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Need advice on burn all bridges now, cross none later strategy Need advice on burn all bridges now, cross none later strategy.
Goodbye Time (w/ link) Goodbye Time (w/ link).
I Go Blind I Go Blind.
Does divorce from a spouse mean divorce from the family? Does divorce from a spouse mean divorce from the family?.
Lost need advice Lost need advice.
uh oh, things are not going so well. uh oh, things are not going so well. .
I'm Sorry... I'm Sorry....
Anyone been to a psychic before? Anyone been to a psychic before?.
Masterpiece Masterpiece.
uggh so frustrated! uggh so frustrated!.
New member, my story New member, my story.
Growing up? Growing up?.
Color Test Color Test.
Amuse TWG Amuse TWG.
Thinking of the past.... Thinking of the past.....
Larger Ojar Gathering California, anyone? Larger Ojar Gathering California, anyone?.
bad 4 me, good laugh 4 u bad 4 me, good laugh 4 u.
As you drive remember Me As you drive remember Me.
too comfortable? too comfortable?.
torn torn.
I've come this far I've come this far.
my baby is growing up.... my baby is growing up.....
I used to believe I used to believe .
Just filed for divorce.... Just filed for divorce.....
Nude in cancun! Nude in cancun!.
newly single dad... newly single dad... .
Stupid Jockey! Stupid Jockey!.
For the New Mothers For the New Mothers.
How do you know for sure.... How do you know for sure.....
Father's Day - the new reality Father's Day - the new reality.
So I told her I was talking to someone... So I told her I was talking to someone....
Help! First person I've liked since the split but am so scared of screwing it up Help! First person I've liked since the split but am so scared of screwing it up.
sister moving.....sad..... sister moving.....sad......
Which cartoon charecter are you? Which cartoon charecter are you?.
Psychological test Psychological test.
past before my future past before my future.
Beren Quoted in the Denver Post Beren Quoted in the Denver Post.
1st day of summer 1st day of summer.
Sexual Skills Quiz Sexual Skills Quiz.
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Any advise on how this plays out??? Any advise on how this plays out???.
symbol in my driveway symbol in my driveway.
Blowing off steam... Blowing off steam....
why did i go through with it... why did i go through with it....
Inkblot test Inkblot test.
Finally, a little good news Finally, a little good news.
My first poem posting My first poem posting.
Need tight jeans Need tight jeans.
Marriage Strike Marriage Strike.
vendictive ex wife making threats and demands vendictive ex wife making threats and demands.
Any Colorado People Here? Any Colorado People Here?.
Latest OJar scam stopped Latest OJar scam stopped.
Missing my life......................... Missing my life..........................
They've been stolen!!! They've been stolen!!!.
Quiz for Women Quiz for Women.
EEEEEEeeekk! EEEEEEeeekk!.
Faint Faint.
New New.
Sorry men, another one for women Sorry men, another one for women.
Found after 4 days Found after 4 days.
The case of I don't want him but I don't want anyone else to have him... The case of I don't want him but I don't want anyone else to have him....
Cat Story Cat Story.
is it considered adultry after divorce has been filed? is it considered adultry after divorce has been filed? .
Better Version Better Version.
wife leaves to stay with her folks....bulimia wife leaves to stay with her folks....bulimia.
Something positive.... Something positive.....
Question? How long for no contact? Question? How long for no contact?.
Contact with the ex Contact with the ex.
psychologists psychologists.
Summer Solstice Summer Solstice.
Re:So scared! Re:So scared!.
Lonely for Connecticut Lonely for Connecticut.
Ex sex. Ex sex..
Do right woman, do right man Do right woman, do right man.
changing changing.
1 step forward and 2 steps back 1 step forward and 2 steps back.
Insights of a young girl Insights of a young girl.
Whats the motive? Whats the motive?.
Want to know a secret???? Want to know a secret????.
Do you know what love is Do you know what love is.
update on what up update on what up.
Need guys opinion - sorry so long Need guys opinion - sorry so long.
Suggestions for topics of good conversations Suggestions for topics of good conversations.
changed his religion changed his religion.
Now this is what I call a vent! Now this is what I call a vent!.
they punctured my yolk they punctured my yolk.
dance lessons dance lessons.
OJar in Mississippi OJar in Mississippi.
Fighting the Divorce machine Fighting the Divorce machine.
so confused so confused .
from bottom to top..in one week from bottom to top..in one week.
Dear me...again Dear me...again.
He needs time to sort out his life...confused - HELP! He needs time to sort out his life...confused - HELP!.
Hanging On the Dream Hanging On the Dream.
losing more weight losing more weight.
Why is it??? Why is it???.
It is all my fault.....or is it? It is all my fault.....or is it?.
MD/DC/N.VA MD/DC/N.VA.
You bastard! You bastard!.
Fighter or survivor??? Fighter or survivor???.
Revenge...is called a Lotus.... Revenge...is called a Lotus.....
2005 Darwin Awards :) 2005 Darwin Awards :).
Need some advice Need some advice.
Paper Sun Paper Sun.
Spoke to my ex and feel guilty Spoke to my ex and feel guilty.
-sigh- stbxw was served last night -sigh- stbxw was served last night.
Revenge on the cat Revenge on the cat.
Things Hallmark Cards Won't Say... Things Hallmark Cards Won't Say....
Made a fool of myself last night Made a fool of myself last night.
Texas Texas.
Love Was Not Enough For Us Love Was Not Enough For Us.
All the bridges that you burn... All the bridges that you burn....
Damn Internet Damn Internet.
Best friend and spouse arguing, how do I make them stop? Best friend and spouse arguing, how do I make them stop? .
I Am Yours I Am Yours.
questioning everything! questioning everything!.
Thought of the Day Thought of the Day.
2 Guys & a Girl 2 Guys & a Girl.
Women & Midlife Women & Midlife.
Cost of Childcare Cost of Childcare.
Help Me! I'm scared!!!!!! Help Me! I'm scared!!!!!!.
Ojar in south florida? Ojar in south florida?.
Girl, 7men and 3 lions Girl, 7men and 3 lions.
Questions Questions.
things I used to believe things I used to believe.
Mediation scheduled - I need advice Mediation scheduled - I need advice.
HMMMM!!!!! HMMMM!!!!!.
IS this hard for him also IS this hard for him also.
Old but still funny!! Old but still funny!!.
Amazingly Simple Home Remedies Amazingly Simple Home Remedies.
I don't get it! I don't get it!.
GAH! realtors and Ex-wives... GAH! realtors and Ex-wives....
this is a heavy one!!!! this is a heavy one!!!!.
just a couple of questions..... just a couple of questions......
Still smiling! Still smiling!.
Stupid!!! Stupid!!!.
He left me two days ago He left me two days ago.
please tell me ..... please tell me ......
Sick Bastard!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sick Bastard!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.
how could you? how could you?.
she's gone she's gone.
Won her heart, but lost mine Won her heart, but lost mine.
sistamamalover sistamamalover.
Things aren't what they seem Things aren't what they seem.
For all the Ladies in particular.... For all the Ladies in particular.....
Good Riddance Good Riddance.
non judgemental non judgemental.
What should I do now? What should I do now?.
Is this a bad sign?????? Is this a bad sign??????.
moving day 2 days away moving day 2 days away.
80 80.
Letter from a scorned wife :) Letter from a scorned wife :).
My dilemma My dilemma.
Poll: Do you think... Poll: Do you think....
Letter to myself Letter to myself.
Why does he use DS as leverage??? Why does he use DS as leverage???.
Alcohol !! Alcohol !! .
chicken !! chicken !!.
How do you.... How do you.....
I stood by you .... I stood by you .....
spouses who cheated ... spouses who cheated ... .
had my ultrasound yesterday....... had my ultrasound yesterday........
Divorce waiting period in NJ Divorce waiting period in NJ.
How can I raise my son if she leaves? How can I raise my son if she leaves?.
I didn't drink! I didn't drink!.
Designated Decoy Designated Decoy.
You are never gonna change are you! You are never gonna change are you!.
interesting evening interesting evening.
Ever stop and think... Ever stop and think....
Incomplete Incomplete.
a thank you to Michael a thank you to Michael.
One One.
i got a new car!! i got a new car!!.
NEW JOB!!!!!!!!!! NEW JOB!!!!!!!!!!.
MY naked pic online?!?!?! WTF?? MY naked pic online?!?!?! WTF??.
Murphy's Law Murphy's Law.
For some reason.... For some reason.....
Son of a Preacher Man Son of a Preacher Man.
To the other woman To the other woman .
A question of forgiveness A question of forgiveness.
MOVED: Why does he use DS as leverage??? MOVED: Why does he use DS as leverage???.
Had a bad day yesterday-acted a fool! Had a bad day yesterday-acted a fool!.
The secret to stress relief is... The secret to stress relief is... .
Do you ever feel... Do you ever feel....
got an e-mail from my sister..... got an e-mail from my sister......
Stuck Stuck.
now what? now what?.
POEM: The Myth of Divorce POEM: The Myth of Divorce.
Parents getting divorced to! Parents getting divorced to!.
husband controlling situation husband controlling situation.
I need help understanding......... I need help understanding..........
It's sinking in... It's sinking in....
Rot in hell Rot in hell.
jealousy and paranoia screwed me today jealousy and paranoia screwed me today.
kats true color kats true color.
What to do What to do.
Shouldn't surprise me but...grrrrr Shouldn't surprise me but...grrrrr.
Why Cheat? Why Cheat?.
Need alittle advice Need alittle advice.
will it make things right? will it make things right?.
Last day... Last day....
The Canyon behind her The Canyon behind her.
same ol' road same ol' road.
I am really missing my ex right now... I am really missing my ex right now....
What the &^*(@# (bleep) Do We Know? What the &^*(@# (bleep) Do We Know?.
I am thankful for... I am thankful for....
Just keeps getting harder Just keeps getting harder.
A dream A dream.
Not entirely sure what I think Not entirely sure what I think.
When is it bad advice to say... When is it bad advice to say....
I caught her...now what!! I caught her...now what!!.
Wedding Anniversary approaching-acknowledge or not? Wedding Anniversary approaching-acknowledge or not?.
CHICAGO STYLE HOT DOGS CHICAGO STYLE HOT DOGS.
Happy Summer To Everyone Happy Summer To Everyone.
obscene phone call obscene phone call.
Do you want fries with that? Do you want fries with that?.
This ones for the girls This ones for the girls.
what to do.... what to do.....
Had a great Pizza in Germany... Had a great Pizza in Germany....
NEW DRUGS FOR WOMEN NEW DRUGS FOR WOMEN.
Life is a miracle Life is a miracle.
moron strikes again! moron strikes again!.
Back In Black Back In Black.
U2 Tickets !! U2 Tickets !!.
Where is the nearest ditch.... Where is the nearest ditch.....
i am homeless i am homeless .
bumper sticker bumper sticker.
compulsive liar compulsive liar.
Ex is in Jail Ex is in Jail.
Old friends...new again Old friends...new again.
silly but cute.... silly but cute.....
New project at work New project at work.
This should be my theme song! This should be my theme song!.
Yes, I'm thinking about it. Yes, I'm thinking about it..
opinions needed.... opinions needed.....
sweet jane sweet jane.
Last ditch effort.... Last ditch effort.....
Just what are the rules of seperation? Just what are the rules of seperation?.
Good deeds do NOT go unpunished! Good deeds do NOT go unpunished!.
Wife's on her way with bad news... Wife's on her way with bad news....
Why do I feel this way? Why do I feel this way?.
Re:Hopes crushed Re:Hopes crushed.
Ojar in Lakewood, OH Ojar in Lakewood, OH.
How Can You Re-establish Trust If She Won't Admit Affair How Can You Re-establish Trust If She Won't Admit Affair.
any one getting unsolicitated mail on this site any one getting unsolicitated mail on this site.
Panic Attack! Panic Attack!.
Can she "love" a friend? Can she "love" a friend?.
Divorce is final today Divorce is final today.
Pieces - SUM41 Pieces - SUM41.
I love amazon.com I love amazon.com.
Can dating be bringing me flashbacks? Can dating be bringing me flashbacks?.
i completely snapped i completely snapped.
A rather unusual tale. A rather unusual tale..
What's worse? What's worse?.
One Day One Day.
Anniversary and x's Birthday coming up.... Anniversary and x's Birthday coming up.....
Just a vent Just a vent.
My heart is broken My heart is broken.
Everyday I love you less and less Everyday I love you less and less.
Run - Snow Patrol Run - Snow Patrol.
Trying to move forward Trying to move forward.
I'm worried about my brother, please help I'm worried about my brother, please help.
Reconciliation is weird...advice? Reconciliation is weird...advice?.
Not strong enough.. Not strong enough...
visitation visitation.
W......T.......F???????? W......T.......F????????.
Healing heart Healing heart.
Lost Prophets Lost Prophets .
Mediation Round one = Impasse Mediation Round one = Impasse.
Great end to the week Great end to the week.
Really bad day.... Really bad day.....
One year ago today... One year ago today....
Steve Jobs Commencement Address Steve Jobs Commencement Address.
Now I'm irked! Now I'm irked!.
sister separation? sister separation?.
newbie looking for ppl who understand... newbie looking for ppl who understand....
to whom it may concern, to whom it may concern,.
Who the F**k are you? Who the F**k are you?.
What a bunch of bulls**t What a bunch of bulls**t.
How long does it take to stop having false starts? This is impossible! How long does it take to stop having false starts? This is impossible!.
advice on handling emotion advice on handling emotion.
How can someone you love turn into a stranger? How can someone you love turn into a stranger?.
My fearless facade crumbled yesterday. My fearless facade crumbled yesterday..
It happened now what do I do It happened now what do I do.
Who has made it without others support Who has made it without others support.
Alabama Slammer Alabama Slammer.
Major prob!! Major prob!!.
The Return of an Old Veteran The Return of an Old Veteran.
She want to move out now She want to move out now.
So, does it matter? So, does it matter? .
Affairs, abortion and doubts Affairs, abortion and doubts.
Dating Poll for everyone Dating Poll for everyone.
Beren is out of town until July 6... Beren is out of town until July 6....
I Should Have Listened to the Advice I Received Here Two Years Ago I Should Have Listened to the Advice I Received Here Two Years Ago.
Meeting a New Friend Update Meeting a New Friend Update.
Missing my children already Missing my children already.
To Me To Me.
how do i go about this? how do i go about this?.
The Rebound Question... The Rebound Question....
Inspirational Story Inspirational Story.
Want to see some SWEET CARS? Want to see some SWEET CARS?.
Dry your Eyes Dry your Eyes.
weight loss totals? weight loss totals?.
WHOA.... There really IS a site for everything! WHOA.... There really IS a site for everything!.
re-marrying? re-marrying?.
Mathematical formulation of passion. Mathematical formulation of passion..
The darkness inside The darkness inside.
Hello guys! Hello guys!.
DON'T GET MAD! GET EVEN!W DON'T GET MAD! GET EVEN!W.
Venting about the past/present Venting about the past/present.
what happens when they ask for space? what happens when they ask for space?.
Choose life. Choose life..
Birthday Blues Birthday Blues.
I hate it I hate it.
"I'm a dying breed"-now get out! "I'm a dying breed"-now get out!.
My story My story.
Fight with Mom Fight with Mom.
Landlord letters Landlord letters.
For the Lonely and Depressed For the Lonely and Depressed.
Is blood thicker than water ? Is blood thicker than water ?.
100 Cheesy Pick Up Lines 100 Cheesy Pick Up Lines.
guilty!!!! guilty!!!!.
? for those who left marriage ? for those who left marriage.
Still thinking I'm married...when I'm out on a date... Still thinking I'm married...when I'm out on a date....
am i a worry wart? am i a worry wart?.
AM I STUPID??????? AM I STUPID???????.
opinions on books opinions on books.
Darwin Awards! Darwin Awards!.
Easy/Fast Meals Easy/Fast Meals.
DON’T STOP BELIEVIN’ "Rock Barbie" DON’T STOP BELIEVIN’ "Rock Barbie".
SEPARATE WAYS "RB" SEPARATE WAYS "RB".
SECOND WIND "RB" SECOND WIND "RB".
The Angel Song "RB" The Angel Song "RB".
Gutter Ballat Gutter Ballat .
The Price You Pay The Price You Pay .
You're Alive You're Alive .
Radio (Plugged in and ready to fall) Radio (Plugged in and ready to fall).
EYES WITHOUT A FACE EYES WITHOUT A FACE.
WALKING ON A THIN LINE WALKING ON A THIN LINE.
TURN THE PAGE TURN THE PAGE.
friendly to frigid? friendly to frigid?.
LIKE A ROCK LIKE A ROCK.
SUNDAY BLOODY SUNDAY SUNDAY BLOODY SUNDAY.
BREAKDOWN BREAKDOWN.
MY SACRIFICE MY SACRIFICE.
Black Velvet Black Velvet .
alcoholic owns car-no license-I don't want it-need advice. alcoholic owns car-no license-I don't want it-need advice..
ALIVE ALIVE.
New guy old story New guy old story.
HARD TO HANDLE "Vixen" HARD TO HANDLE "Vixen".
KEEP AWAY KEEP AWAY.
Roll With it Baby Vixen! Roll With it Baby Vixen!.
PRIMAL CONCRETE SLEDGE "Vixen" PRIMAL CONCRETE SLEDGE "Vixen".
Don't Tell Me "Vixen" Don't Tell Me "Vixen".
Not worth the sh*t Not worth the sh*t.
LOOKIN’ OUT MY BACK DOOR LOOKIN’ OUT MY BACK DOOR.
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taking a break taking a break.
Dating my husband Dating my husband.
Seperated because of Drugs Seperated because of Drugs.
Don't Speak Don't Speak.
Fireworks Fireworks.
Test #3 down, 4 to go Test #3 down, 4 to go.
Alone Alone.
I hate you!!! I hate you!!!.
adrift adrift.
realized that i like someone realized that i like someone.
up a big creek up a big creek.
anyone else? anyone else? .
...and so it is over. ...and so it is over..
YOu are crazy!! YOu are crazy!!.
What Might Have Been What Might Have Been.
lost??? lost???.
every breath you take every breath you take.
gotta a glimpse of him today gotta a glimpse of him today.
Phone relationship gone bad - LONG (sorry) Phone relationship gone bad - LONG (sorry).
Be Yourself Be Yourself.
Unfair burden,being left Unfair burden,being left.
Letter to STBX Mother in Law - Help! Letter to STBX Mother in Law - Help!.
Hemorrhage -- Fuel Hemorrhage -- Fuel.
Can you truly get over your ex without finding someone else? Can you truly get over your ex without finding someone else?.
How can one get to be completely happy being alone? How can one get to be completely happy being alone?.
told to do this and its helping told to do this and its helping.
Good Night Message Good Night Message.
TWGFB arrives tomorrow :) TWGFB arrives tomorrow :).
Well, not today, per se...... Well, not today, per se.......
movie cattle movie cattle.
Is it too much to ask? Is it too much to ask?.
That was Creepy! That was Creepy! .
Saweet Song Saweet Song.
For real For real.
EX Called OM has Turned up Missing! EX Called OM has Turned up Missing!.
My heart says yes My heart says yes.
The Universe is out to get me today The Universe is out to get me today.
We actually freakin' won a game! We actually freakin' won a game!.
Meeting people online, then meeting in person Meeting people online, then meeting in person.
Right to be wrong Right to be wrong.
Dear selfish pr**k!!!! Dear selfish pr**k!!!!.
jerk jerk.
Got an award today! Got an award today!.
Is age just another number? Is age just another number?.
you looked great tonight you looked great tonight.
need advice pls help need advice pls help.
Sh*ty world...it's not fair Sh*ty world...it's not fair.
She says she's sorry but still is going to hurt me She says she's sorry but still is going to hurt me.
Interesting Article on Cheating: Interesting Article on Cheating:.
Condescending, insulting divorce lawyer Condescending, insulting divorce lawyer.
Kid seeing mom having sex with boyfriend! HELP!! Kid seeing mom having sex with boyfriend! HELP!!.
OW keeps emailing OW keeps emailing.
Does 50/50 really work? Does 50/50 really work?.
Church? Church?.
How to clean your screen How to clean your screen.
clock clock.
Is there anything I should start doing Is there anything I should start doing .
Alcohol Alcohol.
Argh! You're dating already!? Argh! You're dating already!?.
1st Grade Proverbs 1st Grade Proverbs.
Noticeable Insanity Noticeable Insanity.
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Aaaarrrrgggghhhhh! Aaaarrrrgggghhhhh!.
Have fun on these last days? Have fun on these last days?.
HELP!!! Dilemma HELP!!! Dilemma.
Is this for me? Is this for me?.
Latest visitor statistics for OJar.com Latest visitor statistics for OJar.com.
Getting Numb Getting Numb.
Review my Bosses ??? Review my Bosses ???.
Resumed No Contact Rule Resumed No Contact Rule.
so...he finally called..... so...he finally called......
Not sure where to put this................. Not sure where to put this..................
Defining/Understanding Divorce Relationship Defining/Understanding Divorce Relationship.
I Can't Let Go I Can't Let Go.
Let It Slide Let It Slide.
What do you regret? What do you regret?.
resignation resignation.
he stopped loving her today he stopped loving her today.
Do not stand by my grave and weep Do not stand by my grave and weep.
you're bleedin me you're bleedin me.
Feel Worse After OJAR? Feel Worse After OJAR?.
So Frustrated So Frustrated.
The Sun The Sun.
Can't handle more stress Can't handle more stress.
Does anyone have insight on the no Does anyone have insight on the no.
Knockin On Heavens Door Knockin On Heavens Door .
November Rain November Rain.
You Just Can't Make This Up! You Just Can't Make This Up!.
Patience Patience.
Flabbergasted Flabbergasted.
Thank you Thank you.
Basket Case Basket Case.
Mountain Song Mountain Song.
Time Time.
For everyone who had a rough day.... For everyone who had a rough day.....
Comedown Comedown.
the chain the chain.
Could never give this to him Could never give this to him.
Do i send an anniversary card? Do i send an anniversary card?.
Why isn't he filing for divorce? Why isn't he filing for divorce?.
scared of myself scared of myself.
sex without passion? sex without passion?.
stuck between a rock and a hard place.. stuck between a rock and a hard place...
anxioty attacks anxioty attacks.
acadamy awards acadamy awards.
when is something good going to happen for me. when is something good going to happen for me..
Peach Peach.
How could he How could he.
Infant and Toddler Infant and Toddler.

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