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Are you their second choice if they come back? Are you their second choice if they come back?.
celebrity for the week celebrity for the week.
Prayers for a friend Prayers for a friend.
All the baldness and facial hair talk got me thinking... All the baldness and facial hair talk got me thinking....
I found a penny I found a penny.
Send The Pain Below [Chevelle] Send The Pain Below [Chevelle].
Making him pay Making him pay.
Let me ask ya'll this... Let me ask ya'll this....
sex in the dark sex in the dark.
eh... eh....
My Friday date was cancelled, I'm crushed... My Friday date was cancelled, I'm crushed....
N N.
I need a gift idea .. I need a gift idea ...
New around here...had to get some things out... New around here...had to get some things out....
Memphis, TN...biggest small town in America... Memphis, TN...biggest small town in America....
Broken Hearted...and still healing Broken Hearted...and still healing.
What's Forever For? What's Forever For?.
Update...haven't been here for awhile Update...haven't been here for awhile.
Karma is a real b...... Karma is a real b.......
I'm vertical... I'm vertical....
How to acknowledge without justifying How to acknowledge without justifying.
When should I tell my STBX? When should I tell my STBX?.
Message Board Tips Message Board Tips.
bloody adjustment bloody adjustment.
Job Offer! Job Offer!.
The Scholarship Fairy has been very, very nice to me. The Scholarship Fairy has been very, very nice to me..
Why Won't She Divorce Me Why Won't She Divorce Me.
still wondering.. still wondering...
When do you know? When do you know?.
Helping with guilt Helping with guilt.
Self-preservation - HELP!!! Self-preservation - HELP!!!.
Damn '06 is off to a rough start. Damn '06 is off to a rough start..
found her personal ad on a dating service... found her personal ad on a dating service....
Great Read Great Read.
it just keeps getting better it just keeps getting better.
Mr. Dylan Mr. Dylan.
JC's/universities and transferring between???? Does any system not suck? JC's/universities and transferring between???? Does any system not suck?.
For those who wished it would happen this way . . . For those who wished it would happen this way . . . .
Date tonight! Date tonight!.
Prayer that helps Prayer that helps.
Ugh - I just destroyed this relationship Ugh - I just destroyed this relationship.
Thank You for RUINING My Day! Thank You for RUINING My Day!.
Where do I stand? Where do I stand?.
judgemental, or good judgement? judgemental, or good judgement?.
No flying fing way did you just do that!!! No flying fing way did you just do that!!!.
Wasnt sure where to put this.............Great story, made me cry. Wasnt sure where to put this.............Great story, made me cry..
CELEBRITY CRUSHES? CELEBRITY CRUSHES?.
(Closure = Answers) True or False? (Closure = Answers) True or False?.
Last Beautiful Girl (Matchbox Twenty) Last Beautiful Girl (Matchbox Twenty).
WTF!!! I DEAL WITH THIS HOW???? WTF!!! I DEAL WITH THIS HOW???? .
Night Life (Willie Nelson) Night Life (Willie Nelson).
You Won't Be Mine (Matchbox Twenty) You Won't Be Mine (Matchbox Twenty).
Heard from Smiley and PQ!! Heard from Smiley and PQ!!.
Sooner or Later - Breaking Benjamin Sooner or Later - Breaking Benjamin.
Man on the Corner - Genesis Man on the Corner - Genesis.
She Will Be Loved - Maroon 5 She Will Be Loved - Maroon 5.
Thought I was doing okay. Thought I was doing okay..
A Face in the Crowd - Tom Petty A Face in the Crowd - Tom Petty.
A Thousand Miles - Vanessa Carlton A Thousand Miles - Vanessa Carlton.
Up on the roof Up on the roof.
does it make him feel like more of a man? does it make him feel like more of a man?.
this is me, gg, needing a little help from you all... this is me, gg, needing a little help from you all....
Take Two Take Two.
AWAY AWAY.
Dreams Dreams.
Any kind of advice PLEASE Any kind of advice PLEASE.
This is my story..........take care with it. This is my story..........take care with it..
"24" "24".
seeing/hearing about the ex through mutual friends seeing/hearing about the ex through mutual friends.
Sadly I have learned Sadly I have learned.
Victim of the Game Victim of the Game.
You Are So Beautiful - Joe Cocker You Are So Beautiful - Joe Cocker.
Dreamgirl - Dave Matthews Band Dreamgirl - Dave Matthews Band.
How did we get here? How did we get here?.
I just wish I was dead I just wish I was dead.
Choices Choices.
Life Changes in a matter of minutes Life Changes in a matter of minutes.
How could he? How could he?.
waterfall waterfall.
Sadness Sadness.
Positive story for those in hopes of reconciling Positive story for those in hopes of reconciling.
VEGAS BABY!!!! VEGAS BABY!!!!.
Karma will get you Karma will get you.
So frustrated! So frustrated!.
NEED ADVISE NOW!!!! NEED ADVISE NOW!!!!.
Why are you doing this?! Why are you doing this?!.
To Wish Impossible Things To Wish Impossible Things.
I really screwed up I really screwed up.
Sociopath or just crazy? Sociopath or just crazy?.
Forward or Backward Forward or Backward.
Sick Cycle Carousel Sick Cycle Carousel.
"Dating Yourself" "Dating Yourself".
To my in-laws To my in-laws.
Change your mind Change your mind.
Weathered Weathered.
Wash away those years Wash away those years.
Original of the Species Original of the Species.
letting the telephone ring letting the telephone ring.
Whatever Whatever.
have you ever gone to a bar alone? have you ever gone to a bar alone?.
Tiny Dancer Tiny Dancer.
Then I did Then I did.
The edge of the water The edge of the water.
a packet of letters i'd like to send a packet of letters i'd like to send.
Tonight I need support so I went to post and... Tonight I need support so I went to post and....
i know i'll be better off, but... i know i'll be better off, but....
OJAR patterns OJAR patterns.
He moves out today...... He moves out today.......
Hurry Home Hurry Home.
Your Gentle Rain Your Gentle Rain.
The things i miss about you The things i miss about you.
The River The River.
Sunset Sunset.
When Stars Are Born When Stars Are Born.
I need help I need help.
This morning... This morning....
My wife is on her way over to my house right now!!! My wife is on her way over to my house right now!!!.
I HAVE LOST IT I HAVE LOST IT.
My Story... My Story....
cue the music.... cue the music.....
Top Ten Reasons Why Men Prefer Guns Over Women Top Ten Reasons Why Men Prefer Guns Over Women.
CCR CCR.
Lessons learned raising boys Lessons learned raising boys.
How to educate yourself for a divorce-Some tips How to educate yourself for a divorce-Some tips.
My Husband and I are Seperated My Husband and I are Seperated.
PQ and Smiley's Meeting... PQ and Smiley's Meeting....
Ya know ... Ya know ....
Here's a thought ... Here's a thought ... .
My favorite thing to do ... My favorite thing to do ....
Why the hell is he upset with me?! Why the hell is he upset with me?!.
"We Shall Dance Once More" "We Shall Dance Once More".
I realized something very important ... I realized something very important ....
Has anyone taken them back after.....? Has anyone taken them back after.....?.
Attended a DivorceCare session today Attended a DivorceCare session today.
Hangover cures??? Hangover cures???.
Getting Old Getting Old .
Woman/Man Jokes Woman/Man Jokes .
Had a wonderful birthday party Had a wonderful birthday party.
Poppy! Poppy!.
Sexual Dreams I asked him! Sexual Dreams I asked him!.
Relieved it's over Relieved it's over .
Driveway U-Turns! Driveway U-Turns!.
NFL Playoffs: Who ya got? NFL Playoffs: Who ya got?.
A stupid question, but with purpose LOL A stupid question, but with purpose LOL.
My story - advice anyone? My story - advice anyone?.
How did ya know? How did ya know?.
How did you know directions ... How did you know directions ... .
update - one year later update - one year later.
I am going crazy I am going crazy.
Blue October............."Chameleon Boy" Blue October............."Chameleon Boy".
This sickening feeling in my stomach This sickening feeling in my stomach.
Today I am drunk! Feeling all kinds of crappy things.... Today I am drunk! Feeling all kinds of crappy things.....
o steve.... o steve.....
He's Coming Home!!!! He's Coming Home!!!!.
I think it's over I think it's over.
Marketing for the masses Marketing for the masses.
happy birthday 2bk happy birthday 2bk.
Photo volunteer sought... Photo volunteer sought....
Armed, and not so ready anymore and scared sh!tless Armed, and not so ready anymore and scared sh!tless.
OJar.com gets quoted in the Sydney Morning Herald. OJar.com gets quoted in the Sydney Morning Herald..
HOW LONG IT TAKES? HOW LONG IT TAKES?.
Right Person, wrong time Right Person, wrong time.
The Thrill of Victory & the Agony of Defeat The Thrill of Victory & the Agony of Defeat.
Please say some prayers...... Please say some prayers.......
Dating Friends Dating Friends.
Red Flags Everywhere!!!! Red Flags Everywhere!!!!.
From a first-timer From a first-timer.
Truth Truth.
Recreational reading Recreational reading.
OMG ... OMG ....
Maiden name: Switch back or not? Maiden name: Switch back or not?.
I can't remember anything bad about him! I can't remember anything bad about him!.
Ugh... Ugh....
...I knew this was gonna happen ...I knew this was gonna happen.
SEEING RED SEEING RED.
You know your living in 2006 if ... You know your living in 2006 if ....
A quiz to see whether you are qualified to be a professional. A quiz to see whether you are qualified to be a professional..
Woah, I dont want to do this Woah, I dont want to do this.
an actual sent letter.. endings.. an actual sent letter.. endings...
Counseling in College Counseling in College.
my poor broken heart my poor broken heart.
Oh? Or Oooo? Oh? Or Oooo? .
Friday the 13th LUCKY for me :] Friday the 13th LUCKY for me :].
either / or either / or.
I sanded cars! I sanded cars!.
11 Years 11 Years.
At the risk of being a needy newbie HELP ME At the risk of being a needy newbie HELP ME.
Well ... Well ... .
Calling Dr. PG...and anyone else Calling Dr. PG...and anyone else.
Hello everyone. Hello everyone..
WTF?? WTF??.
The dating scene feeling "empty" The dating scene feeling "empty".
No Communication No Communication.
Tonight I'm giving up. Tonight I'm giving up..
Munich Munich.
Where did you go on your Honeymoon? Where did you REALLY want to go? Where did you go on your Honeymoon? Where did you REALLY want to go?.
My wife left me My wife left me.
Life Will Go On Life Will Go On.
"Try again" or "Done is Done"? "Try again" or "Done is Done"?.
My Ex-Wife is CLUELESS! My Ex-Wife is CLUELESS!.
To you To you.
Random Thoughts... Random Thoughts....
So Far Away - a song for when you accept it's over.... So Far Away - a song for when you accept it's over.....
Stay of Execution Stay of Execution.
So, I ended it for good So, I ended it for good.
What is your experience? What is your experience?.
MOVED: i am sorry ojar MOVED: i am sorry ojar.
i will trash your ex for ya i will trash your ex for ya.
wtf!!! part 2 wtf!!! part 2.
Crazy California Roadtrip (RD) Crazy California Roadtrip (RD).
Crazy Time by Abigail Trafford Crazy Time by Abigail Trafford.
10 year anniversary 10 year anniversary.
Need opinions on 2nd wedding please. Need opinions on 2nd wedding please..
Guilt, guilt, and more guilt Guilt, guilt, and more guilt.
The Ex and her lovers.... The Ex and her lovers.....
Where to go, what to do..... Where to go, what to do......
this is me, gg, just here to say... this is me, gg, just here to say....
Sound in the bedroom Sound in the bedroom.
Lies, lies and more lies.... Lies, lies and more lies.....
Hearing Update... Hearing Update....
Broken Up ~ Inside & Outside Broken Up ~ Inside & Outside.
George Carlin's new rules for 2006 George Carlin's new rules for 2006.
Draft of Divorce Agreement Received! Draft of Divorce Agreement Received!.
Low Tech Members Gallery III Low Tech Members Gallery III.
Ain't That Lonely Yet Ain't That Lonely Yet .
500.00 500.00 .
planning a spring break vac. planning a spring break vac..
final email to the ex final email to the ex.
doctors, ugh! doctors, ugh!.
Loneliness is the absence of self. Solitude is fullness of self. --May Sarton Loneliness is the absence of self. Solitude is fullness of self. --May Sarton.
What does this mean? What does this mean?.
ARGH!!! GOTTA VENT ARGH!!! GOTTA VENT.
ok.....quick question..... ok.....quick question......
How to deal with "inadvertant" insults How to deal with "inadvertant" insults.
As if I could ever forget, now I really know why I divorced his a-- As if I could ever forget, now I really know why I divorced his a--.
For those of you who have recovered For those of you who have recovered.
The answer The answer.
wife wants back after 7 mths apart wife wants back after 7 mths apart.
and this is only the beginning... and this is only the beginning....
I'm calling this WG's attempt at a photo page courtsey of gg I'm calling this WG's attempt at a photo page courtsey of gg .
My husband left me on my birthday My husband left me on my birthday.
I hate being lied to!!! I hate being lied to!!!.
The benefits of journaling.. The benefits of journaling...
How often do you think about sex How often do you think about sex.
Just thought some of you might like to know...... Just thought some of you might like to know.......
Today's the day Today's the day.
Feeling sorry for my ex??? Feeling sorry for my ex???.
Muther fockers!!!!! Muther fockers!!!!!.
Amola is going to have her baby today! Amola is going to have her baby today!.
The final emails in my relationship (I play the part of Damn) The final emails in my relationship (I play the part of Damn).
How can he be so stupid!!! How can he be so stupid!!!.
Damn told me .... Damn told me .... .
addictions and marriage addictions and marriage.
Call from a convict?? Call from a convict??.
Will my divorced ex-boyfriend come back to me? Will my divorced ex-boyfriend come back to me?.
Awww... No more chat! Awww... No more chat!.
Love Note Love Note.
IT"S ABOUT FREAKIN TIME!!!!! IT"S ABOUT FREAKIN TIME!!!!!.
BOO! BOO!.
On Hate On Hate.
unsuccessful attempt at new relationship unsuccessful attempt at new relationship.
Off to the see the ... Off to the see the ... .
The cure all The cure all.
Anyone from Chicago? Anyone from Chicago?.
Getting ready for SECOND surgery because of "spider" bite Getting ready for SECOND surgery because of "spider" bite.
getting over an emotional affair getting over an emotional affair.
Antidepressants Antidepressants.
affects of meeting ex.... affects of meeting ex.....
She Didn't Have Time She Didn't Have Time.
Let it go for 2006 (by T.D. Jakes) Let it go for 2006 (by T.D. Jakes).
Why was I so... Why was I so....
Being more exciting Being more exciting.
Risk of becoming the OM please talk to me down of this ledge. Risk of becoming the OM please talk to me down of this ledge..
Match.com meeting/date tonight!!!! Match.com meeting/date tonight!!!!.
What does Dear Abby know anyway? What does Dear Abby know anyway?.
Moved out and resolved Moved out and resolved.
Yes! Finally DSL in my apartment Yes! Finally DSL in my apartment.
New Job! New Job!.
Who would you ban? Who would you ban?.
Where's Waldo? Where's Waldo?.
Hungry Monkey Hungry Monkey.
The Constant Gardener The Constant Gardener.
Wool Wool.
ON A ROLL! ON A ROLL!.
Mississippi Mississippi.
lowlife scum lowlife scum.
nothing!! nothing!!.
DISNEY! DISNEY!.
Medical Quickies Medical Quickies.
Redneck Medical Terms Redneck Medical Terms .
Anal Anal .
OJAR Personal AD. OJAR Personal AD..
children children.
Re: Hello .. My name is JA and I have had a breakup ... Re: Hello .. My name is JA and I have had a breakup ... .
Dear Ex.... Dear Ex.....
Brain dead hotmail.com Brain dead hotmail.com.
Just found out Nephew is dropping out of HS and moving to Cali Tomorrow! Just found out Nephew is dropping out of HS and moving to Cali Tomorrow!.
Going to move Going to move .
Words and their Meanings Words and their Meanings.
Sara Pipalini Sara Pipalini.
To all the women of Ojar! To all the women of Ojar!.
Female comebacks to men's pickup lines! Female comebacks to men's pickup lines!.
wife of 34 years wife of 34 years.
Drunker than Me Drunker than Me.
Drinkin in my Sunday Dress Drinkin in my Sunday Dress.
i tell you what i see i tell you what i see.
NYC (NY area) meeting? NYC (NY area) meeting?.
"leave me alone" email to the ex "leave me alone" email to the ex.
Really bad day yesterday Really bad day yesterday.
Blaming myself! Blaming myself!.
Okay Guys you told me to.. Okay Guys you told me to...
Talk to Yourself Zone Talk to Yourself Zone.
New Rules for 2006 New Rules for 2006.
You know you're addicted to Ojar when... You know you're addicted to Ojar when....
No more talk of getting back together No more talk of getting back together.
Telecommuting? Telecommuting?.
You Made Your Move You Made Your Move.
stbx put his foot in his mouth stbx put his foot in his mouth.
Moving Moving.
WARNING Ojar Ladies- Perv on the loose. WARNING Ojar Ladies- Perv on the loose..
stabbed in the back stabbed in the back.
"How to Legally Save Thousands on your Divorce" "How to Legally Save Thousands on your Divorce".
Update after weekend drama Update after weekend drama.
Stressed? Feeling unsure? - E-Mail an Old Girlfriend... Stressed? Feeling unsure? - E-Mail an Old Girlfriend....
New job here too! New job here too!.
Nervous Nervous.
Loneliness Loneliness.
I just went to go to sleep and started crying. I just went to go to sleep and started crying..
Life is moving on......... Life is moving on..........
Question for OJAR parents: I am the "other woman" in a child's life Question for OJAR parents: I am the "other woman" in a child's life.
Still looking for the salt shaker.... Still looking for the salt shaker.....
I did something for me......... I did something for me..........
bitterness......something to think about bitterness......something to think about.
Bash my X part #1 Bash my X part #1.
Will the sun ever shine again...? Will the sun ever shine again...?.
Different Tears today... Different Tears today....
Angry not quite the word....... Angry not quite the word........
another child support question another child support question.
Marriage Counseling - Is it too late? Marriage Counseling - Is it too late?.
Am I hopeless? Am I hopeless?.
Ad in Craigslist Ad in Craigslist.
Finish that Song Finish that Song.
My how times have changed... My how times have changed....
New, and hurting.. New, and hurting...
Peanut butter/marshmallow thing a ma jiggys Peanut butter/marshmallow thing a ma jiggys.
Constant underlying Anger Constant underlying Anger.
I climbed out !!!!!!!!! I climbed out !!!!!!!!!.
how did you get started with the healing? how did you get started with the healing?.
Silent Hill trailer Silent Hill trailer.
Ways to make oatmeal taste better? Ways to make oatmeal taste better?.
have to go to a wedding today have to go to a wedding today.
I realized today.... I realized today.....
Is what I'm doing wrong(morally&legally) Is what I'm doing wrong(morally&legally).
Alabama - Observation Alabama - Observation.
sex sex.
Substitutes Substitutes.
Fill in the Blank... Fill in the Blank....
get over it get over it.
guano guano.
The dash of life The dash of life.
Mexico!! Mexico!!.
holy crap holy crap holy crap holy crap holy crap holy crap.
"Please forgive me... I never went down on him" "Please forgive me... I never went down on him".
Went on another date last night Went on another date last night.
Think I got myself into a sticky situation! Help! Think I got myself into a sticky situation! Help!.
FlashBacks and Triggers FlashBacks and Triggers.
Rumor has it Rumor has it.
wife of 34 years wife of 34 years.
What do you guys think? What do you guys think?.
I just cannot deal anymore!!!!! I just cannot deal anymore!!!!!.
musing and making strides musing and making strides.
Because of You Because of You.
Why do I cry? Why do I cry?.
My son asked if dad is coming back My son asked if dad is coming back.
Why Why.
ARggh... ARggh... .
Insensitive (by Jann Arden) Insensitive (by Jann Arden).
Sears SUCKS Sears SUCKS.
Suicide.... Suicide.....
Open your eyes Open your eyes.
Hoodwinked Hoodwinked.
OMG OMG.
Lost Lost.
I Could I Could.
Update ... and a few questions Update ... and a few questions.
Flaws Flaws.
I thought I was doing pretty good but now not so much... I thought I was doing pretty good but now not so much... .
Have a nice day Have a nice day.
Butting my head against the wall Butting my head against the wall.
advice from single moms advice from single moms.
advice from single moms advice from single moms.
I just re-read that email/post/ad whatever I just re-read that email/post/ad whatever.
Happy B-day Steve! Happy B-day Steve!.
Divorce, mental illness and child custody Divorce, mental illness and child custody.
I just feel sick to my stomach . . . I just feel sick to my stomach . . ..
STBXH works for my Dad...what now!! STBXH works for my Dad...what now!!.
Just when I thought....KIND WORDS needed... Just when I thought....KIND WORDS needed....
Colorado people are the coolest Colorado people are the coolest.
Happy Birthday Irony!!! Happy Birthday Irony!!!.
Silence is the loudest parting word you never say... Silence is the loudest parting word you never say....
(Sigh) (Sigh).
My insanity My insanity.
Everybody's Fool Everybody's Fool.
Haunted Haunted.
Seriously?!! Seriously?!!.
Tourniquet Tourniquet.
Thoughtless Thoughtless.
Why does it still make me cry?! Why does it still make me cry?!.
Reasons Reasons.
Update: Moving Out Day Update: Moving Out Day.
Too Good to be True? Hot Girls Emailing Asking to Meet for Sex. Too Good to be True? Hot Girls Emailing Asking to Meet for Sex..
a public apology a public apology.
WTF??? I just don't get it..... WTF??? I just don't get it......
I let myself down! I let myself down!.
abandoned abandoned.
I am sorry for all the hurt I am sorry for all the hurt.
ugly ugly.
Just lost Just lost.
Alaska Sucks Alaska Sucks.
Sick of this damned coming and going Sick of this damned coming and going.
The Squid and the Whale The Squid and the Whale.
Poll: Divorced (or separated) Parents Poll: Divorced (or separated) Parents.
SCARS SCARS.
hot chicks on the internet looking for sex and wearing monkey suits hot chicks on the internet looking for sex and wearing monkey suits.
Tattoos? Tattoos?.
How do I make myself care again? How do I make myself care again?.
My one shot at a date...amazing I think My one shot at a date...amazing I think.
terrified of lexapro terrified of lexapro.
changing the whole house changing the whole house.
A Cheater A Cheater.
Patronizing Posters Who Think They're Funny. Patronizing Posters Who Think They're Funny..
aaaarrrrgghh--my mother.... aaaarrrrgghh--my mother.....
your ride, or ex ride your ride, or ex ride.
Friendship Friendship.
Online Dating Etiquette Online Dating Etiquette.
What was he thinking? What was he thinking?.
They smoke IN the house with the kids there... They smoke IN the house with the kids there....
Happy Birthday Picadilly! Happy Birthday Picadilly!.
With Age comes wisdom With Age comes wisdom.
Still attracted to ex Still attracted to ex.
Boots Boots.
Am I responsible for my wife's attorney's fees? Am I responsible for my wife's attorney's fees?.
My date My date.
ONE THING! ONE THING!.
Text Messages ?? Text Messages ??.
ATM's & Wimmins ATM's & Wimmins.
Monday...again.... Monday...again.....
Hope Hope.
My Love Song My Love Song.
Appeal? Appeal?.
JA and BB... JA and BB....
Something I hate about life ... Something I hate about life ....
written from the heart written from the heart.
I met the OW's husband! I met the OW's husband!.

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