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What shall I drink? What shall I drink?.
STBX and rumors STBX and rumors.
Well, a good thing happened yesterday Well, a good thing happened yesterday.
Bad day...blah.... Bad day...blah.....
Bigger Mistake than my marriage Bigger Mistake than my marriage.
"Love Pondered" "Love Pondered".
Good divorce lawyer in NYC? Good divorce lawyer in NYC?.
social social .
Weight question Weight question.
:'( :'(.
"Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay" "Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay".
Christmas Newsletter Christmas Newsletter.
Closing, closure, case closed. Closing, closure, case closed..
Ted Kaczynski Syndrome Ted Kaczynski Syndrome.
Feeling selfish Feeling selfish.
Answer me this one.... Answer me this one.....
In My Daughter's Eyes In My Daughter's Eyes.
Re:This will probably irritate the women Re:This will probably irritate the women .
venting is good right? venting is good right?.
Final Hearing set!!! Final Hearing set!!!.
Damaged Damaged.
November 21, 2003 November 21, 2003.
Online divorce services? Online divorce services?.
Cats VS Dogs as pets... Cats VS Dogs as pets....
A Bachelor's Kitchen Guide A Bachelor's Kitchen Guide.
Rules for Cats Rules for Cats.
No more pictures... No more pictures....
Little Known Feline Ailments Little Known Feline Ailments.
White Flag White Flag.
It's almost over...I think It's almost over...I think.
two babys and no more love two babys and no more love.
He doesn't even know his own daughter! He doesn't even know his own daughter!.
Is it considered kidnapping!!!!!!! Is it considered kidnapping!!!!!!!.
separated after one year separated after one year.
Painful situation. Painful situation..
NYC OJar ladies... NYC OJar ladies....
No voice, No spirit No voice, No spirit.
sat night blues sat night blues.
Funny "Flash" Movie Funny "Flash" Movie.
Lawyer closed case Lawyer closed case.
Went to a wedding alone. Went to a wedding alone..
holidays holidays.
I WILL I WILL.
in times of stress in times of stress.
Another milestone Another milestone.
Ojar Christmas cruise Ojar Christmas cruise.
Hazy shade of winter. Hazy shade of winter..
I need advice. I need advice. .
Can I join? Can I join?.
no i didn't disappear no i didn't disappear.
STBX jailed STBX jailed.
online dating redux online dating redux.
Holiday Crisis Holiday Crisis.
Call from sister-in-law Call from sister-in-law.
Thanksgiving Humor Thanksgiving Humor.
Anyone heard of internet divorcing? Anyone heard of internet divorcing?.
Buckle and Break Buckle and Break.
Love is 'As Addictive as Cocaine' Love is 'As Addictive as Cocaine'.
I am really mad.... I am really mad.....
The ink isn't even dry and she pulls a 180 The ink isn't even dry and she pulls a 180.
Head Slappers Head Slappers.
Angel Angel.
Seperated for one year----no papers yet Seperated for one year----no papers yet.
Problems with S2BX's drug use Problems with S2BX's drug use.
My Story and My Dilemma... My Story and My Dilemma....
completely blindsided and devastated completely blindsided and devastated.
Pity party for one. Pity party for one..
Another day closer.... Another day closer.....
Revenge Therapy ! Revenge Therapy !.
I'm scared.... I'm scared.....
Court Monday-Are Judges Sympathetic? Court Monday-Are Judges Sympathetic?.
Just venting Just venting.
1 month token 1 month token.
A Wild Hare! A Wild Hare!.
How to approach someone How to approach someone.
I just want to be strong I just want to be strong.
What are YOU thankful for? What are YOU thankful for?.
why is life so unfair? why is life so unfair?.
I am so depressed... I am so depressed....
Dido - White Flag Dido - White Flag.
social phobias social phobias.
Thanksgiving Nightmare Thanksgiving Nightmare.
Thank You, Ojar Gang Thank You, Ojar Gang.
Time..time...time...is on my side... :( Time..time...time...is on my side... :(.
Ho-hum Ho-hum.
From Bad to Worse... From Bad to Worse....
Someday Someday.
How do you cope How do you cope .
The pain of finding out info about your SO! The pain of finding out info about your SO!.
be strong be strong.
I'm Free... I'm Free....
The agony & lies continue The agony & lies continue.
I agree with the lying, Leem I agree with the lying, Leem.
I think I screwed up I think I screwed up.
The Ring--What happens to it? The Ring--What happens to it?.
Down side of the rollercoaster Down side of the rollercoaster.
inebr's pity party inebr's pity party .
sleepless down south..... sleepless down south......
commitment and resentment commitment and resentment.
how to stop nicotine addiction? how to stop nicotine addiction?.
dating phobia dating phobia.
Birthdays Birthdays.
'Tis the Season - Am I being a harda$$? 'Tis the Season - Am I being a harda$$?.
Here we go again.... Here we go again.....
Somebody Shoot me Somebody Shoot me .
Good luck... Good luck....
Christmas Christmas.
I dont know if I am healing or not? I dont know if I am healing or not?.
I think I'm catching a cold... I think I'm catching a cold....
Less than 3 hours to go Less than 3 hours to go.
Im off to see the wizard... Im off to see the wizard....
Am I in trouble?! Am I in trouble?!.
Male vs. Female! Male vs. Female!.
No trusting myself with men No trusting myself with men.
Dec 1, 2003 Dec 1, 2003.
Case Closed--For Now Case Closed--For Now.
Does anyone still keep in contact with their former in-laws ? Does anyone still keep in contact with their former in-laws ?.
Divorce really sucks Divorce really sucks.
Please help me not to cheat Please help me not to cheat .
What does love realy is? Please tell me! What does love realy is? Please tell me!.
City of Angels City of Angels.
question question.
The stbx called today The stbx called today.
Disenchanted Disenchanted.
Budgets and getting by Budgets and getting by.
Christmas Christmas.
presentation presentation.
2003 Highlights and Lowlights on OJar.com 2003 Highlights and Lowlights on OJar.com.
What do you do when... What do you do when....
What is my s2bx doing? What is my s2bx doing?.
The saga keeps DRAGGING on!! The saga keeps DRAGGING on!!.
We find support and friends We find support and friends .
Decorating for Christmas Decorating for Christmas.
Pictures of mom/dad Pictures of mom/dad.
Made up my mind... Made up my mind....
What would it take? What would it take?.
Nightmares Nightmares.
Red Light Red Light.
Amnesty Is Granted Amnesty Is Granted.
To think I used to love you (Uncle Cracker) To think I used to love you (Uncle Cracker).
Haunted Haunted.
phew phew.
A Leonard Cohen song A Leonard Cohen song.
S2BX signed Order of Appearance S2BX signed Order of Appearance.
Last name.... Last name.....
I'm getting very anxious. I'm getting very anxious..
I want her to feel as I do. I want her to feel as I do..
*sigh* I feel like crying *sigh* I feel like crying.
WHAT?!? WHAT?!?.
Sad & Lonely Sad & Lonely.
That's That That's That.
Letting go of each other Letting go of each other.
A Woman Should Have..... A Woman Should Have......
Just relaxed! Just relaxed!.
tax info tax info.
Re:Liberal, Conservative or Texan? Re:Liberal, Conservative or Texan?.
Crazy Night Crazy Night.
Would you do it all over again? Would you do it all over again?.
free money? free money?.
Stupid thing... Stupid thing....
"Live On" "Live On".
Wow... Wow....
the ugly, the bad, and the good the ugly, the bad, and the good.
"UrineTown" "UrineTown".
Online Divorce Adjustment Assessment Online Divorce Adjustment Assessment.
Moved out... past & gone Moved out... past & gone.
I'm here and feeling very nervous I'm here and feeling very nervous.
Very Funny Audio File Very Funny Audio File.
hey hey.
Christmas Snowglobe Christmas Snowglobe.
I HATE HIM SOMETIMES!! I HATE HIM SOMETIMES!!.
My son is not allowed to tell me goodbye!?!?! My son is not allowed to tell me goodbye!?!?!.
Dec 7, 2003 Dec 7, 2003.
Thank you OU!!! Thank you OU!!!.
taking forever? taking forever?.
Maybe he was right... Maybe he was right....
Un-freakin believable! Un-freakin believable!.
one week left one week left.
Happy day for me :) Happy day for me :).
Just when I thought it was over... Just when I thought it was over....
what to do now what to do now.
Lawyer Vent Lawyer Vent.
Empty Empty.
Dec 8, 2003 Dec 8, 2003.
the easy way out? the easy way out?.
I finally feel good! I finally feel good!.
wedding dress wedding dress.
This divorce may actually happen... This divorce may actually happen....
Memorial Stone Memorial Stone.
Yay, me. Yay, me. .
Scrubbin' Scrubbin'.
Told her how I feel Told her how I feel.
Well, I am back home now. Well, I am back home now..
court date court date.
Well Friday my new life starts. and divorce settlement Well Friday my new life starts. and divorce settlement.
New Order New Order.
Another day, another post Another day, another post.
new to this new to this.
Dec 11, 2003 Dec 11, 2003.
HELP! Panic attacks back! HELP! Panic attacks back!.
here's something different here's something different.
family question family question.
What we ALL have to look forward to! ;D What we ALL have to look forward to! ;D.
Uh Oh more drama on the horizon Uh Oh more drama on the horizon.
happy White Trash Christmas!! happy White Trash Christmas!!.
lonely lonely.
"Empty Rooms" "Empty Rooms".
"when things fall apart" "when things fall apart".
IS THIS RIGHT? IS THIS RIGHT?.
After that Job.. After that Job...
MILITARY MILITARY.
Somethings Got to Give Somethings Got to Give.
When do we stop feeling like total rejects? When do we stop feeling like total rejects?.
communication suggestions communication suggestions.
waisted time waisted time.
it's final it's final.
She Talks to Angels - The Black Crowes She Talks to Angels - The Black Crowes.
All her stuff is finally gone... almost. All her stuff is finally gone... almost..
Boy we didn't have games like this! Boy we didn't have games like this!.
Marriage is the Weakest "Contract" Marriage is the Weakest "Contract".
Just venting Just venting.
After the darkness, a beautiful new day... After the darkness, a beautiful new day....
When does the healing begin? When does the healing begin?.
Hi all...another newbie here Hi all...another newbie here.
Moving mayhem Moving mayhem.
I am blessed I am blessed.
Don't know Don't know.
Putting it all behind you Putting it all behind you.
Family Family.
Stuff Stuff.
those lonley feelings.... those lonley feelings.....
Contract pending baby!!! Contract pending baby!!!.
It's Official It's Official.
need some help and input!! need some help and input!!.
Weirdness Weirdness.
Here Without You Here Without You.
Phil Collins Phil Collins.
One One.
Put some Iron in your diet Put some Iron in your diet.
I Will Survive I Will Survive.
How do we split debt/equity? How do we split debt/equity?.
My papers were filed today. My papers were filed today..
Pre trial conference.... Pre trial conference.....
I will remember you I will remember you.
Ugh..... Ugh......
head abouyt to explode head abouyt to explode.
Im gonna give a mini vent.. Im gonna give a mini vent...
Tough to swallow... Tough to swallow....
HOLIDAY CARD FROM ME TO OJAR HOLIDAY CARD FROM ME TO OJAR.
Holiday Greetings Holiday Greetings.
MOVED: HOLIDAY CARD FROM ME TO OJAR MOVED: HOLIDAY CARD FROM ME TO OJAR.
Dec 19, 2003 Dec 19, 2003.
I just can't figure this out... I just can't figure this out....
Trying to understand Trying to understand.
the grass is greener - woe is me the grass is greener - woe is me.
Cured. Cured..
Off the schnide/friends w/benefits Off the schnide/friends w/benefits.
send in the clowns send in the clowns.
SURF SURF.
economic sectors economic sectors.
I keep telling myself... I keep telling myself....
Installing Love Installing Love.
Well, it worked out marvelously! Well, it worked out marvelously!.
I shouldn't care but.... I shouldn't care but.....
Hey All.....Miss Me.... Hey All.....Miss Me.....
So do you have plans for Xmas So do you have plans for Xmas.
A wonderful poem.... A wonderful poem.....
My greeting to OJAR My greeting to OJAR.
Peace Peace.
I guess I should have known... I guess I should have known....
OMG! STBX is just an alien! OMG! STBX is just an alien!.
Trouble Trouble.
Happy holidays and thank you all Happy holidays and thank you all.
Totally Depressed Totally Depressed.
ok now, when are we going to have this ojar party? ok now, when are we going to have this ojar party?.
I'll Stand By You I'll Stand By You.
I finally did it!!!!! I finally did it!!!!!.
Re:It's Friday! Re:It's Friday!.
Boys don't cry & Pictures of You Boys don't cry & Pictures of You.
online dating - help online dating - help.
What is the stupidest item ya'll argued over? What is the stupidest item ya'll argued over?.
MBTI-Type Prayers MBTI-Type Prayers.
little blue box :) little blue box :).
Worst holiday ever... Worst holiday ever....
How do I break the news? How do I break the news?.
this book was good this book was good.
How's everyone doing? How's everyone doing?.
Work Related - New Topic Work Related - New Topic.
Eating when you don't want to Eating when you don't want to.
Bound here by guilt, hope, or fear? Bound here by guilt, hope, or fear?.
Has this happened to anyone else Has this happened to anyone else.
Judy Blue Eyes Judy Blue Eyes.
it's been a long time...update it's been a long time...update.
Friends ? Friends ?.
Any one who could relate? Any one who could relate?.
Painfull separation... Painfull separation....
Painfull separation 2 Painfull separation 2.
when is enough.. enough? when is enough.. enough?.
Climb Ev'ry Mountain Climb Ev'ry Mountain.
Happy holidays Happy holidays.
I am so tired... I am so tired....
another story another story.
Okay Now What? Okay Now What?.
What do I want? What do I want?.
1000 Oceans 1000 Oceans.
Sadday update Sadday update.
New Year List New Year List.
Thank You Thank You.
Happy New Year Happy New Year.
Lost Lost .
Left searching... Left searching....
Afraid of what's coming... Afraid of what's coming....
Waiting for divorce papers to be served Waiting for divorce papers to be served.
One Last Cry.. One Last Cry...
pulling my hair out pulling my hair out.
I feel good I feel good.
Vacation! Vacation!.
Marriage--My Perception Marriage--My Perception.
A Winner's Creed A Winner's Creed.
Ok one more.. Ok one more...
Need Opinions Need Opinions.
Early Separation Early Separation.
New to the board and seeking advice New to the board and seeking advice.
Possible New Member Possible New Member.
Re:New Year Resolutions Re:New Year Resolutions.
STBX Finally called STBX Finally called.
I'm on a down swing (longish) I'm on a down swing (longish).
Book about forgiveness Book about forgiveness.
Where Is The Love Where Is The Love.
Fabulous! Fabulous!.
Have I made a mistake? Have I made a mistake?.
what am I doing? what am I doing?.
Rethinking fast food Rethinking fast food.
Need advice Need advice.
Online Update Online Update.
Mini rant.... Mini rant.....
regarding self esteem regarding self esteem.
It's final....ahhhhhhhhh.... It's final....ahhhhhhhhh.....
Easy divorce Hard After Easy divorce Hard After.
Why is that... Why is that....
We're gonna party, likes its your birthday, we're gonna drink Bacardi.. We're gonna party, likes its your birthday, we're gonna drink Bacardi...
Yesterday Yesterday.
Falling in Love: Before & After Falling in Love: Before & After.
A jeweler's joke A jeweler's joke.
Newbie here...My story Newbie here...My story.
He Wasn't Man Enough He Wasn't Man Enough.
Gift !! Gift !!.
Blowing some steam Blowing some steam.
Been a long time Been a long time.
WILL THE REAL DUMMY PLEASE STAND UP?? WILL THE REAL DUMMY PLEASE STAND UP??.
Angry and Alone Angry and Alone.
Looking for any outlet that helps Looking for any outlet that helps.
Are you Happy now? Are you Happy now?.
And Still I Rise And Still I Rise.
OLD TIMER OLD TIMER.
my little ditty part 2 my little ditty part 2.
my little ditty part 1 my little ditty part 1.
Advise Needed!!! Advise Needed!!!.
Brush With Fame! Brush With Fame!.
Jan 9, 2004 Jan 9, 2004.
My Story My Story.
i finally found the site i need i finally found the site i need.
insomnia insomnia.
Help Needed Help Needed.
Beautiful day! Beautiful day!.
The count down! The count down!.
Why is it? Why is it?.
Emotional Weekend ! Emotional Weekend !.
Everybody Hurts - REM Everybody Hurts - REM.
Gloves are Off. Gloves are Off..
how soon is too soon how soon is too soon.
Learning to Flirt Learning to Flirt.
Sigh Sigh.
A good problem to have, I guess.... A good problem to have, I guess.....
getting off the rollercoaster getting off the rollercoaster.
I wish you love I wish you love.
One-U2 One-U2.
the computer ate my husband the computer ate my husband.
looking for input looking for input.
Looking/Feeling Great Looking/Feeling Great.
Diet Help Diet Help.
The Dance The Dance.
I'm so angry at my STBX I'm so angry at my STBX.
Everybody needs a little time away.. Everybody needs a little time away...
a sad one a sad one.
i am too old for this! i am too old for this!.
Cry Cry.
great books! great books!.
My Immortal My Immortal.
Begining of my story Begining of my story .
A feel good song..... A feel good song......
Too Soon ?? Too Soon ??.
frustration frustration.
Better Things Better Things.
X-box vs. PS2 X-box vs. PS2.
empowering song empowering song.
To Post or Not to Post To Post or Not to Post.
Help - Back to Ground Zero Help - Back to Ground Zero.
Real Women Real Women.
Feeling stupid... Feeling stupid....
A word of encouragement A word of encouragement.
The donkey The donkey.
Help My ex can't make up his mind Help My ex can't make up his mind.
why why why why why why why why why why.
I'll always have Paris I'll always have Paris.
New here... New here....
This is for all you LURKERS This is for all you LURKERS.
working on old hobbies working on old hobbies.
Something Wonderful did happen Something Wonderful did happen.
Linkin Park - In the End Linkin Park - In the End.
pointless anger pointless anger.
I'm doing the right thing aren't I? I'm doing the right thing aren't I?.
Comfort Comfort.
What happened to me What happened to me.
Sigh.... Sigh.....
Mutual decision Mutual decision.
Here we go again? Here we go again?.
10 years - nothing new 10 years - nothing new.
Resolution Resolution.
The Starter Marriage The Starter Marriage.
Sure did! Sure did!.
Have to laugh at breaking news in LA! Have to laugh at breaking news in LA!.
My story My story.
30th birthday goals? 30th birthday goals?.
What do I tell her? What do I tell her?.
Jan 19, 2004 Jan 19, 2004.
Depression can be delt with ? Depression can be delt with ?.
Im New And In Alot Of Pain Im New And In Alot Of Pain.
Letting her go is SO HARD Letting her go is SO HARD.
Doomed to repeat old patterns? Doomed to repeat old patterns?.
feeling off balance feeling off balance.
A place for unsent 'Letters to the Ex'... A place for unsent 'Letters to the Ex'....
Unsent letters Unsent letters.
MOVED: A place for unsent 'Letters to the Ex'... MOVED: A place for unsent 'Letters to the Ex'....
Jan 20, 2004 Jan 20, 2004.
HIGH / LOW HIGH / LOW.
Time is Slowing down the Roller Coaster Time is Slowing down the Roller Coaster.
an understanding song an understanding song.
quite sick of this quite sick of this.
Dealing with Cheating Spouse Dealing with Cheating Spouse.
Two positive songs Two positive songs.
New name tag... New name tag....
Birthday party Birthday party.
jason mraz soothes my soul jason mraz soothes my soul.
Austin Austin.
WTF ? WTF ?.
WHAT CAN I DO? WHAT CAN I DO?.
Together Again, after a year Together Again, after a year.
Something only a Woman would Understand! Something only a Woman would Understand!.
Yet another stab into my heart Yet another stab into my heart.
Ugh! He's marrying the Chickie Babe Ugh! He's marrying the Chickie Babe.
Defining Moments Defining Moments.
D@mn me... D@mn me....
Feeling Down Boys and Girls Feeling Down Boys and Girls.
Letter to X Letter to X.
Lean on Me Lean on Me.
New England gathering again anyone? New England gathering again anyone?.
I am trying but now it is all my fault need advice I am trying but now it is all my fault need advice.
dreams again dreams again.
Threats-when will it end? Threats-when will it end?.
Goodbye Goodbye.
SHE MAKES ME SO MAD!!! SHE MAKES ME SO MAD!!!.
i don't know what to do! i don't know what to do!.
Jan 26, 2004 Jan 26, 2004.
when it rains it pours when it rains it pours.
And a thousand thousand slimy things ... And a thousand thousand slimy things ....
my story my story.
Jan 27, 2004 Jan 27, 2004.
My Story My Story.
My story - newlywed My story - newlywed.
WHEN DOES IT END??? WHEN DOES IT END???.
WHAT?! WHAT?!.
Billy Joel Billy Joel.
Seeing each other Seeing each other.
Dating After Seperation Dating After Seperation.

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