my STBX bother me.
why on earth..very theraputic why on earth..very theraputic.
Had counseling first time last night Had counseling first time last night.
Strange e-mail Strange e-mail.
divorce was final a month ago... divorce was final a month ago....
He married me to convince himself he wasn't gay. He married me to convince himself he wasn't gay..
Does anyone else? Does anyone else?.
I thought my s2bx had a heart, i was wrong I thought my s2bx had a heart, i was wrong.
flip-flop with friends flip-flop with friends.
today is just a bad day today is just a bad day.
I'm back and feel BAD! I'm back and feel BAD!.
his friends and exgirlfriends his friends and exgirlfriends.
Pure Insanity Pure Insanity.
normal, i suppose? normal, i suppose?.
my story - first post my story - first post.
Going to be famous ;) Going to be famous ;).
divorce in the family? divorce in the family?.
Feeling distant Feeling distant.
My X is a lunatic My X is a lunatic.
new to the board, still married new to the board, still married.
wedding pictures? wedding pictures?.
stbX injured stbX injured.
need to vent need to vent.
am i wrong? am i wrong?.
breakthrough dream #2 breakthrough dream #2.
In love with a fantasy In love with a fantasy.
I'm never going to be divorced! I'm never going to be divorced!.
how soon is too soon? how soon is too soon?.
He's gone...and I'm ok! He's gone...and I'm ok!.
Two months of a roller coaster ride Two months of a roller coaster ride.
Home alone. Home alone..
sorry guys sorry guys.
I'm Loosing My Husband and My Best Friend I'm Loosing My Husband and My Best Friend.
Best lawyer story of the year Best lawyer story of the year.
Quote of the day Quote of the day.
a sad, beautiful song a sad, beautiful song.
Popular standards Popular standards.
Let 'Er Rip Let 'Er Rip.
An oldie, but goody... An oldie, but goody....
Daddy Dear Daddy Daddy Dear Daddy.
Better Off Dead Better Off Dead.
here's one that's depressing here's one that's depressing.
In Light of My Confrontations W/ Ex... In Light of My Confrontations W/ Ex....
A funny quote... A funny quote....
Remember What These Say... Remember What These Say....
Favorite Funny Quotes Favorite Funny Quotes.
thought you all might enjoy this.... thought you all might enjoy this.....
My favorite poem... My favorite poem....
Singing My Song Singing My Song.
Something about attachment... Something about attachment....
A Mix A Mix.
songs that help songs that help.
Life is a Highway Life is a Highway.
My Empowerment Song of the Day My Empowerment Song of the Day.
The Hardest Part of Love The Hardest Part of Love.
I Dare You To Move I Dare You To Move.
Serenity... Serenity....
Every Single Tear Every Single Tear.
Go Your Own Way Go Your Own Way.
Don't Tell Me What Love Can Do... Don't Tell Me What Love Can Do....
Numb Numb.
Disturbed - Liner Notes Disturbed - Liner Notes.
from the crow soundtrack from the crow soundtrack.
Fighter - Christina Aguilera Fighter - Christina Aguilera.
Frank the Tank - Old School Frank the Tank - Old School.
Scars of Life Scars of Life.
Symptoms anyone? Symptoms anyone?.
Get some oxygen. Get some oxygen..
Stomach problems? Stomach problems?.
Sports! Sports!.
NIGHTMARES!!! NIGHTMARES!!!.
anxiety anyone? anxiety anyone?.
Alchohol Alchohol.
Does anyone else want to? Does anyone else want to?.
Panic attacks Panic attacks.
prozac? prozac?.
Too Tired Too Tired.
Well...currently Well...currently.
Help, I want to call her !!! Help, I want to call her !!!.
Get inspired by something bigger than yourself Get inspired by something bigger than yourself.
fight club? fight club?.
Stairway to Heaven? Stairway to Heaven?.
Really weird dream Really weird dream.
What has helped me... What has helped me....
How do you start over? How do you start over?.
Treat yourself to a massage! Treat yourself to a massage!.
Insomnia Insomnia.
I am just short of a major melt down I am just short of a major melt down.
Joined a Gym Joined a Gym.
I don't know if I'm dealing with it or not... I don't know if I'm dealing with it or not....
paper paper.
This site is great! I need this now. This site is great! I need this now..
I don't deal with it well.... I don't deal with it well.....
Not the best choice Not the best choice.
the grief the grief.
This has been my salvation. This has been my salvation..
Ways I deal with stress Ways I deal with stress.
Serenity prayer? Serenity prayer?.
think about what I used to do.... think about what I used to do.....
It will get better!! It will get better!!.
Alcohol-me too Alcohol-me too.
Glowing Glowing.
Friends can be so wonderful! Friends can be so wonderful!.
Walking (almost) Walking (almost).
Renee and the rest of you Renee and the rest of you.
I have the greatest kid in the world!! I have the greatest kid in the world!!.
kid stuff kid stuff.
Ran a 10K on the 4th Ran a 10K on the 4th.
Graduating Graduating.
more fitness stuff more fitness stuff.
Today's lesson: get out and do something! Today's lesson: get out and do something!.
Independence at last Independence at last.
My kids are coming to live w/me. HOORAY!! My kids are coming to live w/me. HOORAY!!.
Anger Mgmt Anger Mgmt.
Something wonderful did happen Something wonderful did happen.
A few things that made me feel great.... A few things that made me feel great.....
I did it! I did it!.
I got out of bed this morning. I got out of bed this morning..
Ran my first 10K this last wekend Ran my first 10K this last wekend.
Top Gun Top Gun.
You were right...... You were right.......
Got a job Got a job.
My sisters wedding My sisters wedding.
Something inspiring! Something inspiring!.
Note to the overwhelmed Note to the overwhelmed.
Something positive Something positive.
The call finally came! The call finally came!.
The *BEST* week! The *BEST* week!.
Finally! Finally!.
I didn't think I could do it alone - but I did! I didn't think I could do it alone - but I did!.
Happy Day! Happy Day!.
What a wonderful day!!!! What a wonderful day!!!!.
hmmm... hmmm....
someday someday.
It finally happened! It finally happened!.
Elton John/ Billie Joel Concert Elton John/ Billie Joel Concert.
True Story True Story.
My new fish My new fish.
It's wonderful, but I need feedback It's wonderful, but I need feedback.
Its about time... Its about time....
Donation Donation.
Second Wind Second Wind.
unexpected unexpected.
WooooHoooo WooooHoooo.
Today is my anniversary Today is my anniversary.
Today Today.
What have you done for YOU lately? What have you done for YOU lately?.
My phone call My phone call.
ephiphany ephiphany.
I was <gasp!> HAPPY today! I was <gasp!> HAPPY today!.
Great Day Great Day.
Today Today.
I got a job! I got a job!.
Bonus Bonus.
Family Rocks!!!! Family Rocks!!!!.
Christmas Christmas.
Something New Something New.
new baby new baby.
bonding bonding.
being away being away.
Parents.. Parents...
a couple unexpected calls a couple unexpected calls.
A Self Esteem Boost A Self Esteem Boost.
I just had a revelation.....Please Read I just had a revelation.....Please Read.
my girls my girls.
Every day Every day.
A great weekend A great weekend.
Got a phone call from the ex today Got a phone call from the ex today.
Just babbling, but it was good for me Just babbling, but it was good for me.
A nice night A nice night.
the little things the little things.
My child reminded me My child reminded me.
New topic forum New topic forum.
Society and marriage Society and marriage.
just for me just for me.
moving on moving on.
Valentine's Day is only 24 hours Valentine's Day is only 24 hours.
The 12-step Divorce Program The 12-step Divorce Program.
What is it with the damned support groups? What is it with the damned support groups?.
I have three priorities. Nothing else matters. I have three priorities. Nothing else matters..
Is it bad? Is it bad?.
My priorities start with me. My priorities start with me..
Staying Sane Staying Sane.
My gaining strength My gaining strength.
Wow, if only I knew... Wow, if only I knew....
my son my son.
What Now? What Now?.
I have three priorities. Nothing else matters. I have three priorities. Nothing else matters..
Good bye for now Good bye for now.
Farewell folks (for a while anyway) Farewell folks (for a while anyway).
The next step for me. The next step for me..
Flirting Flirting.
after the ex - that first "I Love You" after the ex - that first "I Love You".
filled with doubt, thank you x filled with doubt, thank you x.
Ugh. First date in 11 years... Ugh. First date in 11 years....
So what is the deal with internet dating? So what is the deal with internet dating?.
A story to give hope A story to give hope.
Want children? Want children?.
What do you miss about being married? What do you miss about being married?.
Dating again Dating again.
Happy, but still cautious Happy, but still cautious.
What's the point? What's the point?.
That first time.. That first time...
afraid i am being stupid, again... afraid i am being stupid, again....
The Single Life The Single Life.
Does anyone crave...? Does anyone crave...?.
DO NOT PASS GO... THE "RED FLAGS" DO NOT PASS GO... THE "RED FLAGS".
I have a story I have a story.
The "touchy" subject of dating The "touchy" subject of dating.
Dating? Dating?.
Books About Keeping a Marriage TOGETHER? Books About Keeping a Marriage TOGETHER?.
Abandonment Issues Abandonment Issues.
Novel: Open House Novel: Open House.
I want a book NOT about divorce!! I want a book NOT about divorce!!.
"The Mastery of Love" "The Mastery of Love".
Distractions Distractions.
How much do we owe the people we love? How much do we owe the people we love?.
Required reading Required reading.
recommendations recommendations.
Let Him/Her Go Let Him/Her Go.
Interesting internet site about marriage. Interesting internet site about marriage..
The Language of Letting Go The Language of Letting Go.
Heartbreak, Restoration & Hope Heartbreak, Restoration & Hope.
Has anyone read... Has anyone read....
Who moved my cheese? - help with moving on Who moved my cheese? - help with moving on.
A good website I found A good website I found.
Self-Matters by Dr.Phil Self-Matters by Dr.Phil.
MUST HAVES! MUST HAVES!.
Happy Hours Happy Hours.
Divorce Remedy Divorce Remedy.
Changed the way I was thinking Changed the way I was thinking.
Need an inspiring book Need an inspiring book.
I life saver I life saver.
The Hero with a Thousand Faces The Hero with a Thousand Faces.
Get a copy of "BITTER OR BETTER" Get a copy of "BITTER OR BETTER".
awesome book awesome book.
Faith Faith.
A great revenge book A great revenge book.
Conversations With God Conversations With God.
The Road Less Traveled The Road Less Traveled.
Crazy Time Crazy Time.
Playboy Magazine.... Playboy Magazine.....
How to Survive the Loss of a Love How to Survive the Loss of a Love.
Divorce for Dummies Divorce for Dummies.
In the Meantime In the Meantime.
Life After Divorce Life After Divorce.
power of books power of books.
Soul Mates - Thomas Moore Soul Mates - Thomas Moore.
are there any good books on separation? are there any good books on separation?.
Dr Phil Dr Phil.
Anything by Otto Kernberg Anything by Otto Kernberg.
UNCOUPLING UNCOUPLING.
Spiritual readings/books Spiritual readings/books.
"Spiritual Divorce" "Spiritual Divorce".
Starter Marriage Starter Marriage.
Feel like a total FAILURE? Feel like a total FAILURE?.
A short, but really great book A short, but really great book.
Happiness Happiness.
Great book Great book.
School Loans School Loans.
leaving with the kids leaving with the kids.
COBRA Insurance? COBRA Insurance?.
stuff bought between seperation and divorce stuff bought between seperation and divorce.
Uncontested Divorce - testify about adultery? Uncontested Divorce - testify about adultery?.
Advice on Name Change. . . Advice on Name Change. . ..
name change name change.
READ READ READ READ READ READ.
Attorney Fees Attorney Fees.
power of attrny power of attrny.
Legal Action versus Emotional Action Legal Action versus Emotional Action.
Spousial Support? Spousial Support?.
NEED ADVICE NEED ADVICE.
I'm soo irritated! I'm soo irritated!.
Help!! Help!!.
Tax Question Tax Question.
DO I really Need A Lawyer? DO I really Need A Lawyer?.
How often do you hear from your lawyer? How often do you hear from your lawyer?.
Overwhelemed - PLEASE HELP! Overwhelemed - PLEASE HELP!.
mediation mediation.
WI divorce - property division & other ?s WI divorce - property division & other ?s.
financial disclosure financial disclosure.
F'n Lawyers F'n Lawyers.
Need help with divorce :( Need help with divorce :(.
We went to court We went to court.
What is cheating? What is cheating?.
Perhaps someone can tell me Perhaps someone can tell me.
Need help please Need help please.
name change name change.
Name change as part of divorce Name change as part of divorce.

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