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ahh!! WHY DOES HE DO THESE THINGS?!! ahh!! WHY DOES HE DO THESE THINGS?!!.
Voodoo dolls Voodoo dolls.
I give up... I give up....
Rebuilding Trust Rebuilding Trust.
New Job!! New Job!!.
My mood today...... My mood today.......
Money Tips Money Tips.
Another New Year.....so to speak Another New Year.....so to speak.
Talking Clock Talking Clock.
no reason to look forward no reason to look forward.
A liar is a liar is a liar!!! A liar is a liar is a liar!!!.
stupidity hall of fame nominee stupidity hall of fame nominee.
An unanticipated reaction to other people's divorce An unanticipated reaction to other people's divorce.
Being Silly Being Silly.
Waves Waves.
One of the best breakup songs of all time... One of the best breakup songs of all time....
1st time ex saw me in public. A MUST-READ! 1st time ex saw me in public. A MUST-READ!.
friends with extras friends with extras.
Feeling the fear Feeling the fear.
Could they be any dumber?!?! Could they be any dumber?!?!.
Being Drunk .... It takes some work Being Drunk .... It takes some work .
for all the moms (pre-mother's day cheer) for all the moms (pre-mother's day cheer).
this is gonna sound weird but......... this is gonna sound weird but..........
lonely but not for the X lonely but not for the X.
Van Wilder was finally in!! Van Wilder was finally in!!.
Mixed Emotions Mixed Emotions.
Things are blowing in my face Things are blowing in my face .
Heading to Alabama - SCARED!!! Heading to Alabama - SCARED!!!.
Feels guilty about one night stand and left Feels guilty about one night stand and left.
Didn't happen today, but a cute story... Didn't happen today, but a cute story....
Want a New Tattoo......... Want a New Tattoo..........
New Slang New Slang.
Running for President Running for President.
Living in Emotional Limbo.... Living in Emotional Limbo.....
Well, divorce is final today Well, divorce is final today.
. ..
jared jared.
Vent, not relationship based Vent, not relationship based.
Introspection Introspection.
Backsliding ... stupid sad songs Backsliding ... stupid sad songs.
Whats on the menu tonight? Whats on the menu tonight?.
grrrrrrrrr............ grrrrrrrrr.............
It's a bad day today and every day It's a bad day today and every day.
why threaten me and my bf? why threaten me and my bf?.
goat-don't read-just needed to get it out goat-don't read-just needed to get it out.
Glenn Frey - The one you love Glenn Frey - The one you love.
I'm so torn..need advice I'm so torn..need advice.
What music do you like? What music do you like?.
when will i ever learn when will i ever learn.
pictures of me and the kids pictures of me and the kids.
Tough night Tough night.
new dating situation - please help new dating situation - please help.
frozen frozen.
Tough day yesterday Tough day yesterday.
It's funny... But it's not... It's funny... But it's not....
I'm in so much pain I'm in so much pain.
Don't you people have jobs? Don't you people have jobs?.
Going for it!! Going for it!!.
He finally moved out yesterday He finally moved out yesterday.
.My rights and marital $ .My rights and marital $.
Cats are smarter than Guys! :p Cats are smarter than Guys! :p.
I love you like family... I love you like family....
Songs we cant stop playing Songs we cant stop playing.
Been a wail Been a wail.
I'm Alive I'm Alive.
What now What now.
What a journey it has been! What a journey it has been!.
Mr. Brightside Mr. Brightside.
New Drug... for any occasion New Drug... for any occasion.
my story and help? my story and help?.
I'm amazed... I'm amazed....
freak phone call--- freak phone call---.
Having Doubts Having Doubts.
WHAT???? WHAT????.
DIVORCE! DIVORCE!.
...waiting on the sheriff..... ...waiting on the sheriff......
Can she do thisand get away with it!!???? Can she do thisand get away with it!!????.
WHOO FREAKIN' WHO WHOO FREAKIN' WHO.
I feal like sh!t and.... I feal like sh!t and.....
Missed everyone,but I'll be back soon! Missed everyone,but I'll be back soon!.
I still love him, but he doesn't feel the same for me. I still love him, but he doesn't feel the same for me..
Why does she keeps calling? Why does she keeps calling?.
~I Want A Love Like That!!!~ ~I Want A Love Like That!!!~.
Just when I needed you most Just when I needed you most.
Is This Really Real Or Can a Broken Wagon Wheel Be Fixed Is This Really Real Or Can a Broken Wagon Wheel Be Fixed.
Acceptance, what can I do??? Acceptance, what can I do???.
Should we go or not? Should we go or not?.
Fuel Mileage Tips Fuel Mileage Tips.
summer dresses summer dresses.
POEM: Growing Up POEM: Growing Up.
What does he want from me????? What does he want from me?????.
When did you start to meet 'new people'? When did you start to meet 'new people'?.
couple friends/single friends? couple friends/single friends?.
No affection for a year and half! No affection for a year and half!.
Sound Familiar? Sound Familiar?.
Once a liar.....always a liar Once a liar.....always a liar.
Secret to a Happy Marriage Secret to a Happy Marriage.
weeee bit aggravated weeee bit aggravated.
Update on 2 Weeks No Contact Update on 2 Weeks No Contact.
Just need to vent a lil' Just need to vent a lil'.
The Fantasy The Fantasy.
what gives???? what gives????.
~Top 10 Ways To Say Your Zipper Is Down~ ~Top 10 Ways To Say Your Zipper Is Down~.
~21 Clues A Woman Should Call It A Night~ ~21 Clues A Woman Should Call It A Night~.
Divorce Dictionary Divorce Dictionary.
You were Right You were Right.
Is it possible? Is it possible?.
It's been almost 3 weeks since we saw each other It's been almost 3 weeks since we saw each other .
Life is a Highway Life is a Highway.
Me agian Having Doubts Me agian Having Doubts.
Rebound???? Rebound????.
kleenex sux kleenex sux.
Friends with ex? Friends with ex?.
Note to self... Note to self....
Am I a fool...am I an a@#hole? Am I a fool...am I an a@#hole?.
Time Traveler's Wife Time Traveler's Wife.
a watershed moment in the relationship a watershed moment in the relationship.
Other man Other man.
~We Just Disagree~ ~We Just Disagree~.
Help! Deadline close..How Do I Respond to a summons for an uncontested divorce Help! Deadline close..How Do I Respond to a summons for an uncontested divorce.
Old pics Old pics .
angry tonight angry tonight.
I had it all together, but I think I forgot where I put it. I had it all together, but I think I forgot where I put it..
Stalemate Stalemate.
Weekends are the hardest Weekends are the hardest.
I am such an idiot I am such an idiot.
stupid comments from people stupid comments from people.
I wandered lonely as a cloud I wandered lonely as a cloud.
where do i go from here? where do i go from here?.
judging other people and the damaging effects judging other people and the damaging effects.
Last love letter Last love letter.
Ahhh! Papers Delivered!! Ahhh! Papers Delivered!!.
ARE YOU KIDDING ME!!!!!!!!!!!! ARE YOU KIDDING ME!!!!!!!!!!!!.
PMS PMS.
Have a nice life Have a nice life.
I`m bent Need to vent I`m bent Need to vent.
No contact-Caving in-The end result No contact-Caving in-The end result.
The song gods The song gods.
He wants out. He wants out..
Allowing Life Changing Events to Happen Allowing Life Changing Events to Happen.
Foo Fighters Foo Fighters.
Wrong Again by Martina McBride Wrong Again by Martina McBride.
Pearl Jam Pearl Jam.
pretty presents!! pretty presents!!.
My son. My son..
No Stranger To the Rain No Stranger To the Rain.
New -Again New -Again.
friends with ex? try this one friends with ex? try this one.
outta the blue musical recommendation... outta the blue musical recommendation....
Can it ever be more than "just friends?" Can it ever be more than "just friends?".
Other fiction books Other fiction books.
American Baby American Baby .
Rage Against The Machine Rage Against The Machine.
Tool Tool.
refinancing my house refinancing my house.
Need alimony info please... Need alimony info please....
Can't Share His Inheritance?? Can't Share His Inheritance??.
SCREAM SCREAM.
Happy Tax Day! Happy Tax Day!.
Love, hate, or desperation? Love, hate, or desperation?.
HELP!!!Attorney draining my estate HELP!!!Attorney draining my estate .
turning point in life - good or bad person turning point in life - good or bad person.
I thought it was forever... I thought it was forever....
guys r jerks guys r jerks.
A kiss A kiss.
Taco Soup (like chili) Taco Soup (like chili).
My story....without the details My story....without the details.
Why Why.
Whispers in the Wind Whispers in the Wind.
What am I responsible for? What am I responsible for?.
One simple story One simple story.
STILL cant trust wife after reconcile. NEED Advice STILL cant trust wife after reconcile. NEED Advice.
POEM: With and Without POEM: With and Without.
"You'll Think Of Me" by Keith Urban "You'll Think Of Me" by Keith Urban.
Stay Gone by Jimmy Wayne Stay Gone by Jimmy Wayne.
Giving up? Giving up?.
crummy dreams crummy dreams.
What to do? What to do?.
Guilt abouit kids Guilt abouit kids.
x called last night...GRRRR x called last night...GRRRR.
Chill'n.... Chill'n.....
Domestic or Imported Domestic or Imported.
Utah Laws Utah Laws.
have to become an adult bc of breakup have to become an adult bc of breakup.
Out of Breath Out of Breath.
ojar chatrooom... ojar chatrooom....
name change name change.
feeling good feeling good.
My shrink is a bad man My shrink is a bad man.
really fast question really fast question.
How much I hate the woman i love! How much I hate the woman i love!.
DO I WAIT??? DO I WAIT???.
When You Really Love Somebody When You Really Love Somebody.
when when.
I'm Going to the Bahamas! Just me! I'm Going to the Bahamas! Just me!.
went to see Dane Cook last night went to see Dane Cook last night.
need some advise need some advise .
How can I tell what is wrong with me?-Please Help! How can I tell what is wrong with me?-Please Help!.
Southern New England? Southern New England?.
1 year count down.... 1 year count down.....
I am just giving up. I am just giving up..
Chicken Chicken.
Sad and confused in Maryland Sad and confused in Maryland.
Karaoke... Karaoke....
Send in the Clowns Send in the Clowns.
Would anyone like to do something out West Would anyone like to do something out West.
Please help!? Please help!?.
Letter About Nothing Letter About Nothing.
divorce is final...can't let go divorce is final...can't let go.
One Year gone...... One Year gone.......
Got that great speech from him Got that great speech from him.
Am I an idiot? Am I an idiot?.
~Seperate Lives~ ~Seperate Lives~.
Hurting so bad... Hurting so bad....
~Against All Odds~ ~Against All Odds~.
What do I do? What do I do?.
Here's to the night Here's to the night.
Well I finally am starting to understand Well I finally am starting to understand.
Have a nice life Have a nice life.
Wild Horses Wild Horses.
Funny Movie Quotes:bring em' on! Funny Movie Quotes:bring em' on!.
Wild horses couldn’t drag me away Wild horses couldn’t drag me away.
18 year fool 18 year fool.
confusion from lack of communication confusion from lack of communication.
Ode to the doggy Ode to the doggy.
Do I have a right to be angry? Do I have a right to be angry?.
OW is wrong and dont know what to do OW is wrong and dont know what to do.
Best Lines Best Lines.
am i the fool? am i the fool?.
Moments of Temptation Moments of Temptation.
missing my ex missing my ex.
Microsoft Certified Professional Microsoft Certified Professional.
She came back...now I am really scared! She came back...now I am really scared!.
Being A Hole Being A Hole.
Out of the frying pan and into the fire... Out of the frying pan and into the fire....
Tired of it... Tired of it....
Why do they become monsters? Why do they become monsters?.
~I Love You Sully!!! ~ ~I Love You Sully!!! ~.
For SE For SE.
Its so over Its so over.
Just a Song & A Happy Thought Thats passed Just a Song & A Happy Thought Thats passed.
Aaaargh!!!! Aaaargh!!!!.
weekends really suck the big one weekends really suck the big one.
Let down Let down.
not relationship based, but im still ticked!! not relationship based, but im still ticked!!.
Kaleidescope Kaleidescope.
Balls Balls.
Denim Day California Denim Day California.
crush crush.
Happiness is.... Happiness is.....
Unanswered questions Unanswered questions.
Flirts and fools Flirts and fools.
Any ex-smokers or smokers trying to quit? Any ex-smokers or smokers trying to quit?.
Is my logic off here? (Car vent) Is my logic off here? (Car vent).
New here... divorced one year, separated for 2 New here... divorced one year, separated for 2.
my weekend my weekend.
Hate going places Hate going places.
Getting Even Getting Even.
Detox Diet/Fasting Detox Diet/Fasting.
wedding ring wedding ring.
Biked to some waterfalls Biked to some waterfalls.
Am I crazy?? Am I crazy??.
Going back to court to reduce support payments Going back to court to reduce support payments.
Cried today...divorce final Wed Cried today...divorce final Wed.
Well he is starting the games Well he is starting the games.
"Feelin' Good" - when you're not "Feelin' Good" - when you're not.
How many of you would ... How many of you would ....
Learning to Fly Learning to Fly.
leave it leave it.
6 month separation 6 month separation.
Man Another blow too me Man Another blow too me.
Hope for the Separated Hope for the Separated.
Love-life for every married couple Love-life for every married couple.
Sanity Sanity.
Questions Questions.
Hate To Live Hate To Live.
For So Long For So Long.
Feels weird i havent seen her Feels weird i havent seen her.
omg it just keeps getting better and better.... omg it just keeps getting better and better.....
Alabama Woman... Alabama Woman....
Headache? Headache?.
To file or not to file To file or not to file.
Any Tips?!?! Any Tips?!?!.
A glimmer of Hope A glimmer of Hope.
Angry and Happy!!! Angry and Happy!!!.
You Really Wouldn't Want Me That Way You Really Wouldn't Want Me That Way.
Help Me Hold On Help Me Hold On.
He's mad because I ate!!! He's mad because I ate!!!.
4 yr. old says she doesn't have a daddy 4 yr. old says she doesn't have a daddy.
YAY!!!!!!!! YAY!!!!!!!!.
A New Pope! A New Pope!.
OJar down South......... OJar down South..........
1st Grade vs. 3rd Grade 1st Grade vs. 3rd Grade.
A Betting Man A Betting Man.
The Neccesary Equipment The Neccesary Equipment.
The Advantages of Breast Milk The Advantages of Breast Milk.
Screwed Screwed.
You know you're a Redneck when,,, You know you're a Redneck when,,,.
What PMS Really Means What PMS Really Means.
A Cinderella Story A Cinderella Story.
Sugaree Sugaree.
I HATE WORK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 I HATE WORK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1.
The letter The letter.
Change of name Change of name.
my new little icon.... my new little icon.....
How do you let go? How do you let go?.
Orange County NY Orange County NY.
P*ssing off the ex is so easy and fun P*ssing off the ex is so easy and fun.
was doing ok until was doing ok until.
Boulevard Of Broken Dreams Boulevard Of Broken Dreams.
happy birthday! happy birthday!.
Perfect Person at imprefect time? Perfect Person at imprefect time?.
Here Iam again... Here Iam again....
this will never stop. this will never stop..
What's in a Name? What's in a Name?.
How old are you? If you don't mind me asking. How old are you? If you don't mind me asking..
Hi. I'm new. Breakup story Hi. I'm new. Breakup story.
freaky dream freaky dream.
Rattled my nerves Rattled my nerves.
schism schism.
He just never stops amazing me. He just never stops amazing me..
All advice/opinions needed All advice/opinions needed.
Gotta LOVE the kids Gotta LOVE the kids.
Light His Fire Light His Fire.
I really need some advice... I really need some advice....
Why does it hurt so much? Why does it hurt so much?.
Proper care and feeding of husbands Proper care and feeding of husbands.
Insanity Insanity.
I need a new canvas. (just for me..no need to read) I need a new canvas. (just for me..no need to read).
~Stronger~ ~Stronger~.
you you.
Same ole Sh*t! Same ole Sh*t!.
Why the anger? Why the anger?.
the wrong way the wrong way.
no contact with a twist no contact with a twist.
Unwanted divorce and kids Unwanted divorce and kids.
Ever wonder what happens on OJAR at 3 AM? Ever wonder what happens on OJAR at 3 AM?.
I could use some hugs...m I could use some hugs...m.
HELP ME! HELP ME!.
jerk.. jerk...
grrrrrrrrrrrrr grrrrrrrrrrrrr.
In The Year 2029 In The Year 2029.
A Marine's Letter Home From Basic Training A Marine's Letter Home From Basic Training.
Money or Love? Money or Love?.
life and it's crappy challenges...thoughts appreciated..m life and it's crappy challenges...thoughts appreciated..m.
it's amazing what you can see at the zoo!!! it's amazing what you can see at the zoo!!!.
A Spanish Delicacy A Spanish Delicacy.
anyone online with messenger who'd like to chat?...m anyone online with messenger who'd like to chat?...m.
Divorce or seperation Divorce or seperation.
just thinkin' about ya baby..... just thinkin' about ya baby......
I caught my wife cheating I caught my wife cheating.
o((v_v))o o((v_v))o.
How To Handle A Husband How To Handle A Husband.
I'm gonna THROW UP!!! I'm gonna THROW UP!!!.
Dinner tomorrow with the BF, the ex and the ex's fiancee -- UPDATE Dinner tomorrow with the BF, the ex and the ex's fiancee -- UPDATE.
You make me sick You make me sick.
Together Together.
It's Lawyer Season!!! It's Lawyer Season!!!.
they aren't you..., they aren't you...,.
I had to post this a second time!!!! I had to post this a second time!!!!.
nervous driver nervous driver.
Hobbies to stay busy Hobbies to stay busy.
a letter to my meddling ex s-i-l a letter to my meddling ex s-i-l.
GRRRRR!!!! GRRRRR!!!!.
it was actually yesterday, but close enough! it was actually yesterday, but close enough!.
New Nephew!!! New Nephew!!!.
Too Many Llamas Too Many Llamas.
Help Help.
Living with the ex. Living with the ex..
Kind, Kind People! Kind, Kind People!.
I need help! I need help!.
alcoholic parent? alcoholic parent?.
Have a nice life Have a nice life.
Help Help.
Normal? Dreamt of another person; the ex?! Normal? Dreamt of another person; the ex?!.
Thank you Thank you .
freaking call me!!! freaking call me!!!.
I'LL LISTEN...NEED ADVICE...SEPERATION I'LL LISTEN...NEED ADVICE...SEPERATION.
Love Rollercoaster Love Rollercoaster.
Can't even get a bath Can't even get a bath.
6 months and still sort of counting...slow porgress 6 months and still sort of counting...slow porgress.
POST-separation dating: I NEED UR OPINION! POST-separation dating: I NEED UR OPINION!.
WOO HOO WOO HOO.
If you could read my mind If you could read my mind.
Quit-Claim Deed Quit-Claim Deed.
Alive and Kicking Alive and Kicking.
Just Remember I love You Just Remember I love You.
reminiscing reminiscing.
Use Me Use Me.
The Look Of Love The Look Of Love.
What is the Difference between..between What is the Difference between..between.
I think I have become just as evil I think I have become just as evil.
The War begins The War begins.
how many are there? how many are there?.
Motorcycle Driveby Motorcycle Driveby.
Sadness Sadness.
Priorities Priorities.
Dying inside Dying inside.
OT- Back to College? OT- Back to College?.
Beautiful Soul Beautiful Soul.
ORDER IN THE COURT.... ORDER IN THE COURT.....
Until The Day I Die Until The Day I Die.
Everybody's Fool Everybody's Fool.
Criminals Criminals.
Today sucks Today sucks.
Jump right in Jump right in.
oh that was too funny... oh that was too funny....
Had enough Had enough.
Look at me! Look at me!!! Look at me! Look at me!!!.
My Favorite Movie Is ... My Favorite Movie Is ....
All the things I want to say All the things I want to say.
He's seperated, can we date? He's seperated, can we date?.
POLL: Hopeless Romantic? POLL: Hopeless Romantic?.
Torn Torn.
Returns w/ a Sad Heart Returns w/ a Sad Heart.
Help In Cleveland Ohio Help In Cleveland Ohio.
My friends are His friends My friends are His friends.
We started this TOGETHER??? We started this TOGETHER???.
still struggling after 2 months still struggling after 2 months.
Glory of Love Glory of Love.
Boomerang Boomerang.
Just Like Heaven Just Like Heaven.
Gone as a Girl Can Get Gone as a Girl Can Get.
~Bitter Sweet~ ~Bitter Sweet~.
How to Take Control How to Take Control.
OMG the frogs OMG the frogs.
Trying not to call Trying not to call.
I realized something- first date I realized something- first date.
LIttle Boys and their toys LIttle Boys and their toys .
The feelings just seem to get stranger The feelings just seem to get stranger.
Tack - Time for a new me Tack - Time for a new me.
Can't Go Back Can't Go Back.
Latest OJar.com traffic statistics Latest OJar.com traffic statistics.
Getting divorced today...still in love with EX Getting divorced today...still in love with EX.
Father-in-law Father-in-law.
== ==.
Smart Girl! Smart Girl!.
Thinking out loud Thinking out loud.
horror fans around NJ? horror fans around NJ?.
Horror con in NJ Horror con in NJ.
POEM: 100% People POEM: 100% People.
Thank You Thank You.
Me, Myself, And I Me, Myself, And I.
I HATE MY BOSS!!!!!!!!!! I HATE MY BOSS!!!!!!!!!!.
DAMAGED DAMAGED.
long story part 1 long story part 1.
long story part 2 long story part 2.
long story part 3 long story part 3.
Help Help what do I do Help Help what do I do .
unexpected co-worker convo unexpected co-worker convo.
Is it normal for a man to be crying, daily, months later? Is it normal for a man to be crying, daily, months later?.
anyone in maryland? anyone in maryland?.
Airplanes & Women Airplanes & Women.
Vent Vent.
One for the guys One for the guys.
judge me, i need it. judge me, i need it..
i have a question for the women.... i have a question for the women.....
? ?.
dazed and confused dazed and confused.
a little something for the ride to the dump expletives! a little something for the ride to the dump expletives!.
Is this really happening Is this really happening.
weight loss sucks weight loss sucks.
I was just 16 I was just 16.
The Captain Underpants collection The Captain Underpants collection.
Is he serious? Is he serious?.
A challenge A challenge.
I've known him since I was 5! I've known him since I was 5!.
Funny entries for the dictionary Funny entries for the dictionary.
Facing reality Facing reality.
Just to ask an old question Just to ask an old question.
Blurrrrrrrrrrrrr Blurrrrrrrrrrrrr.
(sigh) (sigh).
Need some positive words/thoughts Need some positive words/thoughts.
out of the blue out of the blue .
A story A story.
i cant let go i cant let go.
Excuse me, your LIFE is waiting. Excuse me, your LIFE is waiting..
I'm gonna learn how!!!! I'm gonna learn how!!!!.
why's it so hard to let the bitterness go? why's it so hard to let the bitterness go?.

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