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Samantha Mumba Samantha Mumba.
The Ring test... The Ring test....
ex remarries ex remarries.
The Stages of Divorce.. The Stages of Divorce...
Somebody... Somebody....
The End - Stage 1 The End - Stage 1.
Tired of being the punch line.... Tired of being the punch line.....
sad but not too sad sad but not too sad.
Frustration Frustration.
rocky road rocky road.
sharing ? caring sharing ? caring.
Don't Know What To Do Don't Know What To Do.
The Evidence.... UGH. The Evidence.... UGH..
was it inevitable? was it inevitable?.
2 Questions: Forcing "things" 2 Questions: Forcing "things".
Gas & Electric/House Closing Gas & Electric/House Closing.
May 20, 2004 May 20, 2004.
Problems Dealing with Ex-MIL Problems Dealing with Ex-MIL.
Sometimes things just suck! Sometimes things just suck!.
My irrational s2bx's periodic jerk outbreak My irrational s2bx's periodic jerk outbreak.
I FINALLY graduated!!!!!!!!!!! I FINALLY graduated!!!!!!!!!!!.
Jelousy Jelousy.
Sharing Atty's Sharing Atty's.
any healthy post-divorce relationships? any healthy post-divorce relationships?.
Dont want to try.. Frankie J Dont want to try.. Frankie J .
Entire 20s... Entire 20s....
Don't know the name of this song, but it goes like this... Don't know the name of this song, but it goes like this....
Just my thoughts.. Just my thoughts...
Army psycho Army psycho.
Why does my stbx do this??? Why does my stbx do this???.
How do you know when it's over? How do you know when it's over?.
Family response weird and somewhat angering Family response weird and somewhat angering.
What's really going on with him? What's really going on with him?.
Idle Minds Idle Minds.
Can I join in? Can I join in?.
What to do when your child... What to do when your child....
Back and still confused! Back and still confused!.
Army phsycho Army phsycho.
BROKEN BROKEN.
long, but I need to vent! 1 long, but I need to vent! 1.
this vent-o-board works! this vent-o-board works!.
please need her back please need her back.
Poll: Did you or didn't you live together? Poll: Did you or didn't you live together?.
Personal Property in CA Personal Property in CA.
How long it takes to forget??? How long it takes to forget???.
Dating one month after separated??? Dating one month after separated???.
Fatal flaw? Fatal flaw?.
Living with the parents again!!!! Living with the parents again!!!!.
Monday (Tuesday) blahs. Monday (Tuesday) blahs..
Another question.... Another question.....
I found some relief I found some relief.
Proof the World is NUTS! Proof the World is NUTS!.
anyone else been in this bad situation? anyone else been in this bad situation?.
I'm the new guy I'm the new guy.
DAD *Cut* the LEASH to the s2bx DAD *Cut* the LEASH to the s2bx.
Just needed to talk Just needed to talk.
I miss her so much! I miss her so much!.
For you Baby boy For you Baby boy.
Just when you think you're free.... Just when you think you're free.....
It even happens to beautiful people. It even happens to beautiful people..
Sky Blue and Black Sky Blue and Black.
My 1st 'Open Mic' performance!!! My 1st 'Open Mic' performance!!!.
Joining a Band Joining a Band.
Falling apart Falling apart.
Good Date! Good Date! .
How much time is acceptable??? How much time is acceptable???.
Sold our house... Sold our house....
Unsent?! Oops!! Unsent?! Oops!!.
Trust Trust.
Unsent?! Oops!!2 Unsent?! Oops!!2.
Unsent?! Oops!!3 Unsent?! Oops!!3.
Unsent?! Oops!!4 Unsent?! Oops!!4.
stickin to my decision stickin to my decision.
he's lying and cheating I dont know what 2 do he's lying and cheating I dont know what 2 do.
train of thought train of thought.
Feeling much better Feeling much better.
New car!!! New car!!!.
Time to vent my anger... Time to vent my anger....
any regrets any regrets.
To my wife 1(it's a long one) To my wife 1(it's a long one).
To my wife 2 To my wife 2.
To My Wife 3 To My Wife 3.
To my Wife 4 To my Wife 4.
To my Wife 5 To my Wife 5.
To my Wife 6 To my Wife 6.
To my Wife 7 To my Wife 7.
To My Wife 8 To My Wife 8.
To my Wife 1-8 is one long letter To my Wife 1-8 is one long letter.
This is all very Familiar, but I have a question? This is all very Familiar, but I have a question?.
Taking a "holiday" Taking a "holiday".
How much time? How much time?.
like to make new friends like to make new friends.
last fling good idea?...HELP! last fling good idea?...HELP!.
Unmarried with child, needs advice on leaving the state Unmarried with child, needs advice on leaving the state.
New realationship New realationship.
OK, I'm in my angry phase now OK, I'm in my angry phase now.
have you ever have you ever.
If you left, what's been your most interesting temporary living situation? If you left, what's been your most interesting temporary living situation?.
Inquiry for everyone Inquiry for everyone.
Feeling much better Feeling much better.
fear of being a bitter single fear of being a bitter single.
How do I forget him and move on? How do I forget him and move on?.
How to date after so many years? How to date after so many years?.
The cold, hard truth. The cold, hard truth..
Is the next one doomed before it begins? Is the next one doomed before it begins?.
Men Don't Change Men Don't Change.
accountability? accountability?.
Meeting people you want to date.... Meeting people you want to date.....
I need positive stories... I need positive stories....
Grace of my Heart Grace of my Heart.
Beginning of the week and I feel good. Beginning of the week and I feel good..
One that cannot be sent. One that cannot be sent..
The odds? Please help The odds? Please help.
Filing day... Filing day....
It should be the other way around!!!! It should be the other way around!!!!.
yet another grain yet another grain.
Half-hearted vent Half-hearted vent.
The quote from today that will stick 4ever! The quote from today that will stick 4ever!.
Sent, but questioning Sent, but questioning.
Invited to a porn industry party Invited to a porn industry party.
success stories for lack of a better term success stories for lack of a better term.
Short Update, for those that remember me! Short Update, for those that remember me!.
The only thing holy and sacred in my life The only thing holy and sacred in my life.
Headed towards my dream job!! Headed towards my dream job!!.
Moody Moody.
Feelin' Groovy! Feelin' Groovy!.
Get ready for the throwaway household. Get ready for the throwaway household..
Staying Friends Staying Friends.
Check out this one! Check out this one!.
Re:Is E-mail no longer sent from Ojar? Re:Is E-mail no longer sent from Ojar?.
Venting for my daughter Venting for my daughter.
Watching trains derail in slow motion Watching trains derail in slow motion.
Bad situation Bad situation.
Verging on hypocrisy, dipped my toes in b*tchiness, then recovered at last!! Verging on hypocrisy, dipped my toes in b*tchiness, then recovered at last!!.
Deception Deception.
The Descent of Happiness The Descent of Happiness.
The day my heart froze The day my heart froze.
I don't really belong here, but... I don't really belong here, but....
The Bad Trait Bank. The Bad Trait Bank..
Help Help.
7 Tips to Prevent Infidelity 7 Tips to Prevent Infidelity.
dave matthews: stay or leave dave matthews: stay or leave.
HOLA! HOLA!.
What to do What to do.
Married.. kind of. Married.. kind of..
A very real dream (nightmare?) A very real dream (nightmare?).
It happened.....something wonderful... did happen!!! It happened.....something wonderful... did happen!!!.
Jack Johnson gets me thinkin' Jack Johnson gets me thinkin'.
3rd day of separation 3rd day of separation.
Always on my Mind Always on my Mind.
Sex with the X Sex with the X.
New to the forums New to the forums.
Don't know what to do........... Don't know what to do............
How do I date How do I date.
Special events: Replacement player or stag? Special events: Replacement player or stag?.
Goodbye Goodbye.
Jimmy eat world-the middle Jimmy eat world-the middle.
What should I do?? What should I do??.
House of cards House of cards.
Yeah, I know it's tacky, but...... Yeah, I know it's tacky, but.......
Hearing about your X Hearing about your X.
Disappointed Disappointed.
My Story My Story.
Am I just stupid, or lonely, or what? Am I just stupid, or lonely, or what?.
It's country... It's country....
Thank you To the Happy Couple Thank you To the Happy Couple.
Haven't sent it but might Haven't sent it but might.
Oh yeah, I almost forgot..... It's final. Oh yeah, I almost forgot..... It's final..
Summary Judgement In CA Summary Judgement In CA.
Need suggestions/help Need suggestions/help.
Somebody Somebody.
Big Week Big Week.
Anniversary Anniversary.
New group for single mom's New group for single mom's.
wedding rings/spells wedding rings/spells.
feeling weak feeling weak.
Well I think I now have most of the story Well I think I now have most of the story.
I thought I was over him.... I thought I was over him.....
Why does my stbx do this?? (Part 2) Why does my stbx do this?? (Part 2).
Why can't I get angry? Why can't I get angry?.
Single parent - travel for work Single parent - travel for work.
unsent vent unsent vent.
July 4th weekend Chicago Area July 4th weekend Chicago Area.
asking the ex for advice on dating asking the ex for advice on dating.
child support/maintenance/child care child support/maintenance/child care.
Wow - great link if you have children Wow - great link if you have children.
Custody statistics Custody statistics.
custody custody.
feeling guilty about the children feeling guilty about the children.
Rules Rules.
WHAT SHOULD BE IN A LETTER TO THE JUDGE ON A DEFENDENT? WHAT SHOULD BE IN A LETTER TO THE JUDGE ON A DEFENDENT?.
How do you know it's time How do you know it's time.
Is this grounds for restricting visitation? Is this grounds for restricting visitation?.
stbx's and lies stbx's and lies.
Shocked my wife Shocked my wife.
Separation without Separating...(?) Separation without Separating...(?).
The BAR! The BAR!.
Really Bad Pick Up Lines Really Bad Pick Up Lines.
Band: Crush Song: Fine Band: Crush Song: Fine.
stream of consciousness stream of consciousness.
whats next and how long? whats next and how long?.
confused and in pain. confused and in pain..
How do you date when you have children? How do you date when you have children?.
To Brokenman To Brokenman.
running thoughts running thoughts.
one year ago today one year ago today.
I am me I am me.
Whoa! I'm 31! Whoa! I'm 31!.
Do People Really Change? Do People Really Change?.
The Journey from Abandonment to Healing The Journey from Abandonment to Healing.
No please...run up more debt No please...run up more debt.
Adultery and Me Adultery and Me.
Guilty but happy, confused but sertain and so much more Guilty but happy, confused but sertain and so much more.
I Had A Dream I Had A Dream.
Did a 180 Did a 180.
how long til you return to "Normal" how long til you return to "Normal".
new tactic / guilt or a taste of reality? new tactic / guilt or a taste of reality?.
Ring around the finger Ring around the finger.
Love's devine Love's devine.
Dating service? Dating service?.
I Now Know More... I Now Know More....
Not to get too raunchy but... Not to get too raunchy but....
The Next Step The Next Step.
Think the end is near - feeling bad Think the end is near - feeling bad.
What are you looking for in a partner? What are you looking for in a partner?.
This time last year... This time last year....
Looking to the future - priorities Looking to the future - priorities.
anyone felt blind panic?? anyone felt blind panic?? .
WHAT DOES HE WANT! WHAT DOES HE WANT!.
Let's be us again Let's be us again.
General dating do's and don'ts General dating do's and don'ts.
Baby outside marriage Baby outside marriage .
When do you feel safe? When do you feel safe?.
Happy Father's Day!!!! Happy Father's Day!!!!.
Cartoon that won't post Cartoon that won't post.
To send or not to send? That is the question To send or not to send? That is the question.
20+ Things to do in an elevator... *winkwink* 20+ Things to do in an elevator... *winkwink* .
Should I? Should I?.
what if there's a child involved what if there's a child involved.
Crashed and burned after Zoloft Crashed and burned after Zoloft.
Saturday Nights Saturday Nights.
Happy Fathers Day!!!! Happy Fathers Day!!!!.
Well...... Well.......
Don't know what to think or do?! Don't know what to think or do?!.
Confused and trying to get over it. Confused and trying to get over it..
haunting memories haunting memories.
She cries She cries.
Disposable Marriage Disposable Marriage.
Divorce Party? Divorce Party?.
breaking a lease with apartment breaking a lease with apartment.
I feel good like I knew I would. I feel good like I knew I would..
Feeling Weak Again.... Feeling Weak Again.....
I am jaded I am jaded.
A Single Teardrop A Single Teardrop.
Two Books have helped me Two Books have helped me .
Prince fix Prince fix.
Between a rock and a hard place: Dating with a jealous s2bx Between a rock and a hard place: Dating with a jealous s2bx.
Here's my story and first post (part 1) Here's my story and first post (part 1).
I wake up sad, go to bed sad I wake up sad, go to bed sad.
CAN HE BRING HIS GIRLFRIEND TO THE KIDS GAME CAN HE BRING HIS GIRLFRIEND TO THE KIDS GAME.
I JUST DON'T KNOW!!! I JUST DON'T KNOW!!!.
Good News Good News.
Hopefully good news Hopefully good news.
My Story My Story.
Dream Dream.
Cards Cards.
Wo/men meet people easier??? Wo/men meet people easier???.
RESTRAINING ORDERS RESTRAINING ORDERS.
Notarized letter and court doc's Notarized letter and court doc's.
being the "man of the house" being the "man of the house".
Moved out but moving on? Moved out but moving on?.
when to call it quits? when to call it quits?.
Hurt and sad and still loving the stbx Hurt and sad and still loving the stbx.
Anniversary Anniversary .
200th post 200th post.
I saw him I saw him.
How do I stop being angry? How do I stop being angry?.
Warning- adult content. But darn it, it puts such a smile on my face!!! Warning- adult content. But darn it, it puts such a smile on my face!!!.
After a year (profanity-laced vent) ... After a year (profanity-laced vent) ....
Hello all..new here Hello all..new here.
Maintaining in law relations Maintaining in law relations.
heard a quote today... heard a quote today... .
Need Advice Need Advice.
ColdPlay ColdPlay.
A few things..... A few things......
Easy for Them Easy for Them.
Why does this feel too good to be true? Why does this feel too good to be true?.
The big Goodbye The big Goodbye.
Okay, the reply e-mails are gone but... Okay, the reply e-mails are gone but....
no subject no subject.
Man oh man....world war 3 last night Man oh man....world war 3 last night.
i'm stuck i'm stuck.
Message too long... Message too long....
Today was the day... Today was the day....
Talk about ego boost! Talk about ego boost!.
I feel soooo .... I feel soooo .....
Sigh - What to do? Sigh - What to do?.
kids snack / cooking kids snack / cooking.
I know I've asked before I know I've asked before.
Fun Kid snacks Fun Kid snacks.
STBX Loves me NOW???? STBX Loves me NOW????.
mY sTORY-WHAT SHOULD i DO mY sTORY-WHAT SHOULD i DO.
2 Destiny's Child songs 2 Destiny's Child songs.
Lots o' Good News Lots o' Good News.
Hi new here Hi new here.
My Life SUCKS! My Life SUCKS!.
Went on a date last night Went on a date last night.
Apathy Towards Dating? Apathy Towards Dating?.
Heavens I need to stop! Heavens I need to stop!.
Please Help Me..... Please Help Me......
Selling the house Selling the house.
When Children are involved When Children are involved.
utility bill utility bill .
This Describess My Wife to a "T" This Describess My Wife to a "T".
Past or present, which one? Past or present, which one?.
Why can't I let go? Why can't I let go?.
Things still SUCK! Things still SUCK!.
Thanks OJAR Thanks OJAR.
more good news more good news.
Cheaters - warning signs Cheaters - warning signs.
It hurts so much It hurts so much.
Divorce final..... still in pain Divorce final..... still in pain.
Speechless Speechless.
Divorce Story Divorce Story.
Had a Dream Had a Dream.
hope someone can help me hope someone can help me.
Saying hello Saying hello.
Newbie with a question Newbie with a question.
Once upon a time... Once upon a time....
Has Anyone Else Run Away? Has Anyone Else Run Away?.
For those who's spouse cheated... For those who's spouse cheated....
Odd Feeling...... Odd Feeling.......
The Space Between The Space Between.
Sunny days Sunny days.
Weekend get-a-away Weekend get-a-away.
Wedding Gown Wedding Gown.
How do injunctions really work? How do injunctions really work?.
Getting their stuff after they move out.... Getting their stuff after they move out.....
Bar scene revisited: what are women looking for? Bar scene revisited: what are women looking for?.
To my ex-husband, and his new wife, my ex-friend To my ex-husband, and his new wife, my ex-friend.
My Happy Ending My Happy Ending.
Soon to Be Divorcee - Here's my story Soon to Be Divorcee - Here's my story.
PLEASE HELP GOING CRAZY NOW!!!!!! PLEASE HELP GOING CRAZY NOW!!!!!!.
Wanting to go back... Wanting to go back....
Kentucky meeting?? near IL, TN, MO?? Kentucky meeting?? near IL, TN, MO??.
My Own "Big Goodbye" My Own "Big Goodbye".
One more....My wife's attorney filed something called a "motion to set" One more....My wife's attorney filed something called a "motion to set".
Canada Canada.
I need advice! I need advice!.
Re:Why can't he just LET GO? Re:Why can't he just LET GO?.
UNwanted family setups ~ ARG UNwanted family setups ~ ARG.
About your X About your X.
The last straw... The last straw....
On my Own For the First Time in 10 years On my Own For the First Time in 10 years.
How I see it! How I see it!.
Another Saga.... Another Saga.....
Amazing - by Aerosmith Amazing - by Aerosmith.
What It Takes By: Aerosmith What It Takes By: Aerosmith.
The ??? Named Woman The ??? Named Woman.
The sucking continues The sucking continues.
Need help to get my head sorted Need help to get my head sorted.
Yay! 2 pieces of good news yesterday! Yay! 2 pieces of good news yesterday!.
I am new here I am new here.
Promotion for Me Promotion for Me.
Online Dating.... Online Dating.....
What's wrong?? What's wrong??.
When does the pain go away? When does the pain go away?.
Re:Don't know what to do next Re:Don't know what to do next.
Alcoholic wife Alcoholic wife.
So much for my happy ending So much for my happy ending.
forgotten forgotten.
I'm Just So Sad I'm Just So Sad.
maybe you think maybe you think.
more about cheating more about cheating.
confused confused.
Why Me? Why Me?.
Hate the radio Hate the radio.
Help! So confused. Help! So confused..
Anyone in San Diego or North County? Anyone in San Diego or North County?.
Middle of the night Middle of the night.
Why won't it stop hurting? Why won't it stop hurting?.
Rainbows Rainbows.
Get along great yet divorcing.. Get along great yet divorcing...
Tom Lykos - A Jerk or What? Tom Lykos - A Jerk or What?.
Question for females...or even males too Question for females...or even males too.
my god!! he called me!! my god!! he called me!!.
article on women & infidelity article on women & infidelity.
Lyrics that hit home.... Lyrics that hit home.....
You're only human You're only human.
my story to tell my story to tell.
need some advice need some advice.
Is there any point? Is there any point?.
Depression, Antidepressants & Marriage Depression, Antidepressants & Marriage.
I feel alone I feel alone.
narcissism narcissism.
My cheating wife My cheating wife.
I see YOU now I see YOU now.
how long till you dated again? how long till you dated again?.
And the rollercoaster takes a dip And the rollercoaster takes a dip.
Seperation Anxiety??? HELP Seperation Anxiety??? HELP.
A Texas Blessing A Texas Blessing.
Freaked out last night!!!! Freaked out last night!!!!.
Chalk one up for me. Chalk one up for me..
Contempt Hearing Contempt Hearing.
I just don't understand I just don't understand.
My goodbye...and it was sent... My goodbye...and it was sent....
Need Help ! Need Help !.
HELP! HELP!.
I dropped the bomb... I dropped the bomb....
Got another phone call tonight Got another phone call tonight.
Some People make me crazy Some People make me crazy.
1/3 of an Ex-husband's future earnings... 1/3 of an Ex-husband's future earnings....
Blames Me? Blames Me?.
I had a dream last night I had a dream last night.
Can anyone relate? Can anyone relate?.
Redneck Driver's License Application Redneck Driver's License Application.
Ms. Right Rejection Form Ms. Right Rejection Form .
Funny Answering Machine Greetings Funny Answering Machine Greetings.
What is sex? What is sex?.
Letter of Apology Letter of Apology.
Points to Ponder Points to Ponder.
life SUCKS! life SUCKS!.
Friday night Friday night.
How to light a torch under my attorney? How to light a torch under my attorney?.
scared of my thoughts and feelings scared of my thoughts and feelings.
I just blew it, bigtime! I just blew it, bigtime!.
Don't know what to do Don't know what to do.
Burning desire to see her again.... Burning desire to see her again.....
Georgia ? Georgia ?.
Jealous STBX Jealous STBX.
OMG OMG.
Curtain Rods Curtain Rods.
weird conflicting feelings that I'm sure are normal weird conflicting feelings that I'm sure are normal.
Will my heart ever heal? Will my heart ever heal?.
is it time? is it time?.
Learn To Be Still (for my stbx) Learn To Be Still (for my stbx).
Have I completly lost my mind???????? Have I completly lost my mind????????.
Coming out....... Coming out........
My Divorce Story My Divorce Story.
I just don't understand I just don't understand.
A child-divorced parent mystery... A child-divorced parent mystery....
Faking it Faking it.
why do I feel soooo bad??? why do I feel soooo bad???.
losing it losing it.
To Leave Or Not To Leave? To Leave Or Not To Leave?.
Pregnancy Q & A Pregnancy Q & A.
Being the dumper or dumpee Being the dumper or dumpee.
I'm so sad and lonely I'm so sad and lonely.
My Story My Story.
Crying Crying.
talking talking.
On a jet plane Friday On a jet plane Friday.
being the "Mr. Mom" being the "Mr. Mom".
question...did you feel envy towards your ex??? question...did you feel envy towards your ex???.
It's Only Love... It's Only Love....
Little Known Facts & More Little Known Facts & More.
I can't believe I can't believe.
Is 29 old? Is 29 old?.
Make up your Damn mind Make up your Damn mind.
Things that make me say hmmmmm? Things that make me say hmmmmm?.
Looking in Denver Looking in Denver.
Why do I let him keep hurting me? Why do I let him keep hurting me?.
Single Father/Multiple pains Single Father/Multiple pains.
struggle struggle.
stress/depression stress/depression.
Just for a Moment - Cast aside your Anger Just for a Moment - Cast aside your Anger.
change change.
What am I doing? What am I doing?.
Finding an Ex Finding an Ex.
Pictures of Members Pictures of Members.
House just sold House just sold.
AAARRRGGGGHHHHH!!!! AAARRRGGGGHHHHH!!!!.
Scared and confused Scared and confused.
Broken Wing - Martina McBride Broken Wing - Martina McBride.
is age really just a number? is age really just a number?.
when does the process start? when does the process start?.
kids kids.
no more sleeping on pull out couch no more sleeping on pull out couch.
to Clambake to Clambake.
I just can't go on like this I just can't go on like this.
Is Our ODD Arangment Unhealthy?!!! Is Our ODD Arangment Unhealthy?!!!.
Also Falling in Love with Someone while still married Also Falling in Love with Someone while still married.
dreams dreams.
KICKED HER OUT OF HOUSE KICKED HER OUT OF HOUSE.
I will not ask him to come home anymore! I will not ask him to come home anymore!.
Friends Weddings Friends Weddings.
To My Truest..... To My Truest......
Do vows not mean anything anymore? Do vows not mean anything anymore? .
He decided for me He decided for me.
Considering "dare to be great" situation Considering "dare to be great" situation.
fair deal fair deal.
Hehe. Man rules. Hehe. Man rules..
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