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Tax Refund Frustrations Tax Refund Frustrations.
How could you? How could you?.
Step parents hardship Step parents hardship.
What you are What you are.
Almost done. Almost done..
phone calls phone calls.
From the top, to..here. From the top, to..here..
Let me rest in Peace Let me rest in Peace.
Another one by Sarah.... Another one by Sarah.....
Sorry.... Sorry.....
I'm in over my head...... I'm in over my head.......
Must be a day for sad songs... Must be a day for sad songs....
New twist on an old story.... What is the GOOD part of your divorce? New twist on an old story.... What is the GOOD part of your divorce?.
Slings and arrows Slings and arrows.
i am making myself sick i am making myself sick.
The Pharmacist The Pharmacist.
He's a NO SHOW He's a NO SHOW.
Three songs for a confused person Three songs for a confused person.
Billy Blanks Rules Billy Blanks Rules.
Pre-Trial Heating Pre-Trial Heating.
BMV Vs. Child Support BMV Vs. Child Support.
Stepfathers curse Stepfathers curse.
BAM!!--There's that brick wall.... BAM!!--There's that brick wall.....
:( :(.
stbx dating already stbx dating already.
Dating so soon, fools Dating so soon, fools.
Valentines day scorpions Valentines day scorpions.
Slander?? Slander??.
Strange sadness Strange sadness.
Little Old Ladies Little Old Ladies.
I really need your help today. I really need your help today..
Has anyone read??? Has anyone read???.
second opinion on sex second opinion on sex.
Lawyers and their amazing fees. Lawyers and their amazing fees..
Valentine's Day Valentine's Day.
Finally...... Finally.......
What is YaBB??? What is YaBB???.
For the girls! For the girls!.
Birds of a feather Birds of a feather.
Agreement Papers Signed Agreement Papers Signed.
Feeding our child Feeding our child.
You crushed my dreams You crushed my dreams.
Evil Hallmark Cards Evil Hallmark Cards.
Pain Pain.
eyes of a stranger eyes of a stranger.
Weathered Weathered.
Outta here :) Outta here :).
my letter my letter.
I despise my ex I despise my ex.
Feb 4. 2004 Feb 4. 2004.
Absolutely crazy decision Absolutely crazy decision.
5 am ramble 5 am ramble.
Descent Descent.
All in the Spelling... All in the Spelling....
advice needed advice needed.
Divorced gardening!! Divorced gardening!!.
I hate all this ambiguity! Any advice? I hate all this ambiguity! Any advice?.
What a waste.... What a waste.....
Emotional Intelligence Emotional Intelligence.
Don't Stay Don't Stay.
Big Problems, already Big Problems, already.
Feeling guilty Feeling guilty.
There is Life There is Life.
$150/hour $150/hour.
Any HALO fans? Any HALO fans?.
S.O.S. same old................story :-) 1 of 2 S.O.S. same old................story :-) 1 of 2.
the loneliest rose the loneliest rose.
Silver and Cold Silver and Cold.
Baseball Baseball.
Red Dwarf Red Dwarf.
I HATE HIM! I HATE HIM!.
Marathon...here I come! Marathon...here I come! .
Here's a question for you.... Here's a question for you.....
A different kind of hangover A different kind of hangover.
Today It was Final Today It was Final.
odd appearances odd appearances.
Ramble... Ramble....
Why ??????? Why ???????.
Those Pictures... Those Pictures....
She's a Butterfly--Martina McBride She's a Butterfly--Martina McBride.
Hopeless Hopeless.
Date Date.
Here We Go Again! Here We Go Again!.
Long Weekend Long Weekend.
"Beautiful you are" "Beautiful you are".
ANGER!!! ANGER!!!.
A little of everything.... A little of everything.....
my story my story.
Nailed it... Nailed it....
What to do with the ring? What to do with the ring?.
The first few months The first few months.
And another one..... And another one......
Sometimes You Gotta Ask.......... Sometimes You Gotta Ask...........
A Mother's Story A Mother's Story.
Craving the old life back Craving the old life back.
be afraid- be very afraid be afraid- be very afraid.
Old Timer Needs Opinions Old Timer Needs Opinions.
A song we should all live by- "Soar" A song we should all live by- "Soar".
stephanie email stephanie email.
For Cat lovers For Cat lovers.
What would you do? What would you do?.
Guys - Some Dating advice? Guys - Some Dating advice?.
question about custody and the law question about custody and the law.
Marital Debts Marital Debts.
Signs that someone is NOT for you Signs that someone is NOT for you.
What to say when your spouse has cheated? What to say when your spouse has cheated?.
Why is he doing this???? Why is he doing this????.
"It" rears its ugly head "It" rears its ugly head.
Funny How Funny How.
IT IS SNOWING IT IS SNOWING.
Unfaithfulness Unfaithfulness.
Friday the 13th--not scary at all! Friday the 13th--not scary at all!.
Happy V.D. everyone! Happy V.D. everyone!.
emotional rebellion emotional rebellion.
Thanks for the support Thanks for the support.
AWESOME kabobs AWESOME kabobs.
Here goes... Here goes....
Hi Friends Hi Friends.
He has left me for her... He has left me for her....
HELP - am worried about myself HELP - am worried about myself.
Looking for friends and advice Looking for friends and advice.
enforcing agreements and dividing assets enforcing agreements and dividing assets.
When is it Too Soon? When is it Too Soon?.
Yet another depressed Ojarian..sigh... Yet another depressed Ojarian..sigh....
Is it just me, or..... ? Is it just me, or..... ?.
To My Ojar Friends To My Ojar Friends.
The Love of My Life The Love of My Life.
Great book Great book .
Finding a Lawyer??? Finding a Lawyer???.
Can anything be done? Can anything be done?.
Fear Fear.
Pointless Rambling Pointless Rambling.
Signed the agreement Signed the agreement.
feeling crappy feeling crappy.
Trust Question Trust Question.
Lost in the quagmire.... Lost in the quagmire.....
Numb Numb.
Heartbroken Heartbroken.
Looking for..... Looking for......
Honey Honey.
Felt like I was slapped Felt like I was slapped.
Wolly1234 - Anyone heard from him?? Wolly1234 - Anyone heard from him??.
Did marriage councelling helpful for you, and how? Did marriage councelling helpful for you, and how?.
I wasn't talking to you I wasn't talking to you.
wonderful indeed... wonderful indeed... .
Continued ... Continued ....
STBX RADAR STBX RADAR.
Barenaked Ladies Barenaked Ladies.
Bad day today Bad day today.
I need some help... I need some help....
Bushy Bushy.
My own personal Snuggler :) My own personal Snuggler :).
months since I cried months since I cried.
Almost giving up Almost giving up.
What are your maybes What are your maybes.
28 yr old, one month shy of the Divorce 28 yr old, one month shy of the Divorce.
Male Bashing Male Bashing.
Comfort Food Comfort Food.
When do you run out of tears? When do you run out of tears?.
He stopped loving her today; George Jones He stopped loving her today; George Jones.
Sympathy for the devil Sympathy for the devil.
What are you thankful for ? What are you thankful for ?.
sleeping problems sleeping problems.
Feb 22, 2004 Feb 22, 2004.
Makes me want to scream! Makes me want to scream!.
what now? what now?.
Major Stomach Issues - Ulsers? Major Stomach Issues - Ulsers?.
Can you be too flirty? Can you be too flirty?.
Tears like rain. Tears like rain..
Bushman - signing in...... Bushman - signing in.......
I still love him I still love him.
a little tom, anyone? a little tom, anyone? .
Good one Good one.
FYC FYC.
An Anti-vent An Anti-vent.
Divorce haiku- I dare you!!! Divorce haiku- I dare you!!!.
Please Help Me Please Help Me.
My divorce is final My divorce is final.
New OJar.com visitor record set yesterday! New OJar.com visitor record set yesterday!.
A battle over a rock A battle over a rock.
RINGER OFF! RINGER OFF!.
Haiku wars Haiku wars.
A Bridge A Bridge.
Reading for Fun Reading for Fun.
The (imaginary?) OM The (imaginary?) OM.
I married this person??? I married this person???.
Anniversaries ! Anniversaries !.
QUESTION? QUESTION?.
My attorney just called.... My attorney just called.....
Dear Jerk Dear Jerk.
Unrequested Generosity Unrequested Generosity.
mardi gras holiday mardi gras holiday.
Divorce-verse Divorce-verse.
First post - my story First post - my story.
My Heavy Heart My Heavy Heart.
Simply too much pain. Simply too much pain..
Negative Feelings Negative Feelings.
feeling down feeling down.
2 hours; what a difference 2 hours; what a difference.
Advice for a Wisconsin Divorce Advice for a Wisconsin Divorce.
So I sent her a card......a trivial gesture? So I sent her a card......a trivial gesture?.
How the tables have turned.... How the tables have turned.....
Dating & Healing Dating & Healing.
Suicidal Feelings Suicidal Feelings.
Getting past wanting to go back Getting past wanting to go back.
JOY JOY.
Collaborative Law Collaborative Law .
Still Around Still Around.
It's time; Rain on the Scarecrow It's time; Rain on the Scarecrow.
As the Leave-er As the Leave-er.
Strength; Please Read this ! Strength; Please Read this !.
Rambling part 1 Rambling part 1.
The Price of Gas. The Price of Gas..
I Can't Handle This Anymore I Can't Handle This Anymore.
Avoidance question Avoidance question.
FEAR FEAR.
Confused and Moody Confused and Moody.
A Prayer A Prayer.
Walked Outta Heaven Walked Outta Heaven.
What helps? What's next? What helps? What's next? .
Final Final.
You've Got to Stand For Something You've Got to Stand For Something.
Weekends stink. Weekends stink..
The need to be touched.... The need to be touched.....
Out of the mouths of babes Out of the mouths of babes.
Sowing Seeds Sowing Seeds.
Troubled Troubled.
Habitat For Humanity Habitat For Humanity.
PRO!! PRO!!.
Gossip Gossip.
How I got here How I got here.
Emptiness Emptiness.
Please come back Please come back.
Moo? hello Moo? Moo? hello Moo?.
The unsubtle, unwanted hook-up The unsubtle, unwanted hook-up.
Wish... Wish....
Now what? Now what?.
case settled case settled.
Please learn from me Please learn from me.
Complacency v. Contentment Complacency v. Contentment.
Masters Degree and 6 miles! Masters Degree and 6 miles!.
My anger is tearing me apart...more than ever... My anger is tearing me apart...more than ever....
if its not one thing its another....... if its not one thing its another........
PLEASE HELP!!! PLEASE HELP!!!.
WANT TO GO HOME! WANT TO GO HOME!.
4th attempt... splitting the story in two... 4th attempt... splitting the story in two....
Attorneys? When is it too soon? Attorneys? When is it too soon?.
Last night I dreamt of you Last night I dreamt of you.
Why Revenge? Why Revenge?.
Kiss the bottle Kiss the bottle.
Wow! Wow!.
Me Myself & I Me Myself & I.
Another good one... Another good one....
positive vibe to share...and lyrics! positive vibe to share...and lyrics!.
Is it lame to want to be alone? Is it lame to want to be alone?.
speed speed.
Worried and nervous Worried and nervous.
Some Ride Some Ride .
Not knowing how she's doing is driving me crazy Not knowing how she's doing is driving me crazy.
Nice! Check it out. Nice! Check it out..
How do you know? How do you know?.
The ex bomb... The ex bomb....
Clingy friend... Clingy friend....
Sobering experience.... Sobering experience.....
Some of my own.... Some of my own.....
not a poem - multi-parts... not a poem - multi-parts....
moving??? moving???.
"The Dance" - Garth Brooks "The Dance" - Garth Brooks.
Losing weight, gaining weight = Divorce diet! Losing weight, gaining weight = Divorce diet!.
trying to be fair to everyone trying to be fair to everyone.
Pop goes the bubble Pop goes the bubble.
My Greatest Fear My Greatest Fear.
The one you have not seen The one you have not seen.
Need HELP> Need HELP>.
Its a good day after all.... Its a good day after all.....
Devestated! Devestated!.
HIS ATTORNEY DID WHAT HE HAD TO DO to win HIS ATTORNEY DID WHAT HE HAD TO DO to win.
crazyness crazyness.
Alcoholic? Alcoholic?.
Dreams? Dreams?.
Who got/gave flowers? Who got/gave flowers?.
What A Fool! What A Fool!.
How many of you would reconcile... How many of you would reconcile....
My story--four parts.. My story--four parts...
My story and questions in response to Faegonsgold My story and questions in response to Faegonsgold.
Song cause I cant sleep.. Song cause I cant sleep...
Suggestions Suggestions.
Help! I'm Hurting! Help! I'm Hurting!.
I am in need of support I am in need of support.
HELP! HELP!.
reconciling question? reconciling question?.
This one is weirdly sad This one is weirdly sad.
Looking for help Looking for help.
A very private hell A very private hell.
Confused? Confused?.
On the verge of a nervous breakdown... On the verge of a nervous breakdown....
swapping attorneys swapping attorneys.
I just want to clean the bathroom I just want to clean the bathroom.
I would.... I would.....
Goodbye Goodbye.
Thief Thief.
Can you hear me now? Can you hear me now?.
lacking title right now lacking title right now.
Recently separated Recently separated.
counting crowes..? counting crowes..?.
divorce care divorce care.
It's Come to This - Fuel It's Come to This - Fuel.
Dear God Dear God.
Question of Trust Question of Trust.
Two down Two down.
Can I make it through this Can I make it through this.
I will do anything! I will do anything!.
Curiousity.... Curiousity.....
What Now? What Now?.
a very private hell part 2 in 2D a very private hell part 2 in 2D.
What are the chances? God......I've had enough of this! What are the chances? God......I've had enough of this!.
Poem by Katha Pollitt Poem by Katha Pollitt.
Date to marry v. ? Date to marry v. ?.
Care package via cute UPS guy Care package via cute UPS guy.
Not a poem - just found it on my computer Not a poem - just found it on my computer.
Some poems from when we first started dating... Some poems from when we first started dating....
Desire Desire.
"I wish you were dead" and other hits from northern MN "I wish you were dead" and other hits from northern MN.
Reneging on an employment contract Reneging on an employment contract.
I'm about to have a breakdown. I'm about to have a breakdown..
S.O.S S.O.S.
A word of advice A word of advice.
Backsliding Backsliding.
Postscript Postscript.
I Did It!!!!! I Did It!!!!!.
Need a release Need a release.
You were meant for me You were meant for me.
a very private hell pt. tres "This time it's personal." a very private hell pt. tres "This time it's personal.".
If you lived here, you'd be home now If you lived here, you'd be home now.
how often? how often? .
Cant stop thinking about flirty guys Cant stop thinking about flirty guys.
Sorry to bring back an 80's hair band... Sorry to bring back an 80's hair band....
Please fast forward to tomorrow Please fast forward to tomorrow.
While we're on 80's hair bands... While we're on 80's hair bands....
REVELATION REVELATION.
Is he for real? Is he for real?.
Off to the sky :) Off to the sky :).
Parenting Class No Show Parenting Class No Show.
Good News Good News.
stage two? stage two?.
The best thing The best thing.
Drunk at lunch!!! Drunk at lunch!!!.
Thank God for the Numb Heart Thank God for the Numb Heart.
New Rules for Employment New Rules for Employment.
For the Ladies For the Ladies.
Every 15 minutes... Every 15 minutes....
Price of your marriage.... Price of your marriage.....
Why is it?............... Why is it?................
old poem old poem.
Deep Thoughts by Jack Handy Deep Thoughts by Jack Handy.
Train in Vain Train in Vain.
IRONY AT IT'S BEST! IRONY AT IT'S BEST!.
Eternal Sunshine Eternal Sunshine.
starting over starting over.
why? why?.
CRAPPY DAY CRAPPY DAY.
By Myself By Myself.
Flower's Flower's.
Pisces_goddess Pisces_goddess.
Psycho ex Psycho ex.
Life is precious Life is precious.
Almost 3 months ago Almost 3 months ago.
How you do it How you do it.
I got stood up. I got stood up..
How do I know when to let go? How do I know when to let go?.
Bar Scene Gone Bad Bar Scene Gone Bad.
Having a hard time Having a hard time.
So now what?? So now what??.
Am I being petty? Am I being petty?.
funny song.. funny song.. .
The house The house.
And I was having such a good day... And I was having such a good day....
ChristyM - I want your thoughts!!!! ChristyM - I want your thoughts!!!!.
Hard Lesson Hard Lesson.
Motivation Motivation.
Do as I say, not as I just did... Do as I say, not as I just did... .
Impossible decision Impossible decision.
It's settling in now It's settling in now.
I'm sorry I'm sorry.
Sex sex sex Sex sex sex.
I hate you! I hate you!.
This weekend This weekend.
No More Sad Songs No More Sad Songs.
Evanescence Evanescence.
Wow, so much has changed Wow, so much has changed.
Query - bashfulness and overcoming it Query - bashfulness and overcoming it.
I did send this one, actually I did send this one, actually.
goodbye goodbye.
Something wierd Something wierd.
Where to start? Where to start?.
The Art of Forgiving The Art of Forgiving.
Tequila shots anyone? Tequila shots anyone?.
i never thought this would happen i never thought this would happen.
JERK!!!!! JERK!!!!!.
new != better new != better.
**DOUBLE** JERK!!! **DOUBLE** JERK!!!.
I'm a Grandma! I'm a Grandma!.
Ahhh The Joy's of Marriage Ahhh The Joy's of Marriage.
THE LOVE THAT WE LOST - Chely Wright THE LOVE THAT WE LOST - Chely Wright.
It took over two years to really understand... It took over two years to really understand....
Over the top, but I couldn't resist Over the top, but I couldn't resist.
Your favorite band/Live performance Your favorite band/Live performance.
Specialist ~ Sage Francis Specialist ~ Sage Francis.
Evil Woman Evil Woman.
cute joke cute joke.
"I love you" "I love you".
Lingering Guilt Lingering Guilt.
What temporary orders!?!?! Saga 2 What temporary orders!?!?! Saga 2.
St. Patricks Day St. Patricks Day.
Wow... talk about divorce impacting someone Wow... talk about divorce impacting someone.
length of time length of time.
Pre-Divorce Promises Pre-Divorce Promises.
Anyone have a brick wall handy??? Anyone have a brick wall handy???.
Favorite Fortune Cookie's ;) Favorite Fortune Cookie's ;).
Alone and Okay Alone and Okay.
Where should I begin? Where should I begin?.
Your Song Your Song.
Interesting Tidbit Interesting Tidbit.
Robert Frost Robert Frost.
Footprints Footprints.
why me? why me?.
Stupid Stupid.
Marriage Marriage.
one ring to bind them all one ring to bind them all.
New Ideas for Dealing with Rejection New Ideas for Dealing with Rejection.
i need help! i need help!.
Need Support/ Need Support/.
I Still Love Her I Still Love Her.
I Still Love Her I Still Love Her.
Stupid Lies Stupid Lies.
seems like a good one to me seems like a good one to me.
MOVED: Bar Scene Gone Bad MOVED: Bar Scene Gone Bad.
This sucks! This sucks!.
any advice on this? any advice on this?.
Which person is personally accountable? Which person is personally accountable?.
what stage is this? what stage is this?.
First Encounter First Encounter.
Right now... Right now....
PM Dawn PM Dawn.
Drawing the line! Drawing the line!.
I can't go there I can't go there.
The cage The cage.
High school to home out High school to home out.
more stuff from my past.... more stuff from my past.....
A little something for cheaters, OW, & OM everywhere A little something for cheaters, OW, & OM everywhere.
Uggggggg!! I feel like crap! Uggggggg!! I feel like crap! .
Dating during divorce Dating during divorce.
Happy birthday to me! Happy birthday to me!.
Breathe Breathe.
Crying in the fast lane Crying in the fast lane.
Something Awful Happened Today Something Awful Happened Today.
Walkin' Blues Walkin' Blues.
breakup breakup.
All alone? All alone?.
the wb high school reunion 2 the wb high school reunion 2.
Who pays? Who pays?.
Venting Venting.
Reflections on the last year or so... Reflections on the last year or so....
irony... irony... .
blue collar comedy tour blue collar comedy tour.
Weekend in the life of a divorced bushman... Weekend in the life of a divorced bushman....
Irresponsible me Irresponsible me.
so awkward ! so awkward !.
The Call The Call.
Kids/no kids Kids/no kids.
Introduction and questions. Introduction and questions..
Just checking in Just checking in.
How messed up am I??? How messed up am I???.
Causes of Divorce Causes of Divorce.
The new millenium The new millenium.
Introduction Introduction.
My heart burns as my souls cries fome longing My heart burns as my souls cries fome longing.
Just when I thought I was out..... Just when I thought I was out......
Thought everything was settled... Thought everything was settled....
My girlfriend went back to her ex-husband My girlfriend went back to her ex-husband.
"You owe it to me" "You owe it to me".
How would you handle this? How would you handle this?.
Child Support Orders Child Support Orders.
STBX is now EX!!!! STBX is now EX!!!!.
Jersey Girl Opens Today!!! :) Jersey Girl Opens Today!!! :) .
How do they know How do they know.

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