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How much is too much? How much is too much?.
what to do what to do.
OhMiGod... OhMiGod....
Why do I blame myself? Why do I blame myself?.
Crazy Nightmares Crazy Nightmares.
#33 #33.
books books.
Dreaming Dreaming.
Thanx for the words of support.. Thanx for the words of support...
My Wife left me 3 days ago . . . My Wife left me 3 days ago . . ..
Can't think, can't feel....... Can't think, can't feel........
Sept 21, 2003 Sept 21, 2003.
BEEN SO LONG--- Anita Baker BEEN SO LONG--- Anita Baker.
White Flag White Flag.
Erum? Erum?.
I AM SO MAD RIGHT NOW! I AM SO MAD RIGHT NOW!.
#32 #32.
I don't understand men. I don't understand men..
How do I tell my children? How do I tell my children?.
Do I Have the Right? Do I Have the Right?.
My story My story.
allowed the abuse?? allowed the abuse??.
What do you make of this?? What do you make of this??.
My morning My morning.
He's slow about leaving, but still leaving He's slow about leaving, but still leaving.
A bit more detail... A bit more detail....
why? why?.
"Intimacy Pondered" "Intimacy Pondered".
I'm in trouble!!! I'm in trouble!!!.
Miserable Miserable.
Hate? Hate? .
Need a little advice Need a little advice.
Help me! Help me!.
Scariest night of my life.... Scariest night of my life.....
Where to begin? Where to begin?.
Mediation time Mediation time.
First post-divorce wedding... First post-divorce wedding....
ETERNAL DARKNESS ETERNAL DARKNESS.
What do you want in your next relationship? What do you want in your next relationship?.
What Happend? What Happend?.
To the woman I married To the woman I married.
Bittersweet... Bittersweet....
Sexw/ the ex Sexw/ the ex.
How do you start dating?? How do you start dating??.
therapy nyc therapy nyc.
Party Party.
Do You Ever Feel All Alone? Do You Ever Feel All Alone?.
What to wear? What to wear?.
All Done All Done.
My story My story.
it's getting worse it's getting worse.
Final Final.
ex takes baby for 1st time ex takes baby for 1st time.
How to get grounded? How to get grounded?.
Sept 26, 2003 Sept 26, 2003.
After separation, wife sleeps with someone else After separation, wife sleeps with someone else.
Hurt AGAIN Hurt AGAIN.
Can I ever go back? (for the adulterers on the board) Can I ever go back? (for the adulterers on the board).
For It's Moment For It's Moment.
song for today song for today.
Sad Sad.
IS two sentences humane and appropriate? IS two sentences humane and appropriate?.
Sunday visit Sunday visit.
some good, some bad.. some good, some bad...
Ostia...Read this Ostia...Read this.
Coaching Coaching.
It's all about me! It's all about me!.
He's contacting me He's contacting me.
I want to go back in my cave.... I want to go back in my cave.....
What have you found out about yourself since your divorce? What have you found out about yourself since your divorce?.
5K 5K.
My Immortal My Immortal.
High Flight High Flight.
Nightmare Confirmed Nightmare Confirmed.
Horrible Morning Horrible Morning.
How much worse can this get? How much worse can this get?.
humility humility.
A happy ending? A happy ending?.
CONFLICTING SCHEDULES CONFLICTING SCHEDULES.
Is It a Sign? Is It a Sign?.
Staind - falling down Staind - falling down.
And of coure....Staind... so far away And of coure....Staind... so far away.
seeing his face seeing his face.
Saw my X last night Saw my X last night.
13 years and he's gone 13 years and he's gone.
his reality of divorce? his reality of divorce?.
Vanilla Pudding Vanilla Pudding.
MOVED TODAY MOVED TODAY.
Avon Represenative Avon Represenative.
FIGHTING THE URGE! FIGHTING THE URGE!.
In the thick of it In the thick of it.
The dreaded birthday.... The dreaded birthday.....
Kids and dating... Kids and dating....
Skittles? Skittles?.
Feeling Nothing Feeling Nothing.
Jobless, single and male Jobless, single and male.
"Secrets Men Don't Want Women To Know" "Secrets Men Don't Want Women To Know".
Been a rough week part 1.... Been a rough week part 1.....
It seems like it is getting worse!! It seems like it is getting worse!!.
Hard Day's Night Hard Day's Night.
New Member--Question on Separation New Member--Question on Separation.
HUGS to all! HUGS to all!.
Help... Help....
"Improvisational thoughts" "Improvisational thoughts".
A Good Settlement A Good Settlement.
Fall in love with somebody else while still married? Fall in love with somebody else while still married? .
Not sure how I feel Not sure how I feel .
...and down again ...and down again.
"Truth Be Told" "Truth Be Told".
REALIZATION! REALIZATION!.
Does this make any sense? Does this make any sense?.
this really sucks this really sucks.
When is it enough When is it enough.
MOVED: When is it enough MOVED: When is it enough.
Through With You--Maroon 5 Through With You--Maroon 5.
CAN THIS GET ANY WORSE?! CAN THIS GET ANY WORSE?!.
bad weekend bad weekend.
surprise!!! I want a divorce!!! surprise!!! I want a divorce!!!.
My second wedding anniversary My second wedding anniversary.
My story My story.
Into the void Into the void .
The bomb has dropped The bomb has dropped.
Once separated, does anyone work it out? Once separated, does anyone work it out?.
New to this whole idea! New to this whole idea!.
slight meltdown slight meltdown.
Narcissisim Narcissisim.
my favourites my favourites.
Another hard day Another hard day.
Anyone relate? Anyone relate?.
Dating stinks and tomorrow is my anniversary! Dating stinks and tomorrow is my anniversary!.
Bad morning...getting better though Bad morning...getting better though.
CALLING IT QUITS! CALLING IT QUITS!.
Odd but interesting metaphor Odd but interesting metaphor.
Filing for divorce Filing for divorce.
Am I moving to fast? Am I moving to fast?.
COBRA Coverage COBRA Coverage.
First contact since divorce First contact since divorce.
when the ex won't talk to you????? when the ex won't talk to you?????.
I'm new, hello... I'm new, hello....
Unbelievable Unbelievable.
more details...just venting! more details...just venting!.
Friends? Friends?.
NYC get-together NYC get-together.
CHICAGO? CHICAGO?.
Trying to figure it out Trying to figure it out .
wasting time wasting time.
Help! Need Input ASAP. (long) Help! Need Input ASAP. (long).
Yay Red Sox!! Yay Red Sox!!.
disagreeing over child disagreeing over child.
I'm new here I'm new here .
Update Update.
Tired of it all Tired of it all.
Here's one for those bitter about infidelity... Here's one for those bitter about infidelity....
Maybe he's right. Maybe he's right..
Are you ready for this one? Are you ready for this one?.
Finally!!!!!!!! Finally!!!!!!!!.
Yup, Drunk Yup, Drunk.
It's so dark. It's so dark..
He e-mailed me He e-mailed me.
wedding anniversary wedding anniversary.
A new you A new you.
Starting new life at 25... how to begin??? Starting new life at 25... how to begin???.
Divorce Final Divorce Final .
LOW BLOW!!! LOW BLOW!!!.
How long SHOULD one grieve?? How long SHOULD one grieve??.
Date with s2bx Date with s2bx.
The Postman The Postman.
Broken heart research Broken heart research.
Bought My House Bought My House.
Liar Liar Liar!!! Liar Liar Liar!!!.
How Long Will I Keep Hurting? How Long Will I Keep Hurting?.
stbx birthday stbx birthday.
Pain Pain.
Meet in the middle, OK &TX Meet in the middle, OK &TX.
Is love enough? Is love enough?.
Confused and hurting Confused and hurting.
7 year olds... 7 year olds....
Need a guys opinion on this........ Need a guys opinion on this.........
changing careers???? changing careers????.
Update on my life after the Big "D" Update on my life after the Big "D".
Singles Cruise anyone??? Singles Cruise anyone???.
My Little Blue One My Little Blue One.
Tell Me Again Tell Me Again.
stbx called stbx called.
Limbo is making me crazy Limbo is making me crazy.
Hurting & healing Hurting & healing.
Bagels Bagels.
Is it only Tuesday?? Is it only Tuesday??.
How do you tell someone? How do you tell someone?.
I'm MAD and need to vent........ I'm MAD and need to vent.........
the OW the OW.
Dealing with an Ill Spouse Dealing with an Ill Spouse.
Making it Thru the Holidays Making it Thru the Holidays.
TEXAS CHILI COOKOFF! TEXAS CHILI COOKOFF!.
Oct 15, 2003 - Opt-in Email automation Oct 15, 2003 - Opt-in Email automation.
An oldie but goodie from the disco era An oldie but goodie from the disco era .
Song must have been written about me..LOL Song must have been written about me..LOL.
Mediation this week Mediation this week.
Glutton for punishment? Glutton for punishment?.
Lifecycle of web sites... interesting. Lifecycle of web sites... interesting..
Sent an e-mail Sent an e-mail.
1000 1000.
Increasing your social network. Increasing your social network..
saw the stbx today saw the stbx today.
MOVED: How do you let go? MOVED: How do you let go?.
Why am I so numb? Why don't I want to try? Why am I so numb? Why don't I want to try?.
Oct 16, 2003 Oct 16, 2003.
Signing Off... Signing Off....
How long to get over it? How long to get over it?.
This is not possible?!? OMG! This is not possible?!? OMG!.
1st time post - dealing with being the Dumper 1st time post - dealing with being the Dumper.
The MaddeningPace The MaddeningPace.
One year ago today (long).... One year ago today (long).....
So confused...thinking about divorce So confused...thinking about divorce.
Took me 11 years Took me 11 years.
Wedding Rings/engagement rings Wedding Rings/engagement rings.
I'm mad as hell and I am not going to take it anymore! I'm mad as hell and I am not going to take it anymore! .
Oct 17, 2003 Oct 17, 2003.
anger anger.
Need to vent? Do it here. Need to vent? Do it here..
Job hunting. Job hunting..
MOVED: anger MOVED: anger.
MOVED: I'm MAD and need to vent........ MOVED: I'm MAD and need to vent.........
MOVED: more details...just venting! MOVED: more details...just venting!.
Pennsylvania Pennsylvania.
MOVING!! MOVING!!.
Why am I still in this mess Why am I still in this mess.
I think I am a hooker I think I am a hooker.
Dating an old flame Dating an old flame.
Newbie - My Story Newbie - My Story.
Ready to Date? Ready to Date?.
Forever Blue Forever Blue.
When its a glorious day When its a glorious day.
Help, I can't remember Help, I can't remember.
How much has your life changed? How much has your life changed?.
How do you cook for one How do you cook for one.
My story as it unfolds My story as it unfolds.
The meds have kicked in... The meds have kicked in....
U2 U2.
Chicago gathering (all are welcome!) Chicago gathering (all are welcome!).
poems poems.
Help! Help!.
considering giving him custody considering giving him custody.
Oct 20, 2003 - FAQ page. Oct 20, 2003 - FAQ page..
I am SO TIRED! I am SO TIRED!.
Poem: Disguised Poem: Disguised.
Sad talk last night. Is that how it ends? Sad talk last night. Is that how it ends?.
"Driftin Away" "Driftin Away".
heres another one some of you can relate to Im sure... heres another one some of you can relate to Im sure....
Another good one... Another good one....
STBX took the stereo & now I have to buy one.... STBX took the stereo & now I have to buy one.....
Anti-Depressants Anti-Depressants.
Definition of rebounding? Definition of rebounding?.
The Good, The Bad and The Ugly The Good, The Bad and The Ugly.
For the Angry Men on this Board... For the Angry Men on this Board....
"Just A Man" "Just A Man".
2nd Chance 2nd Chance.
I Remember I Remember.
the one year mark the one year mark.
I LOST IT LAST NIGHT AND NEED ADVICE I LOST IT LAST NIGHT AND NEED ADVICE.
GRRRR GRRRR.
Thank U Thank U.
Starting Over Starting Over.
Venting about my wife Venting about my wife.
Depression - Thanks! Depression - Thanks!.
my story my story.
Homecoming... Homecoming....
maybe we knew what true love was? maybe we knew what true love was?.
Poor me... Poor me....
I MUST VENT I MUST VENT.
Walking away....... Walking away........
Oct 23, 2003 Oct 23, 2003.
WOW WOW.
A new life! A new life!.
MISTAKES MISTAKES.
The best advice my father gave me The best advice my father gave me.
The Blame Game The Blame Game.
I wonder I wonder.
CAKE CAKE.
2nd Marriage - "sermonette" 2nd Marriage - "sermonette".
I am so frustrated! I am so frustrated!.
Game Over - Divorce is final Game Over - Divorce is final.
Child Support!!! Child Support!!!.
Risking pain Risking pain.
The Divorce Diet The Divorce Diet.
STILL hurts.... STILL hurts.....
Really now..... Really now......
Divorce rate steady, but cohabiters breaking up Divorce rate steady, but cohabiters breaking up.
yay! yay!.
Darn Flu Bug... Darn Flu Bug....
Happy Holidays!! Happy Holidays!!.
Nerd Alert Nerd Alert.
a surprise, but not a surprise a surprise, but not a surprise.
I hate Saturday nights! I hate Saturday nights!.
Never thought I'd be here... Never thought I'd be here....
A quote.... A quote.....
I realized something I realized something.
Who is this person I used to love???? Who is this person I used to love????.
Advice needed Advice needed.
Why Men Die First Why Men Die First.
Should i keep trying. Should i keep trying..
Need some advice... Need some advice....
Totally caught off guard! Totally caught off guard!.
What did your cheating spouse tell you? What did your cheating spouse tell you?.
Must vent.... Must vent.....
Anyone in Florida? Anyone in Florida?.
Divorce Process - Dead Standstill Divorce Process - Dead Standstill.
"Fallen" by Sarah McChalan "Fallen" by Sarah McChalan.
moving on moving on.
My ex is an Alien! My ex is an Alien!.
a quote... a quote....
My (ongoing) story My (ongoing) story.
Few more quotes... Few more quotes....
The straw that broke MY back! The straw that broke MY back!.
Song lyrics... Song lyrics....
Out of the blue Out of the blue.
Just say no to Sleestacks! Just say no to Sleestacks!.
Never played the field. Good marriage possible? Never played the field. Good marriage possible?.
The White Stripes The White Stripes.
Sex Sex.
should i call the OW husband? should i call the OW husband?.
MILITARY SPOUSES & SACRIFICE MILITARY SPOUSES & SACRIFICE.
Total Shock Total Shock.
What a fun day! What a fun day!.
The End...some how The End...some how.
Great book about how relationships break up Great book about how relationships break up.
Exorcising "Old Ghosts"... Exorcising "Old Ghosts"....
American Express? American Express?.
down down...down down down...down.
2.5 Years Later 2.5 Years Later.
Why Flowers? Why Flowers?.
dinner with the stbx? dinner with the stbx?.
Where does the time come from? Where does the time come from?.
need opinion from female leavers need opinion from female leavers.
Oct 31, 2003 Oct 31, 2003.
help- a question and a rave! help- a question and a rave!.
Heartbroken Heartbroken.
I dumped him I dumped him.
Support for The kids!! Support for The kids!!.
Right before your eyes Right before your eyes.
The rollercoaster continues The rollercoaster continues.
Sadness... Sadness....
New Here New Here.
Dating Question Dating Question.
Retirement Funds Retirement Funds.
Life isn't fair Life isn't fair.
I may be in an upcoming Magazine I may be in an upcoming Magazine.
going backwards going backwards.
Introducing myself and my baggage Introducing myself and my baggage.
Back Again Back Again.
Three reasons why he wants a divorce Three reasons why he wants a divorce.
Divorce or Reconcilliation Divorce or Reconcilliation.
Guy Guy.
Hi - newbie here and very frustrated Hi - newbie here and very frustrated.
Relapse Relapse.
Another dating question Another dating question.
Panic attack.. Panic attack...
Big "D" Big "D".
Song by Eamon Song by Eamon.
Simply frightened Simply frightened.
Interview!!! Interview!!!.
Hey All I need some input please read Hey All I need some input please read.
An album dedication An album dedication.
Confusing InLaws Confusing InLaws.
Still crying Still crying.
Running as an Antidepressant Running as an Antidepressant.
The Anger is Gone The Anger is Gone.
What to do about shared family members What to do about shared family members.
Health Insurance Health Insurance.
I can't believe it is over I can't believe it is over.
God, when does it end God, when does it end.
Nov 5, 2003 Nov 5, 2003.
Hi, I am new here and I'd like to share my story... Hi, I am new here and I'd like to share my story....
I made it! One year... I made it! One year....
She's almost gone... She's almost gone....
Awkward Feelings Awkward Feelings.
He has SOME nerve... He has SOME nerve....
Bankruptcy/Divorce Bankruptcy/Divorce.
Visitations Visitations.
The End The End.
Talking to STBX Talking to STBX.
will i ever get over it? will i ever get over it?.
Received the "Papers" today Received the "Papers" today .
Should I laugh or cry? Should I laugh or cry?.
Any good movies? Any good movies?.
What would a post OJar Dating Site look like? What would a post OJar Dating Site look like?.
OJar pet peeve OJar pet peeve.
ups and downs ups and downs.
What to do?? What to do??.
Need an opinion from the men Need an opinion from the men .
Saturnalia: Dating Stories Saturnalia: Dating Stories.
OMG!! It DOES get better... OMG!! It DOES get better....
It's Saturday!!! It's Saturday!!!.
Why Pro-athletes can't have real jobs Why Pro-athletes can't have real jobs.
Meta-advice Meta-advice.
why does this keep happening?! why does this keep happening?!.
South Jersey/Philly/Wilmington DE South Jersey/Philly/Wilmington DE.
Michelle Branch - Goodbye to you. Michelle Branch - Goodbye to you..
Seme new verbage... Seme new verbage....
Help improve OJar.com Help improve OJar.com .
Bad Blood Bad Blood.
This one still gets me.... This one still gets me.....
Moral of the story Moral of the story.
Neurosis Neurosis.
Any advice? Any advice?.
AAAAAAAAAARGHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!! AAAAAAAAAARGHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!.
The Beginning of the End The Beginning of the End.
Mini-rant at myself Mini-rant at myself.
If you love something..... If you love something......
Blame Blame.
Feelings on the house Feelings on the house.
craziness craziness.
MOVED: A poem MOVED: A poem.
#1 #1 .
I don't know I don't know.
Just sent him the final papers Just sent him the final papers.
The Hummingbird The Hummingbird.
5th Anniversary 5th Anniversary.
Bank Loan Bank Loan.
Hartford, CT Hartford, CT .
November 13, 2003 November 13, 2003.
ughggh ughggh.
Fairy Tale Gone Bad Fairy Tale Gone Bad.
Cute Stories Cute Stories.
Happy birthday to me! Happy birthday to me!.
Why Me? Why Me?.
Twilight Zone Twilight Zone.
Article: How Co-Workers Can Wreck Your Marriage Article: How Co-Workers Can Wreck Your Marriage .
One person can only take so much, right? One person can only take so much, right?.
Anything goes here! Anything goes here!.
MOVED: It's Friday! MOVED: It's Friday!.
MOVED: The Yankees win again! MOVED: The Yankees win again!.
Why On Our Anniversary? Why On Our Anniversary?.
HAZY SHADE OF WINTER HAZY SHADE OF WINTER.
unwell - matchbox twenty unwell - matchbox twenty.
Perfume Perfume.
A great song for overcoming depression A great song for overcoming depression.
Thanks and Regret? Thanks and Regret?.
Arrrrrrrrrgh!!! Arrrrrrrrrgh!!!.
cosigner and who getts the property and kids? cosigner and who getts the property and kids?.
Lack of energy Lack of energy.
The Home Improvement Saga Continues The Home Improvement Saga Continues.
ARRRRGGGGGHHHHH!!! ARRRRGGGGGHHHHH!!!.
Just something about it... Just something about it....
tired tired.
Someplace New Someplace New.
Honestly Honestly.
Go Rams?! Go Rams?!.
Why does everything seem to go wrong ALL AT ONCE?? Why does everything seem to go wrong ALL AT ONCE??.
"Change" "Change".
"Forgotten Time" "Forgotten Time".
God give me strength God give me strength.
The Niners will win! The Niners will win!.
Married a cheater ? Married a cheater ?.
I feel sick I feel sick.
Today is just a bad day Today is just a bad day.
Utopia? Utopia?.
Heart-Ache Heart-Ache.
A Prayer for All of Us A Prayer for All of Us.
Martha's NOT Here!!! Martha's NOT Here!!!.
something weird happened to me today something weird happened to me today.
Pushing Me Away Pushing Me Away.
Easier to Run Easier to Run.
18 months of therapy and now... 18 months of therapy and now....
help, they are having a baby help, they are having a baby.
Virus Virus.
IT'S FINAL! IT'S FINAL!.
Question for everyone here Question for everyone here.
Happy NOT 14th Anniversary to me. Happy NOT 14th Anniversary to me..
For Men - Very Interesting Website on Dating For Men - Very Interesting Website on Dating.
Wallowing in misery Wallowing in misery.
Maybe not so Wonderful JMN hows the hangover? Maybe not so Wonderful JMN hows the hangover?.
Life Got in the Way Life Got in the Way.
1st Court Hearing 1st Court Hearing.
Bragging rights Bragging rights.
Ughhh Ughhh.
Now or never Now or never.
Took "One Small Step" today... Took "One Small Step" today....
When "We" becomes "I" When "We" becomes "I".
Quick QA for Marriage Quick QA for Marriage.

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