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First Week - New Life First Week - New Life.
"The bushman and the peculiarities of on-line relationships... "The bushman and the peculiarities of on-line relationships....
One step forward, two steps back? One step forward, two steps back?.
Something wonderful...did happen!! Something wonderful...did happen!!.
A really DUMB GUY!!! A really DUMB GUY!!!.
Happy Anniversary to Me? Happy Anniversary to Me?.
An update for all An update for all.
sara evans sara evans.
I may send this I may send this.
? for the board ? for the board.
I aint that lonely yet... I aint that lonely yet....
I am scared I am scared.
just need to gripe... just need to gripe....
The farm is sold The farm is sold.
Be Careful What You Ask For Be Careful What You Ask For.
More a vent than anything else.... but friend-related More a vent than anything else.... but friend-related.
just thought I'd say hello. just thought I'd say hello..
I think she liked me I think she liked me.
How do you know? How do you know?.
And so it begins And so it begins.
I am at my wits end... I am at my wits end....
Sending this week.... Sending this week.....
WEDDINGS... WEDDINGS....
Found on my work computer Found on my work computer.
My son's birthday... My son's birthday....
JETS TO BRAZIL ~ Sea Anenome JETS TO BRAZIL ~ Sea Anenome.
Intro Intro.
Country Music Fans Country Music Fans.
Update Update.
Feel betrayed Feel betrayed.
4 Year Plan 4 Year Plan.
not sure what to do not sure what to do.
The story of life. The story of life..
sad clown, again? sad clown, again?.
The Nerve!!! The Nerve!!!.
Dating Do's and Dont's for females Dating Do's and Dont's for females.
:oCattle prod?? :oCattle prod?? .
Top 10 Drawbacks to cubicle's Top 10 Drawbacks to cubicle's.
Feeling like crap... Feeling like crap....
April Fools April Fools.
Whining Whining.
Snowmen and Husbands Snowmen and Husbands.
Abusive Situations Abusive Situations.
Mens Health Magazine Mens Health Magazine.
ALONE ALONE.
"Embers" "Embers".
My Ex is an Idiot My Ex is an Idiot.
nearly a year nearly a year.
Detroit/Windsor Detroit/Windsor.
Anyone else move on before it was final? Anyone else move on before it was final?.
Sitting here... Sitting here....
Live Journal Live Journal.
dealing with death dealing with death.
Just watched Dr. Phil.... Just watched Dr. Phil.....
1000 1000.
You're not divorcing your kid! You're not divorcing your kid!.
Realizations.. Realizations...
"retirement" "retirement".
Hi everyone. Newbie here Hi everyone. Newbie here.
Untitled Untitled.
D@mn, I was having such a good night, too.... D@mn, I was having such a good night, too.....
Starting Over/New To Message Board Starting Over/New To Message Board.
My ex is crazy... My ex is crazy....
Having a difficult time Having a difficult time.
I Wanna Do It All ~ Terri Clark I Wanna Do It All ~ Terri Clark.
Patience little one... Patience little one....
Stupidity? Stupidity?.
holding on by a string holding on by a string.
spouse and new girlfriend with my kids spouse and new girlfriend with my kids.
I wanna help. I wanna help..
My Wife says she just doesn't love me anymore My Wife says she just doesn't love me anymore.
AARRRGGG Bad "friendly outing" AARRRGGG Bad "friendly outing".
What I wish I could say.... What I wish I could say.....
A HUMOROUS divorce help book? A HUMOROUS divorce help book?.
I'm stuck again!! I'm stuck again!!.
Sex: Men and Women are different! Duh! Sex: Men and Women are different! Duh!.
When you Just Know When you Just Know.
Custody question Custody question.
I have a couple too... I have a couple too....
Divorce is never ending Divorce is never ending.
Divorced in Jacksonville Divorced in Jacksonville.
Enigma Enigma.
Taxes & Divorce Taxes & Divorce.
How to cope How to cope.
I got a new car I got a new car.
A greeting and my crappy story A greeting and my crappy story.
I don't know what to do. :( I don't know what to do. :(.
Here comes the pain Here comes the pain.
Enya Enya.
The s2bx realized he made a mistake The s2bx realized he made a mistake.
Is it possible to "start over" ? Is it possible to "start over" ?.
Want to introduce myself and tell my story! Want to introduce myself and tell my story!.
Smile Smile.
because you loved me because you loved me.
spoke to the crown spoke to the crown.
OJAR in Nebraska/Iowa... OJAR in Nebraska/Iowa....
The Calm before the Storm The Calm before the Storm.
Wall Street Journal Wall Street Journal.
Aaaack! Oh no! Aaaack! Oh no!.
Getting back into Dating... Getting back into Dating....
I just saw this....love the onion I just saw this....love the onion.
Moments in Time Moments in Time.
On the way down again...?? On the way down again...??.
Hi ... New here... Hi ... New here....
Telling about your ex? Telling about your ex?.
Is it real or Memorex? Is it real or Memorex?.
An old Rolling Stones song An old Rolling Stones song.
Overcoming loss Overcoming loss.
Hoobastank Hoobastank.
How long after searation should one wait to date? How long after searation should one wait to date?.
Here I go again..... Here I go again......
alone alone.
Trying to save it Trying to save it.
Hi I thought I would stop just lurkin Hi I thought I would stop just lurkin.
hmmmmm hmmmmm.
trust.... trust.....
last one last one.
Very Upset Very Upset.
Lonely Lonely.
to love through the good & bad to love through the good & bad.
L-Bomb gone nuclear L-Bomb gone nuclear.
This is a great healing song This is a great healing song.
"A Walk to Remember" "A Walk to Remember".
trapped trapped.
CRY - Mandy Moore CRY - Mandy Moore.
I am going crazy I am going crazy.
Things I should not be relating to... Things I should not be relating to....
Pandora's Box Pandora's Box.
Untitled 2 Untitled 2.
More Enigma More Enigma.
Continuing lies and how do I get out of this? Continuing lies and how do I get out of this?.
New Post New Post.
My loveless arranged marriage My loveless arranged marriage.
Time of your Life Time of your Life.
Who Are You? Who Are You?.
Too proud to beg... Too proud to beg....
You know what hurts? You know what hurts?.
Heard my wife's voice for the first time... Heard my wife's voice for the first time....
What motivates you? What motivates you?.
Getting jerked around.... Getting jerked around.....
Wounded Heart Wounded Heart.
One year post separation... One year post separation....
What is love? What is love?.
Do I or Don't I Do I or Don't I.
Latest Court News Latest Court News.
Got milk? Got milk?.
Finally... Finally....
She has forgiven me... She has forgiven me....
Need female advice Need female advice.
Need female advice Need female advice.
Was I Hoodwinked? Was I Hoodwinked?.
I give up on the EX! I give up on the EX!.
Hard Topic's Hard Topic's.
No win sitation No win sitation.
Marriage Breakdown & Russian Princess Marriage Breakdown & Russian Princess.
In the End In the End.
STBX served papers yesterday... STBX served papers yesterday....
Just need to tell my story Just need to tell my story.
email for in-laws email for in-laws.
To the OTHER WOMAN (is this psycho?) To the OTHER WOMAN (is this psycho?).
What constitutes adultry? What constitutes adultry?.
How to trust again? How to trust again?.
husband hurt me again! husband hurt me again!.
Things to say... Things to say....
I sent this to my husband I sent this to my husband.
what do you think? what do you think?.
Leaving Las Vegas Leaving Las Vegas.
Anniversary so here is a gratitude list Anniversary so here is a gratitude list .
I've fallen and I CAN'T get up!!! I've fallen and I CAN'T get up!!!.
Monogamy, is it possible? Monogamy, is it possible?.
Bitterness? Bitterness?.
Saturday is the first away from home visit.. Saturday is the first away from home visit...
do trial seperations ever work? do trial seperations ever work?.
"Intimacy Pondered Part II" "Intimacy Pondered Part II".
The Year The Year.
I went to a funeral today... I went to a funeral today....
What to do now? What to do now?.
Apples & Wine Apples & Wine.
Lost innocence Lost innocence.
I sent this to my husband II I sent this to my husband II.
stop contact with husband stop contact with husband.
What I want to relate to! What I want to relate to! .
I learned that from you I learned that from you.
1st Post 1st Post.
My husband wants a divorce My husband wants a divorce.
faking it faking it.
so very glad so very glad.
Falling out of love Falling out of love.
What is the BIG deal What is the BIG deal.
SHOULD I WAIT, OR SHOULD I MOVE ON SHOULD I WAIT, OR SHOULD I MOVE ON.
last email for in-laws last email for in-laws.
love thyself love thyself.
I need some help I need some help.
Net relationships as damaging as real-life affairs Net relationships as damaging as real-life affairs.
New here...unfortunately. New here...unfortunately..
my story my story.
My story....sad but true My story....sad but true.
Allow me to introduce myself Allow me to introduce myself.
moving out, moving up, moving on moving out, moving up, moving on.
Letter No.1 - Anger Letter No.1 - Anger.
My New Car My New Car.
Court Date Set Court Date Set.
song for my husband who seems ok song for my husband who seems ok.
Was this a good thing to do? Was this a good thing to do?.
Phone Phone.
How much more can I take.... How much more can I take.....
Work Venting Work Venting.
Why does moving on seem wrong and sad? Why does moving on seem wrong and sad?.
This takes the Cake This takes the Cake.
Early retirement Early retirement.
WHY did this have to happen? WHY did this have to happen?.
Untitled 3 Untitled 3.
OOPS. OOPS..
Evolution of feelings.... Evolution of feelings.....
What would you do? What would you do?.
Back to court we go Back to court we go.
Hold Me Now Hold Me Now.
bitter or amicable divorce? bitter or amicable divorce?.
This can't be happening! This can't be happening!.
choices choices.
Do you ever feel like giving up? Do you ever feel like giving up?.
Staind Staind.
Another day down... Another day down....
Missing old friends Missing old friends.
Okay, now I'm a little upset!!!!!!! Okay, now I'm a little upset!!!!!!!.
Deliver Me Deliver Me.
Our Place Our Place.
Arbitration Arbitration.
The Reason The Reason.
TV News Wants to Record Your Divorce Ceremony TV News Wants to Record Your Divorce Ceremony.
Divorce Stories - a new book by OJar members Divorce Stories - a new book by OJar members.
the brushoff the brushoff.
WRONG DATE....... WRONG DATE........
Letting Go Letting Go.
Venting...Feeling Lonely Depressed Confused Venting...Feeling Lonely Depressed Confused.
Anyone else suffering from "bit pusher" withdrawal symptoms? Anyone else suffering from "bit pusher" withdrawal symptoms?.
Just bulls***ting myself..... Just bulls***ting myself......
What to do Now What to do Now.
Am I right on it? Am I right on it?.
I can't believe my wife left me I can't believe my wife left me.
song my husband could sing song my husband could sing.
kids keeping secrets kids keeping secrets.
going in circles going in circles.
Confusing Confusing.
Longer... Longer....
Is everyone really okay? Is everyone really okay?.
What is the deal with Women?? What is the deal with Women??.
Somebody make me Let GO!! Somebody make me Let GO!!.
She wants her rings back! She wants her rings back! .
My husband and I were married January 17, 2004. My husband and I were married January 17, 2004. .
I wanted it, now its horrible I wanted it, now its horrible.
screeeeaaam! screeeeaaam!.
self destructing - crash and burn self destructing - crash and burn.
the beginning of the end i guess the beginning of the end i guess.
Confidence Confidence.
Anyone in orange County?? Anyone in orange County??.
My husband is happy with OW My husband is happy with OW.
CHEATED ON and with kids. CHEATED ON and with kids..
What a weekend What a weekend.
Band of Gold Band of Gold.
how much is fair to use against him? how much is fair to use against him?.
just feeling crappy and need to vent just feeling crappy and need to vent.
Everything - Alanis Morissette Everything - Alanis Morissette.
How about a little Skid Row? How about a little Skid Row?.
so far away... so far away....
What in the world happened? What in the world happened?.
Where I am..... Where I am......
What is up with these dreams? What is up with these dreams?.
advice on patience advice on patience.
Some questions about "cheating" Some questions about "cheating".
Happy Kiddo! Happy Kiddo!.
EX Leaves Town EX Leaves Town.
Remaining friends with your ex Remaining friends with your ex.
Reconnecting w/your ex Reconnecting w/your ex.
Anger Management Anger Management.
Relapse ! Relapse !.
Bitter ex selling wife's wedding dress Bitter ex selling wife's wedding dress.
It's Final It's Final.
Just need to talk thats all.... Just need to talk thats all.....
Sleeping together when the paper work is being processed Sleeping together when the paper work is being processed.
Just killing some time Just killing some time.
Re:Personalities/Same Re:Personalities/Same.
day one day one.
My heart is going to explode out of my chest My heart is going to explode out of my chest.
Temporary Orders :P Temporary Orders :P.
is it wrong to love this strong? is it wrong to love this strong?.
Hurting really bad Hurting really bad.
My story My story.
Very Rough 3 years (1) Very Rough 3 years (1).
House Closing dilema House Closing dilema.
Learning to trust again? Learning to trust again?.
Judge Ceases Visitations Judge Ceases Visitations.
to you my love to you my love.
X leaving the country! X leaving the country!.
And now it begins... And now it begins....
Update - Moving out Update - Moving out.
My first post, My story My first post, My story.
Custody, and leaving the state Custody, and leaving the state.
The DREADED Anniversary is approaching The DREADED Anniversary is approaching.
Having a good day Having a good day.
I'm trying to learn to let go I'm trying to learn to let go.
Still believe in love Still believe in love.
Looking for advise Looking for advise.
Try Try.
A$$hole of the Year Award, 2004 A$$hole of the Year Award, 2004.
In hopes of helping my X In hopes of helping my X.
Coming Clean Coming Clean.
STBX changes all phone numbers STBX changes all phone numbers.
Feeling Down - Letting it Out Feeling Down - Letting it Out.
what is wrong with me? what is wrong with me?.
Lost Lost.
Am I the only one (whose ever felt this way) Am I the only one (whose ever felt this way).
separated with no kids separated with no kids.
I'm LOSING IT I'm LOSING IT.
The beginning of the end..... The beginning of the end......
Last Dance... Last Dance....
My crappy weekend My crappy weekend.
Electrical Storm Electrical Storm.
One One.
Moving on or going back Moving on or going back.
My story My story.
Joey - Concrete Blonde Joey - Concrete Blonde.
Dave Matthews - Anything off busted stuff Dave Matthews - Anything off busted stuff.
Janis Joplin - Me & Bobby McGee Janis Joplin - Me & Bobby McGee.
Tool - Schism Tool - Schism.
Van Morrison - Brown eyed girl Van Morrison - Brown eyed girl .
first date first date .
Under the full moon we became one Under the full moon we became one.
This is to be my last post.... This is to be my last post.....
Discarded Discarded.
Sex Already..... Sex Already......
BaseBall Season Begins BaseBall Season Begins.
Nagging Feeling Nagging Feeling.
Torture! Torture!.
a good laugh... a good laugh....
So much pain So much pain.
Spouse of a survior of child abuse Spouse of a survior of child abuse.
Monkeybusiness and Company Policy Monkeybusiness and Company Policy .
Single? What's that? Single? What's that?.
Crisis: really need to talk... Crisis: really need to talk....
Shattered Shattered.
So Yesterday So Yesterday.
You oughta know You oughta know.
Making the decision - getting a divorce. Making the decision - getting a divorce..
When do I get to forget? When do I get to forget?.
Why bother? Why bother?.
MOVED: So Yesterday MOVED: So Yesterday.
Nine percent of Britons admit dumping partner with TEXT mesg's!!! Nine percent of Britons admit dumping partner with TEXT mesg's!!!.
I'm just not sure.- will you help me? I'm just not sure.- will you help me?.
Did anoyone have a clue before?? Did anoyone have a clue before??.
Moving on.... Moving on.....
Today's A$$HOLE OF THE YEAR!!!!! Today's A$$HOLE OF THE YEAR!!!!!.
If I Had My Life To Live Over If I Had My Life To Live Over.
bitter bitter.
I hate this man, Can you believe he did this????? I hate this man, Can you believe he did this?????.
unanswerable questions unanswerable questions.
Sweet Revenge Sweet Revenge.
It hit me like an atom bomb..... It hit me like an atom bomb......
SETTLEMENT!!!!!!! SETTLEMENT!!!!!!!.
Finally Finally.
Seinfeld - Who has hand.... Seinfeld - Who has hand.....
I had high hopes last night I had high hopes last night.
Is this standard? Is this standard?.
Anything But Ordinary Anything But Ordinary.
Wrong Again! Wrong Again!.
Getting it out of my system Getting it out of my system.
The Open Sea The Open Sea.
What I want to say, and should have What I want to say, and should have.
She is with someone else already??? She is with someone else already???.
To the hobag (OW) To the hobag (OW).
How does he KNOW? How does he KNOW?.
Does Counselling Work? Does Counselling Work?.
The point of "to hell with it" The point of "to hell with it".
Lou Reed - Fly Into The Sun Lou Reed - Fly Into The Sun.
Relationship Pet Peeves Relationship Pet Peeves.
Til I Get Over You Til I Get Over You.
Just had a breakdown at work... Just had a breakdown at work....
New here; not even separated yet New here; not even separated yet.
Phil Collins - Separate Lives Phil Collins - Separate Lives.
Living with lies Living with lies.
Pick up methods. What works? Pick up methods. What works?.
Divorce after Out-of-State Covenant Marriage Divorce after Out-of-State Covenant Marriage.
he's treating me "so well"! he's treating me "so well"!.
Well he found out! Well he found out!.
helping wonderful things happen helping wonderful things happen.
Conflicted Conflicted.
I had a great day! I had a great day!.
WTF? Why now? WTF? Why now?.
Maintance Maintance.
frustrated. frustrated. .
Happy Mother's Day Happy Mother's Day.
Having a tough time w/ dating, etc... Having a tough time w/ dating, etc....
Wild World Wild World.
Morning has broken Morning has broken.
Still Conflicted Still Conflicted.
Don't Speak - No Doubt Don't Speak - No Doubt.
What I would like to say. letter 1 What I would like to say. letter 1.
Happy Mother's Day ... I'm leaving you Happy Mother's Day ... I'm leaving you.
Glory B??? Glory B???.
OMG - possibly some hope OMG - possibly some hope.
Your input is needed... help? Your input is needed... help?.
Falling apart Falling apart.
it's been a while - Finally FILING! it's been a while - Finally FILING!.
Holidays Holidays.
Why do I feel bad? Why do I feel bad?.
My first foray... Butterflies My first foray... Butterflies.
Started Counselling Today Started Counselling Today.
A slow day, my second foray... Off and On A slow day, my second foray... Off and On.
I am working out issues today :)... Tis Also True I am working out issues today :)... Tis Also True.
Last one this AM... A Part of Me Last one this AM... A Part of Me.
Would Love Some Advice Would Love Some Advice.
Songs that you seem to relate to,,,,, Songs that you seem to relate to,,,,,.
Her birthday Her birthday.
Last visit to the house..... Last visit to the house......
A long letter A long letter.
What happend to chat ?!? What happend to chat ?!?.
Taking a poll... Taking a poll....
Well, the unthinkable happened. Need opinions. Well, the unthinkable happened. Need opinions..
Taking a break Taking a break.
Really in pain now :( Really in pain now :(.
next please.... next please.....
Stop Reproducing. Stop Reproducing..
Changes in schedule Changes in schedule.
WHY do act in vulgar fashions WHY do act in vulgar fashions.
Perceptions Perceptions.
Recieved my papers Recieved my papers.
Good Day! Good Day!.
Going Crazy!!! Going Crazy!!!.
The question singles want to know ... The question singles want to know ....
reconciliation and how much can I accept? reconciliation and how much can I accept?.
This is just wrong This is just wrong.
Desperate, Concerned Hubby Having Nerous Breakdown Desperate, Concerned Hubby Having Nerous Breakdown.
When will it ever end When will it ever end.
I NEED LEGAL HELP NOW! I NEED LEGAL HELP NOW!.
Actually sent it, and now regretting it Actually sent it, and now regretting it.
How do you deal with being totally alone? How do you deal with being totally alone?.
Taking a break! Taking a break!.
Feeling Low Feeling Low.
The beginning of the end of the beginning The beginning of the end of the beginning .
Twenty-nine Twenty-nine.
Empty Empty.
Finance and Divorce questions Finance and Divorce questions.
when to tell your children? when to tell your children?.
Rejection at its finest Rejection at its finest.
mystory mystory.
Guy Anxiety Guy Anxiety.
In shock In shock.
Annulments Annulments.
Pulled back in & Pushed back out Pulled back in & Pushed back out.
Quit-Claim Deed Quit-Claim Deed.
Venting Again Venting Again.
Urgent...Need advice Urgent...Need advice.
Wasted years? Wasted years?.
acrimony acrimony.
All the right people...at the wrong times... All the right people...at the wrong times....
breakup songs breakup songs.
X calls and wants to know "How are you?" X calls and wants to know "How are you?".
NO more death sticks! NO more death sticks!.
Dont know where to start... Dont know where to start....
Billy Talent - The Ex Lyrics Billy Talent - The Ex Lyrics.
Sunshine!!! Sunshine!!!.
"Damaged Goods" "Damaged Goods".
What to do, how to handle. What to do, how to handle..
More dreams More dreams.
Well..... Well......
To the ex inlaws... To the ex inlaws....
I don't want to know I don't want to know.
Flinch- Alanis Morisette Flinch- Alanis Morisette.
Everytime- Britney Everytime- Britney.
It's Gonna Be (Alright) - WEEN It's Gonna Be (Alright) - WEEN.
Wow. I really am a chump. Wow. I really am a chump..
Hooking up...friendly that is... Hooking up...friendly that is....
All the dating sights... All the dating sights....
Illinois people...(St Louis area) Illinois people...(St Louis area).
lordie lordie lordie lordie.
Need a little help today from OJAR friends... Need a little help today from OJAR friends....
Dating a newly divorced woman? Dating a newly divorced woman?.
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