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Barring order. Barring order..
Accept it? Accept it?.
Letting Go Letting Go.
Question Question.
Daycare Daycare.
Question for the ladies..... Question for the ladies......
How do you deal with paralysis and inactivity? How do you deal with paralysis and inactivity?.
Mother Blues Mother Blues.
Coming Home Coming Home.
Why Now? Why Now?.
Hate... Hate....
Where is the strangest place that you've had or would like to have sex??? Where is the strangest place that you've had or would like to have sex???.
Some questions Some questions.
TV Show Seeks Separated or Divorced TV Show Seeks Separated or Divorced.
Hobbies and Interests Hobbies and Interests.
New Hobby and Interest Board launched. New Hobby and Interest Board launched..
Congrats to Bubba and BBH (new: pics added!!!) Congrats to Bubba and BBH (new: pics added!!!).
slapped in the face slapped in the face.
Writing Writing.
Ojar Book Club Ojar Book Club.
Day Four of the Flu. Yikes! Day Four of the Flu. Yikes!.
Golf Clubs.. Golf Clubs...
Sexual attraction to the Ex. Sexual attraction to the Ex..
I am never leaving this airport. I am never leaving this airport..
New and looking for answers New and looking for answers.
A nasty to the OW A nasty to the OW.
Creepy is.... Creepy is.....
Need help? Need help?.
tell me what u think tell me what u think.
All his money All his money.
I am hired at OutBack Steakhouse! I am hired at OutBack Steakhouse!.
haven't seen the news yet haven't seen the news yet.
Another Lawyer Joke Another Lawyer Joke.
Who would you like to nominate! Who would you like to nominate! .
4 miles!! 4 miles!!.
Dare You to Move-Switchfoot Dare You to Move-Switchfoot.
It's cold outside It's cold outside.
Ever have one of those days..... Ever have one of those days......
I'm back to sad and downtrodden... I'm back to sad and downtrodden....
OJar Video Tips OJar Video Tips.
Just got off the phone with the in-laws Just got off the phone with the in-laws.
Because of you Because of you.
North Carolina separation North Carolina separation.
It's been 6 weeks It's been 6 weeks.
losing too much weight? losing too much weight?.
For the guys..."Words Women Use" For the guys..."Words Women Use".
Stuck in limbo Stuck in limbo.
His girlfriend is going to babysit our kids... His girlfriend is going to babysit our kids....
Dating Issues.. Dating Issues...
Discovered news yesterday Discovered news yesterday.
Any hockey fans around here? Any hockey fans around here?.
Heartless SOB Heartless SOB.
Bored at work Bored at work.
OK I graduated to this board OK I graduated to this board.
Childcare issues ... yet again Childcare issues ... yet again.
In law question In law question.
Music lovers Music lovers.
Christmas Card Exchange Christmas Card Exchange.
I need a hug! I need a hug!.
Question for ojar Question for ojar.
My turn at venting My turn at venting.
Why do they continue to hurt you??? Why do they continue to hurt you???.
I hate him I hate him.
Niagara Pennisula Niagara Pennisula.
Finished 1st Paper Finished 1st Paper.
Today sucks Today sucks.
somewhat different somewhat different.
Gold Digger Gold Digger .
New sex position #77 New sex position #77.
My Friend's Husband Needs Space My Friend's Husband Needs Space .
Hurricane Wilma Hurricane Wilma.
Dating Again, But fear I am going to ruin a good thing Dating Again, But fear I am going to ruin a good thing.
Rated R: Sex tips to drive a man wild!! Rated R: Sex tips to drive a man wild!! .
Where Do You Meet People??? Where Do You Meet People???.
ISO's Online Baby Shower! ISO's Online Baby Shower! .
A baseball poem (not written by me) A baseball poem (not written by me).
Can I ask a question?? Can I ask a question??.
Even after all this...i still love her...why ??? Even after all this...i still love her...why ???.
Child Support Guidelines Child Support Guidelines.
ex-wife/liar and me ex-wife/liar and me.
Getting even...... Getting even.......
Am I being unreasonable?? Am I being unreasonable??.
Its Wednesday Its Wednesday.
Things that my mother taught me... Things that my mother taught me....
Missed Everyone!! Missed Everyone!!.
Why can't it be easy? Why can't it be easy?.
I need your strength guys, please I need your strength guys, please.
Confused about what to do or think Confused about what to do or think.
Here's my tale Here's my tale.
MD/DC Area MD/DC Area.
How important..... How important......
Turn off the auto censor feature video added. Turn off the auto censor feature video added..
3 cigs and one glass of wine left 3 cigs and one glass of wine left.
Ltr to h/that dumped me and his ex-wife who he left me for Ltr to h/that dumped me and his ex-wife who he left me for.
Frustrated Frustrated.
Lets classify this as a DISEASE!! Lets classify this as a DISEASE!!.
Here is one twisted thought. Here is one twisted thought..
How can you love someone soo much........ How can you love someone soo much.........
looking good.... looking good.....
online affair online affair.
I need a plan... I need a plan....
3 years - things that still make me sad 3 years - things that still make me sad.
Sometimes I just thank my lucky stars... Sometimes I just thank my lucky stars....
Bad times change people Bad times change people.
What to Do... What to Do....
How To Win Back Your STBX How To Win Back Your STBX.
What are these signs? What are these signs?.
Warning...... Warning.......
What's the deal with this?? What's the deal with this??.
3 Doors Down - Let Me Go 3 Doors Down - Let Me Go.
Any Advice? Any Advice?.
Royal Station 4/16 Royal Station 4/16.
He E-mailed Me He E-mailed Me.
HArdcore vent HArdcore vent.
Food for Thought... Food for Thought....
Returning Returning.
Psychic Powers Psychic Powers.
MY WIFE IS A BITCH! MY WIFE IS A BITCH!.
strange sexual behavior..... strange sexual behavior......
Anyone have Shared Parenting? Anyone have Shared Parenting?.
Question for Moms? Question for Moms?.
"she" just called me ... "she" just called me ....
how long how long.
Renewed interest Renewed interest.
Back in Minnesota Back in Minnesota.
Center of My Divorce Universe Center of My Divorce Universe.
Why is it that he is not happy unless he hurts me Why is it that he is not happy unless he hurts me.
I've been lurking... I've been lurking....
Can't handle it ... Can't handle it ... .
This is kind of gross so you may not want to read. This is kind of gross so you may not want to read..
Implementing "Exciting" new computer system at work... Implementing "Exciting" new computer system at work....
Anything goes, so here I go................. Anything goes, so here I go..................
Ok, guys...I need to know.... Ok, guys...I need to know.....
i just want to cry now i just want to cry now.
Fre? Fre?.
"At least you don't have kids" "At least you don't have kids".
Beverly Hills Beverly Hills .
Figured You Out !!!! Figured You Out !!!!.
Meet me in Memphis Meet me in Memphis.
Bring Back the Magic Bring Back the Magic.
WTF WTF.
ex's truck is parked across the street ex's truck is parked across the street.
Involuntary muscular contractions Involuntary muscular contractions.
My Ex's mom My Ex's mom.
Just got home from going out. What the hell am I doing!!!!!!! Just got home from going out. What the hell am I doing!!!!!!!.
Has anyone ever had root canal? Has anyone ever had root canal?.
Introvert Advantage Introvert Advantage.
She keeps calling She keeps calling.
New to the board. I'll keep it brief. New to the board. I'll keep it brief..
giving this vent thing a try... giving this vent thing a try....
Sponsored a dog Sponsored a dog.
Can't stand myself (long) Can't stand myself (long).
Can you get someone for "abandonment" Can you get someone for "abandonment".
I want to take action I want to take action.
On my way to a funeral.....so I must miss court. On my way to a funeral.....so I must miss court..
zoo zoo.
Is it wrong to date already? Is it wrong to date already?.
On This Perfect Morning... On This Perfect Morning....
He's doing just fine He's doing just fine.
Potty Training Twins - 26 hours and counting! Potty Training Twins - 26 hours and counting!.
please someone tell me what the heck he is thinking? please someone tell me what the heck he is thinking?.
How come?????? How come??????.
I need some good advice I need some good advice .
Finally got to see the OM Finally got to see the OM.
Divorce is final Divorce is final.
Guess Who's Back Guess Who's Back.
Do business assets count as marital property? Do business assets count as marital property?.
Time W/ Joeler !!! Time W/ Joeler !!!.
..........The memories ..........The memories.
Doin Me Stuff Doin Me Stuff.
This is what you did to me This is what you did to me.
Addicted --Reminds me of my NC ... Addicted --Reminds me of my NC ... .
bleed bleed.
gun gun.
Who cares Who cares.
Random Thoughts Random Thoughts.
Especially for ISO...Tomkat update! Especially for ISO...Tomkat update!.
I got my LSAT score today. I got my LSAT score today..
finally my story finally my story.
Things a single woman can do.... Things a single woman can do.....
Any one here from Australia? Any one here from Australia?.
How long have you been heartbroken?? How long have you been heartbroken??.
How do you know if some one or a girl is interest in you? How do you know if some one or a girl is interest in you?.
Anybody in MN Anybody in MN.
I feel like... I feel like....
Confirmed my wife is a slut Confirmed my wife is a slut.
What do you guys think? What do you guys think?.
What the F*** was I expecting??? What the F*** was I expecting???.
Without you... Without you....
Why I love you. Why I love you..
Depression giving way to anger Depression giving way to anger.
Cool - Gwen Stefani Cool - Gwen Stefani.
Promises, promises Promises, promises.
florida florida.
GRRR HEAT GRRR HEAT.
Quick Advice... Quick Advice....
my friend my friend.
cheese sandwhich cheese sandwhich.
Mingling with his family?! Can I do it?! Mingling with his family?! Can I do it?!.
New Screen name New Screen name.
Anyone know anything ... Anyone know anything ....
CHEATING SEX LOVE MEN and WOMEN CHEATING SEX LOVE MEN and WOMEN.
F'ing He!! F'ing He!!.
OK. I lied. Still depressed. OK. I lied. Still depressed..
Totally inappropriate for these boards, but I had to laugh Totally inappropriate for these boards, but I had to laugh.
Pain Pain.
think your lost? read me...... think your lost? read me.......
BREAK THE WALL - OMG! BREAK THE WALL - OMG!.
I hate being SINGLE or I hate SATURDAYS I hate being SINGLE or I hate SATURDAYS.
Endless Summer Nights Endless Summer Nights.
Looking for some light Looking for some light.
I'm so confused I'm so confused.
Living with an alcoholic... Living with an alcoholic....
Dear J Dear J.
My story and life My story and life.
Happy Birthday To Me Happy Birthday To Me.
Looking for support and answers Looking for support and answers.
Moving day... Moving day....
Time passes but what about the dancing Time passes but what about the dancing.
How Are You? How Are You?.
Latest traffic figures for 23 Sept. - 23 Oct. 2005 Latest traffic figures for 23 Sept. - 23 Oct. 2005.
St. Louis St. Louis.
I almost lost my job last month I almost lost my job last month.
A soft place to fall A soft place to fall.
what to do now? what to do now?.
The Whole No Contact thing you all talk about... The Whole No Contact thing you all talk about....
MEETING PEOPLE ON-LINE SUCKS! MEETING PEOPLE ON-LINE SUCKS!.
The "Before" letter The "Before" letter.
Cocktail Party~! Cocktail Party~!.
How to keep motivation when trying to "focus on yourself" How to keep motivation when trying to "focus on yourself".
New one for me!! New one for me!!.
He's coming home He's coming home.
Love To Be Loved Love To Be Loved.
Question for the guys Question for the guys.
Got asked out...bringing up questions... Got asked out...bringing up questions....
Grateful for my in laws Grateful for my in laws.
contact to the other man contact to the other man.
Wife wants time Wife wants time.
better than a cheese sandwich better than a cheese sandwich.
How the hell do you let go of the anger? How the hell do you let go of the anger?.
The One The One.
What is the crappiest thing your ex did to you? What is the crappiest thing your ex did to you?.
Sleep over question Sleep over question.
erasing posts? erasing posts?.
wayward and down wayward and down.
My marriage is ending My marriage is ending.
Is my wife crazy? Is my wife crazy?.
Mentally unfit Mentally unfit.
Update on my group project for school - he died. Update on my group project for school - he died..
Wife's fantasy land My misery Wife's fantasy land My misery.
She is sorry AGAIN.. She is sorry AGAIN...
Photos of Football and Blimps... Photos of Football and Blimps....
Did I let down my wife? Did I let down my wife?.
Anyone out there? Anyone out there?.
Question Please Give Me your Advice Question Please Give Me your Advice.
Xanax ... Xanax ....
Trying hard not to contact! Trying hard not to contact!.
The dreaded call The dreaded call.
Advice for family (sister in law moved in) Advice for family (sister in law moved in).
Seether - "Plastic Man" Seether - "Plastic Man".
Man, it was weird Man, it was weird.
how long its been how long its been .
Best of you Best of you.
Dating Burn Out, I've got it bad..... Dating Burn Out, I've got it bad......
Phone number for OJar. Phone number for OJar..
Birthday gift for new BF? Birthday gift for new BF?.
Divorce from Hell! Divorce from Hell!.
New board.... New board.....
Premium Anything Goes Here. Premium Anything Goes Here..
X rated pics!! X rated pics!!.
Random Thoughts Premium Edition Random Thoughts Premium Edition.
Combine your past boyfriends Combine your past boyfriends.
My daughters are going to Nationals!!! My daughters are going to Nationals!!!.
Repost: advice for family (sister in law moved in) Repost: advice for family (sister in law moved in).
Memo from God Memo from God.
The ultimate hijacked thread. The ultimate hijacked thread..
Not sure what to do Not sure what to do.
Black and blue Black and blue.
still living together still living together.
how do I act at joint counseling session? how do I act at joint counseling session?.
Help me please Help me please.
Is it just me?! Is it just me?! .
Where do babies come from in Germany... Where do babies come from in Germany....
me too, she left me too, she left.
who put the pudding in my thermos who put the pudding in my thermos.
Pet Peeves Pet Peeves.
Cultural Exploration Cultural Exploration.
one step forward, 4 steps back one step forward, 4 steps back.
lonelywithouthim has had better days lonelywithouthim has had better days.
Another picture thread Another picture thread.
My Story: Why does he keep coming back? My Story: Why does he keep coming back?.
my sons sad my sons sad.
the power is changing the power is changing.
Dating During Separation Dating During Separation.
son talking about the "other man" son talking about the "other man".
Hello? Hello?.
THe BEST thing(s) about OJAR THe BEST thing(s) about OJAR.
Then to now. Then to now..
I crumbled last nite... I crumbled last nite....
Initiation.. Initiation...
DOES RELION HELP? DOES RELION HELP?.
Tired Tired Tired... Tired Tired Tired....
mine and mine story mine and mine story.
Life could always be worse! Life could always be worse! .
Help Looking for Pebblez Flinstone Pic Help Looking for Pebblez Flinstone Pic.
Nothing to live for? Nothing to live for? .
Finally found out the truth about my wife Finally found out the truth about my wife.
Look what you did... Look what you did....
FCUK!!! I AM SO DISGUSTED!!! FCUK!!! I AM SO DISGUSTED!!!.
Older men, younger women Older men, younger women.
Looking For Support Looking For Support.
Why can't I let go!!!!!! Why can't I let go!!!!!!.
And again... And again....
Aaargh. Frustrating exchange with a friend: Aaargh. Frustrating exchange with a friend:.
dang folks dang folks.
People suck People suck.
Limbo/Busting the Rut Limbo/Busting the Rut.
Dear dirty hookers Dear dirty hookers.
okay guys, you can say "told you so" okay guys, you can say "told you so".
Smiley's Car Accident Smiley's Car Accident.
Coming back? Coming back?.
Would you Date a Guy w/ 4 Kids? Would you Date a Guy w/ 4 Kids?.
Praying For Karma Praying For Karma.
Staind - "It's Been A While" Staind - "It's Been A While".
Saying Goodbye To A Drama King (Dalma Heyn) Saying Goodbye To A Drama King (Dalma Heyn).
Children and dating Children and dating.
Would you Date me? Would you Date me?.
This just put it in perspective for me This just put it in perspective for me.
What Happens... What Happens....
Dealing with new information. Dealing with new information..
The final step of my new beginning! :) The final step of my new beginning! :).
I think I have a fever I think I have a fever.
It's Official It's Official.
ojar soap opera? ojar soap opera?.
Oh. Joy. It's STD test time! Oh. Joy. It's STD test time!.
everyone must read everyone must read.
Young Guy with Two Kids Young Guy with Two Kids.
If you needed space in your relationship... If you needed space in your relationship....
He called! What's he thinking? He called! What's he thinking?.
warp machine warp machine.
Chocolate. Chocolate..
Happy Birthday lilly10!!!!! Happy Birthday lilly10!!!!!.
The lake The lake.
What the F#$*K What the F#$*K.
i want my F*%*ING name back i want my F*%*ING name back.
just realized...he didn't take much. just realized...he didn't take much..
Wife is insane Wife is insane.
Did your ex...... Did your ex.......
Chinese Zodiac Chinese Zodiac.
He came over yesterday He came over yesterday.
My End My End.
After you After you.
Pick a day any day....and a gender Pick a day any day....and a gender.
Don't tell the kids, Elmo has left the building...or at least got arrested Don't tell the kids, Elmo has left the building...or at least got arrested.
Must be a bad dream... Must be a bad dream....
Wow, this is fun! Wow, this is fun!.
Got off work early Got off work early.
Online Dating Online Dating.
It Could Have been You... It Could Have been You....
Divorce Party Divorce Party.
Men are so complicated... Men are so complicated....
She came back She came back.
Serious post: Date Rape Drug Serious post: Date Rape Drug.
Party and Divorce ... does this fit together? Party and Divorce ... does this fit together?.
Lack of closure on cheating spouse? Lack of closure on cheating spouse?.
Date Rape Date Rape.
new place new place.
He called again today! He called again today!.
........... ............
How did you survive? How did you survive?.
when when.
Electric company Electric company.
Do you talk about DIVORCE?? Do you talk about DIVORCE??.
anyone from Louisiana? anyone from Louisiana?.
She didn't have time She didn't have time.
Lawyers won't touch me - need advice! Lawyers won't touch me - need advice!.
FUNNY SHI..... FUNNY SHI......
who am i? who am i?.
Do guys sometimes like a female to just be blunt? Do guys sometimes like a female to just be blunt?.
So What Now So What Now.
Loving again Loving again.
Where is my strength? Where is my strength?.
World Series!!!! World Series!!!!.
the stranger the stranger.
My story ~ So far.... My story ~ So far.....
Just not getting over him Just not getting over him.
Back at the bottom of the dark hole again. Back at the bottom of the dark hole again..
Rated R: Sex tips that drive women wild (Part II) Rated R: Sex tips that drive women wild (Part II).
If you've been cheated on.... If you've been cheated on.....
Suicide. Why he didn't show up for class. Suicide. Why he didn't show up for class..
(in)Sanity? (in)Sanity?.
If you know that leaving is best why is it so hard? If you know that leaving is best why is it so hard?.
Hurting Again Hurting Again.
Today....... Today........
Anniversary Anniversary.
A Smart Blonde? A Smart Blonde?.
Breakaway Breakaway.
For PG and for WG's friend with the plasti-boobs For PG and for WG's friend with the plasti-boobs.
letter to stbx letter to stbx.
Wife left on Monday Wife left on Monday.
Has anyone seen?! Has anyone seen?! .
A Word for the Hour (Civil War Poem) A Word for the Hour (Civil War Poem).
OK....when did this get here?!? OK....when did this get here?!?.
It's all going to be alright! It's all going to be alright!.
Picking on ISO Picking on ISO.
Theories...... Theories.......
Well, MAYBE......... Well, MAYBE..........
Question... Question....
I NEED ALL MY OJARIANS.... I NEED ALL MY OJARIANS.....
Ever want to eat something from the oven? Ever want to eat something from the oven?.
Is starting a new relationship a good idea? Is starting a new relationship a good idea?.
Pork Chops with Banana Peppers Pork Chops with Banana Peppers.
Cookie Recipe Swap Cookie Recipe Swap.
Looking through the microscope Looking through the microscope.
It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken.
Believing in ourselves... Believing in ourselves....
Marriage and ADD Marriage and ADD.
Visitation... Visitation....
BLEE!!!!!!! BLEE!!!!!!!.
I figured it out I figured it out.
Without you Without you.
Did I mess up? Did I mess up?.
Wish it had been over sooner Wish it had been over sooner.
How was I to know How was I to know.
Drinking Driving CounterAttack Ads Drinking Driving CounterAttack Ads.
Dark circles under eyes Dark circles under eyes.
Feeling stuck...any suggestions? Feeling stuck...any suggestions?.
CANADA CANADA.
Life really does go on Life really does go on.
Advice for my Nephew ~ Please Help Me! Advice for my Nephew ~ Please Help Me!.
Invited to a poker night. I have Q's Invited to a poker night. I have Q's.
the M word, shall we??? the M word, shall we???.
He really doesn't care! He really doesn't care!.
question for when I have my daughter... question for when I have my daughter....
The letter I will never send The letter I will never send.
my daughter is locked up for the 1st time my daughter is locked up for the 1st time.
Return of "EX"-mas carols Return of "EX"-mas carols.
Ask my first woman out and got a maybe :( Ask my first woman out and got a maybe :(.
My Final Goodbye My Final Goodbye.
She gets the papers today She gets the papers today.
Why we do what we do? Why we do what we do?.
How did you get your divorce papers? How did you get your divorce papers?.
Im Scared! Im Scared! .
Where are you / this could be the best day Where are you / this could be the best day.
$619 to pay $921 worth of bills with $619 to pay $921 worth of bills with.
Friday fun... Family Guy style Friday fun... Family Guy style.
Separated but still friends???? Separated but still friends????.
Hubby's done a 180 Hubby's done a 180.
No Winning No Winning.
How Far How Far.
New rules for this year. New rules for this year..
Just have to share Just have to share.
Your Worst Temptation! Your Worst Temptation!.
Porn preferences? Porn preferences?.
Hmmmmm, this looks like as good a place as any! Hmmmmm, this looks like as good a place as any! .
Question for those who left Question for those who left.
I hate you more than I have ever hated anything before I hate you more than I have ever hated anything before.
Wall Street Journal seeks your opinion again. Wall Street Journal seeks your opinion again..
Who ARE you people??? Who ARE you people???.
Found out he was cheating last night Found out he was cheating last night.
How to meet men when you're shy How to meet men when you're shy.
Why are people so heartless? Why are people so heartless?.
Is it bad??? Is it bad???.
HELP:Gnats in the house!! HELP:Gnats in the house!!.

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