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I'm starting to look like her... I'm starting to look like her....
how how.
Three little ojar piggies Three little ojar piggies.
Breakaway Breakaway.
First Contact... First Contact....
Perfect ending to a perect weekend. Perfect ending to a perect weekend..
Rough Break up Rough Break up.
The History Channel The History Channel.
now what... now what....
myspace?? myspace??.
OJar.com Web Site Moderator and Writer sought. OJar.com Web Site Moderator and Writer sought..
Slinging dirt Slinging dirt.
depression depression.
A little Steve Miller never hurt. A little Steve Miller never hurt..
meeting people on dating sites meeting people on dating sites.
Can life go on? Can life go on?.
Can't walk away Can't walk away.
Please help me... Please help me....
unbelievable pain unbelievable pain.
Broken Angry Heart Broken Angry Heart.
How do you feel today... In song lyrics. How do you feel today... In song lyrics..
What to expect? What to expect?.
Is it right..... Is it right..... .
Confront about phone calls with kid? Confront about phone calls with kid?.
enough is enough enough is enough.
I Feel like making Love I Feel like making Love.
1st Step forward. 1st Step forward..
Todays SnapShot of Premuim - If You are Considering Joining Premuim Todays SnapShot of Premuim - If You are Considering Joining Premuim.
I swear; evenings are the worst I swear; evenings are the worst.
The darkside The darkside.
Long nights.. Long nights...
Patience Patience.
Do you....before bed? Do you....before bed?.
Finally, the truth!! Finally, the truth!!.
New stage in the game... New stage in the game....
I can smell it! I can smell it!.
Powdah Room 8/23 Powdah Room 8/23.
Addicted to hurting Addicted to hurting.
Long Distance Visitation-Who does the driving? Long Distance Visitation-Who does the driving? .
Anyone else been with an ALCOHOLIC?? Anyone else been with an ALCOHOLIC??.
Wanted... Wanted....
In need of mental support In need of mental support.
Ice Cream Anyone? Ice Cream Anyone?.
Ok Ladies and Gents, What Do You Like Better? Ok Ladies and Gents, What Do You Like Better?.
Am I being Selfish????? Am I being Selfish?????.
How could you? How could you?.
I cant handle this I cant handle this.
Seriously? Seriously?.
Am I wrong? Am I wrong?.
Here is my story Here is my story.
Im sorry I wasnt enough Im sorry I wasnt enough.
Team Duty Team Duty.
Dead beat dad Dead beat dad.
My heart hurts so badly My heart hurts so badly.
ANGRY STAGE...... ANGRY STAGE.......
So stupid!!! So stupid!!!.
My wife's absense, Help. Please. My wife's absense, Help. Please..
ex on myspace ex on myspace.
http://www.ojar.com/grief.php EVERYONE READ THIS, IT'S FANTASTIC!! http://www.ojar.com/grief.php EVERYONE READ THIS, IT'S FANTASTIC!!.
Vacation!! Vacation!!.
Is it really that way? Is it really that way?.
My Wish---For All My Ojarian Friends My Wish---For All My Ojarian Friends.
No one to talk to No one to talk to.
Question Question.
new channel new channel .
Visiting NYC Visiting NYC.
This totally sucks This totally sucks.
Well I guess that answers one thing. But... Well I guess that answers one thing. But....
Guys - can you answer this one for us.... Guys - can you answer this one for us.....
Low tech at Logan International... Low tech at Logan International....
where are where are.
New And In Over My Head New And In Over My Head.
I Wish It Would Rain Down (Phil Collins) I Wish It Would Rain Down (Phil Collins).
The End (The Doors) (Not the full version) The End (The Doors) (Not the full version).
Arkansas Anyone Arkansas Anyone.
I got a job!!!! I got a job!!!!.
Moving to Boise Moving to Boise.
I hope you [insert word here] and die. I hope you [insert word here] and die..
Trust is... Trust is....
Happy Birthday, PickingUpThePieces! Happy Birthday, PickingUpThePieces!.
Shes not here anymore Shes not here anymore.
I can't believe I'm back here. I can't believe I'm back here..
1st session with dr. huge blow out with STBXW 1st session with dr. huge blow out with STBXW.
HELP!! HELP!!.
getting away from him getting away from him.
never felt so lost never felt so lost.
Letting Go Letting Go.
Compassion from friends? ? ? ? ? ? Compassion from friends? ? ? ? ? ?.
What kind of person does this make me? What kind of person does this make me?.
Former stepchildren? Former stepchildren?.
another my story another my story .
Need Advice Need Advice.
Just a question Just a question.
Ok, who the heck are you people?? Ok, who the heck are you people??.
My story begins My story begins.
I Got a Job I Got a Job.
Your views please! Your views please!.
Aghhhh! I'm Stuck! :-( Aghhhh! I'm Stuck! :-(.
For those thinking of leaving or cheating! For those thinking of leaving or cheating!.
He Can Count He Can Count.
Short and to the point Short and to the point.
I woke up I woke up.
Is this normal? Is this normal?.
My Uncle Is In The Hospital My Uncle Is In The Hospital.
email today email today.
Do you MISS ME? Do you MISS ME?.
3 Days Ago My Wife Says She's Leaving Me..After 11 yrs and 3 Young Kids 3 Days Ago My Wife Says She's Leaving Me..After 11 yrs and 3 Young Kids.
How to deal with all of the different emotions? How to deal with all of the different emotions?.
the effect of words the effect of words.
Did I make a mistake? Did I make a mistake?.
I'm ready I'm ready.
Ordinary People Ordinary People.
Is forever over already? </3 Is forever over already? </3.
Stop the lies Stop the lies.
Powdah Room 8/24 and 8/25 Powdah Room 8/24 and 8/25.
Not sure what to do Not sure what to do.
Confused in Pain Confused in Pain.
Question about custody for Canadian people Question about custody for Canadian people.
Panic Attack and Anxiety Help and Resource Panic Attack and Anxiety Help and Resource.
OK I Have A Topic OK I Have A Topic.
When will my HEART catch up with my HEAD!?!? When will my HEART catch up with my HEAD!?!?.
Deoderant Deoderant.
baby steps baby steps.
My name is Ron My name is Ron.
Snakes on a plane Movie Snakes on a plane Movie.
HELP! I need to sneak out of the wedding!!! HELP! I need to sneak out of the wedding!!!.
When do you go out again?? When do you go out again??.
I just don't know what to do I just don't know what to do.
It Doesn't Look Good It Doesn't Look Good.
Make Me Stay Make Me Stay.
Hell Yeah Hell Yeah.
happy birthday happy birthday.
Still... Still....
Here We Go Again Here We Go Again.
4:19A.M in Cali... =/ 4:19A.M in Cali... =/.
Wood at work... Wood at work....
I sleepwalk through life now I sleepwalk through life now.
miss you baby miss you baby.
When to take off the ring? When to take off the ring?.
Calling Out the IDIOT!! Calling Out the IDIOT!!.
My story My story .
Just for Dennis... Just for Dennis... .
wanting to "hook up" wanting to "hook up".
I feel great I feel great.
Stuck in a confused dark plateau. Stuck in a confused dark plateau..
OJar Exercise Club OJar Exercise Club.
Exercise thread on new priorities Exercise thread on new priorities.
Exercise thread on new priorities Exercise thread on new priorities.
For all the mommas For all the mommas.
Grocery Store Grocery Store.
Any Ojar musicians? Any Ojar musicians?.
Is he playing mind games?? Is he playing mind games??.
To no one.... To no one.....
Leaving all of her earthly posessions Leaving all of her earthly posessions.
MOVED: Leaving all of her earthly posessions MOVED: Leaving all of her earthly posessions.
See ya suckers!!! See ya suckers!!!.
so frickin bored i want to shoot myself so frickin bored i want to shoot myself.
I think it's time I think it's time.
We were a family, remember? We were a family, remember?.
Something Just For Me Something Just For Me.
Which is worse? Which is worse?.
To the OM To the OM.
I love Texas! I love Texas!.
Putting my son first Putting my son first.
no contact no contact.
You can't control other peoples feelings You can't control other peoples feelings.
I am so mad at you! I am so mad at you!.
Argh! Public servants! Argh! Public servants!.
What is 6.9? What is 6.9?.
FOr all the people who find themselves at the end of their relationship FOr all the people who find themselves at the end of their relationship.
Ermatica Ermatica.
ermatica ermatica.
I survived my first week at law school...and finished my work for the weekend! I survived my first week at law school...and finished my work for the weekend!.
Meeting someone that you met online Meeting someone that you met online.
anyone in the uk/ anyone in the uk/.
Ok! I've had enough! Ok! I've had enough!.
If he was listening this is what I would say. If he was listening this is what I would say..
income tax filing. income tax filing..
OK OK.
JA!!! JA!!!.
I love you My Sons I love you My Sons.
I thought I was doing better I thought I was doing better.
BCPs BCPs.
Anyone on ft riley, ks or in the same area Anyone on ft riley, ks or in the same area.
Reality is hitting Reality is hitting.
MR UNMOTIVATED GETS A JOB!! MR UNMOTIVATED GETS A JOB!!.
Who can tell ... Who can tell ... .
It's still amazing to me ... It's still amazing to me ... .
Guys, Girls, and Maturity Guys, Girls, and Maturity.
Weird Times Weird Times.
National good looking person day! National good looking person day!.
need some advice need some advice.
what the he$$?? what the he$$??.
Happy Birthday to Me Happy Birthday to Me.
Before Getting on a plane I would think 10 times about it, they are going into Before Getting on a plane I would think 10 times about it, they are going into.
my babies my babies.
Does It Bother Anyone Else?? Does It Bother Anyone Else??.
Broken for the second time Broken for the second time.
I have said it before and I will say it again. I have said it before and I will say it again..
Rock bottom Rock bottom.
Today is the day Today is the day.
Sometimes...... Sometimes.......
Just a little update.... Just a little update.....
Wife left Wife left.
I Got Melbel's Cherry Last Night I Got Melbel's Cherry Last Night.
total downer... total downer....
Crap they found them! Crap they found them!.
Kid's Meal For Tonight Kid's Meal For Tonight.
Where's the Xanax? Where's the Xanax?.
New Sig Pic New Sig Pic.
An Awsome Awsome day for me An Awsome Awsome day for me.
can he really screw me like this? can he really screw me like this?.
Can he really screw me like this? Can he really screw me like this?.
I got a new sig pic! I got a new sig pic!.
I realized something today. I realized something today..
I have a question! I have a question!.
Here's a myspace story for you Here's a myspace story for you.
Checked my email.... Checked my email.....
What Is She Doing....Very Confused Rant What Is She Doing....Very Confused Rant.
To the love of my life To the love of my life.
Givin' Up On You (Lara Fabian) Givin' Up On You (Lara Fabian).
Drinking alcohol during breakup. Drinking alcohol during breakup..
Broken Vow (Lara Fabian) Broken Vow (Lara Fabian).
Why don't you... Why don't you....
Boxing Memories, and Moving On Boxing Memories, and Moving On.
Why does he lie, SO MUCH! Why does he lie, SO MUCH!.
When Is It My Turn?? When Is It My Turn??.
family saw my x family saw my x.
She's back, yay! She's back, yay!.
My mind is my own worse enemy!! My mind is my own worse enemy!!.
One good thing One good thing.
One year later... One year later....
Can Anyone Say Football????? Who's Your Favorite Pro Team? Can Anyone Say Football????? Who's Your Favorite Pro Team?.
Thank You! Thank You!.
Money... Money....
UUUUGGGHHH!! UUUUGGGHHH!!.
Ah the joys of a simple roadtrip! Ah the joys of a simple roadtrip!.
Circle of Light Circle of Light.
So why did I work so damn hard... So why did I work so damn hard....
Worlds Shortest Fairy Tale Worlds Shortest Fairy Tale.
how many are on myspace? how many are on myspace?.
Six Months Today Six Months Today.
Bumping into old friends Bumping into old friends .
Tonight Is The Night I Approach Softball Man! Help Need Words Of Encouragement!! Tonight Is The Night I Approach Softball Man! Help Need Words Of Encouragement!!.
something to Offend Everyone something to Offend Everyone.
Huge blow! - I just saw the OM Huge blow! - I just saw the OM.
A toast ... A toast ....
Well, I destroyed my new Suv today. Well, I destroyed my new Suv today..
Make Them Apologize Make Them Apologize.
Dropped my son off Dropped my son off .
August 27th, 2006 - The day my kids lives changed forever August 27th, 2006 - The day my kids lives changed forever.
Fast way to lose 10 pounds .. Fast way to lose 10 pounds .. .
I miss You I miss You.
Temecula, CA Temecula, CA.
What the hell am I doing? What the hell am I doing?.
Today I lost Ballsey.... Today I lost Ballsey.....
Another sleepless night.... Another sleepless night.....
Not enough money to get to a love... Not enough money to get to a love....
Calm, after 4 months of Hell. Calm, after 4 months of Hell..
What is the going rate for a babysitter? What is the going rate for a babysitter?.
I should have snuck out of the Wedding..... I should have snuck out of the Wedding......
need reassurance please... need reassurance please....
Submitting an offer today....... Submitting an offer today........
Climber Girl Update Climber Girl Update.
in limbo and tripping (literally) in limbo and tripping (literally).
Myspace, o' evil MySpace Myspace, o' evil MySpace.
I don't know how much "Fight" I have left in me... I don't know how much "Fight" I have left in me... .
Powdah Room 8/28 Powdah Room 8/28.
The worst sunset ever... The worst sunset ever....
Why???? Why????.
F@cking LAG! F@cking LAG!.
Blah. Blah..
Natural Salesman Natural Salesman.
this is what a love.... this is what a love.....
got back together, already over...is it me? got back together, already over...is it me?.
Gotta Rant Gotta Rant.
Feeling Blah Feeling Blah.
War in my mind... War in my mind... .
Man! Man!.
random thoughts random thoughts.
is this a place to meet singles or.... is this a place to meet singles or.....
Might be seeing him again this evening! Might be seeing him again this evening!.
strange bruises on my son strange bruises on my son.
Confused Confused.
I think I messed up... I think I messed up....
I think it's a long distance kind of thing I think it's a long distance kind of thing.
Just a few weeks left... Just a few weeks left....
I finished my paper!!!! I finished my paper!!!!.
59 days ... 59 days ... .
Another guy who just drives me a little batty Another guy who just drives me a little batty .
You threw away everything that you loved You threw away everything that you loved.
Being the OM Being the OM.
Another bad night! Another bad night!.
Dating, Brazilian restaurant-style Dating, Brazilian restaurant-style.
My blog My blog.
moving fast!! moving fast!! .
he cheats on me, but claims he still loves me, when will i ever learn he cheats on me, but claims he still loves me, when will i ever learn.
Damn you... Damn you....
Share your story with me....I have an idea to help lots more people..... Share your story with me....I have an idea to help lots more people......
A Prayer of Surrender (this has really helped me) A Prayer of Surrender (this has really helped me).
I don't even know how to title this..... I don't even know how to title this......
wrinkles and acne wrinkles and acne.
Tips on Stifling Tips on Stifling.
three years of marriage and it's going to be over three years of marriage and it's going to be over.
Happy Birthday OJar... Happy Birthday OJar....
Goodbye- A letter I did send Goodbye- A letter I did send.
I Have A Question I Have A Question.
Sick to my stomach. Why can't I take my own advice?! Sick to my stomach. Why can't I take my own advice?!.
No more tears no more thoughts No more tears no more thoughts.
Secret desires Secret desires.
LICKING! LICKING!.
Unexpected Finishes Unexpected Finishes.
I think this is absurd.. I think this is absurd...
Leave (Matchbox Twenty) Leave (Matchbox Twenty).
Ready to file Ready to file.
Not an easy read...so walk away Not an easy read...so walk away.
date of separation date of separation.
any ideas any ideas.
Today I start my first job in almost 5 years! Today I start my first job in almost 5 years!.
True 50/50 custody of kids. True 50/50 custody of kids..
Happy 1 year YellowJacket! Happy 1 year YellowJacket!.
Foot in Mouth disease Foot in Mouth disease.
stress and hives... stress and hives....
Peolpe who dont know how to love and who never love. Peolpe who dont know how to love and who never love..
Income tax Income tax.
Obsessional thinking. Obsessional thinking..
Powdah Room 8/29 Powdah Room 8/29.
Anyone in MD? Anyone in MD?.
MY POOR SON.... MY POOR SON.....
I played tooth fairy! I played tooth fairy!.
YJ Picks Week 1 YJ Picks Week 1.
Happy Birthday - My Baby Boy!!! Happy Birthday - My Baby Boy!!!.
Feeling Horrible Feeling Horrible.
So down... So down....
stbxw called last night. stbxw called last night..
Married but love another Married but love another.
update on POF guy from a while ago. update on POF guy from a while ago..
OMG.. OMG...
USC and the pac 10 rant USC and the pac 10 rant.
Tonight it is the end Tonight it is the end.
Gloomy Day Gloomy Day.
lots going on in my head... lots going on in my head....
Final Curtain Final Curtain.
Just an update Just an update.
Fast Food Song Fast Food Song.
Just Put One Foot in Frount of the Other ! Just Put One Foot in Frount of the Other !.
I'm forcing her hand today...and I'm scared. I'm forcing her hand today...and I'm scared..
Dear Kotex... Dear Kotex....
This is painful This is painful.
Tree of Lost Memories Tree of Lost Memories.
Violent Child Violent Child.
Why Fall In Love Again? Why Fall In Love Again?.
Color of... Color of....
This Makes Me Feel Better This Makes Me Feel Better.
I dont really have to know why I dont really have to know why.
Names and Dates and Times Names and Dates and Times.
Divorce support Divorce support.
Julie My Baby Julie My Baby.
Invent a Member! Invent a Member!.
why can't i sleep why can't i sleep.
50/50 Custody Ideas 50/50 Custody Ideas.
Need advice :( Need advice :(.
For Breaking Your Heart For Breaking Your Heart.
Why My Wife Thinks I'm an Idiot Why My Wife Thinks I'm an Idiot.
Confused... Confused....
mad as h$ll yesterday mad as h$ll yesterday.
BUT I STILL WANT HER BACK............ BUT I STILL WANT HER BACK.............
Even if you don't normally Even if you don't normally.
What Is The Sweetest Thing A Woman Has Ever Done For You? What Is The Sweetest Thing A Woman Has Ever Done For You?.
Place your bets Place your bets.
Newfie Fingers Newfie Fingers.
It's been a year.... It's been a year.....
Migraines Migraines.
MORAL dilema! MORAL dilema!.
i miss him so, and his family too i miss him so, and his family too.
M the hottie is a freak M the hottie is a freak.
Ode to the bunny Ode to the bunny.
Curiosity killed the other cat Curiosity killed the other cat.
Adult Swings Adult Swings.
This one is for my Country Girls!!! This one is for my Country Girls!!!.
Tomorrow i'm approaching softball man! Part 2 Tomorrow i'm approaching softball man! Part 2.
I get to Keep my HOUSE ! Ya' Hoo ! I get to Keep my HOUSE ! Ya' Hoo ! .
Here's my tragic story...(part 1) Here's my tragic story...(part 1).
Bad News from a friend! Bad News from a friend!.
can't sleep, dont want to eat can't sleep, dont want to eat.
A great song...for when you are ready!! A great song...for when you are ready!!.
chasing perfection chasing perfection.
06.30.08 sexual quote of the day... 06.30.08 sexual quote of the day....
Oh what to do Oh what to do.
Powdah Room 8/30 Powdah Room 8/30.
Can someone tell me? Can someone tell me?.
Why Me? Why Me?.
AUGH! I CALLED HIM!!!!! AUGH! I CALLED HIM!!!!!.
Never Again Never Again.
At least I finally have an answer At least I finally have an answer.
Another day, more depression Another day, more depression.
We are done for now..... We are done for now......
She’s gone… and now I’m leaving too. She’s gone… and now I’m leaving too..
Question? Question?.
Happy Birthday, drowned and Spazz! Happy Birthday, drowned and Spazz!.
..and the story continues... ..and the story continues....
Blonde Driving............. Blonde Driving..............
Peppy Yahoo! Peppy Yahoo!.
The Dating Scene The Dating Scene.
I was here thinking... I was here thinking....
Daddy will always be there for you...I promise Daddy will always be there for you...I promise.
Pittsburgh????? Pittsburgh?????.
C'mon, Southern Ontario, New York, and Northern PA, and Quebec Lets Party!!!!! C'mon, Southern Ontario, New York, and Northern PA, and Quebec Lets Party!!!!!.
Got some more awsome news Got some more awsome news.
How Do You Really Know When He's The One 4U? How Do You Really Know When He's The One 4U?.
OW is all over xh visitation schedule OW is all over xh visitation schedule.
Need some help Need some help.
The Rest Of My New Life The Rest Of My New Life.
Happy Birthday, Whirlpool! Happy Birthday, Whirlpool!.
The long distance boy and brother The long distance boy and brother .
what do i do? what do i do?.
not really divorce poetry but... not really divorce poetry but....
Amazing weight loss program for men Amazing weight loss program for men.
Never Piss off a Saskatchewan Woman Never Piss off a Saskatchewan Woman.
What does he mean What does he mean.
Carolinas On My Mind Carolinas On My Mind.
totally impatient! totally impatient!.
lost & confused lost & confused.
If just ONE more of my collegues... If just ONE more of my collegues....
Just when you think Just when you think .
Dear OM, Dear OM,.
To all married men looking to cheat (long) To all married men looking to cheat (long).
ExWife is Chewing Nails Now ! ExWife is Chewing Nails Now !.
Bra Fittings? Bra Fittings?.
Nothing but a lie Nothing but a lie.
First year med students First year med students.
A drunk in the Bathroom A drunk in the Bathroom.
Really... Really....
It all started 8 years ago... It all started 8 years ago....
I recieved an appology I recieved an appology.
Hurt and cheating? Hurt and cheating?.
Picking up papers! Picking up papers!.
Slowly Moving On... Slowly Moving On....
Right to have whatever emotions I want. Right to have whatever emotions I want..
So, here's to HOPE. (get ready for some cheerleading) So, here's to HOPE. (get ready for some cheerleading).
strange night strange night.
I love this one! I love this one!.
lost lost.
If trends continue If trends continue.
Cant believe it Cant believe it.
Powdah Room 8/31 Powdah Room 8/31.
A daughters anger A daughters anger.
I finally broke down I finally broke down.
Got a Text Got a Text.
06.31.08 sexual quote of the day 06.31.08 sexual quote of the day.
J's ex is musing about moving (with kiddo) out of state. J's ex is musing about moving (with kiddo) out of state..
Porn Movie Titles Porn Movie Titles.
Camping Camping.
The Road In Front The Road In Front.
Da Crappa, 8/31/06 Da Crappa, 8/31/06.
Giving or receiving? Giving or receiving?.
just typing. just typing..
2 sides to the No Contact rule 2 sides to the No Contact rule.
Why do I miss him? Why do I miss him?.
confused confused.
Some days are better than others.....Right? Some days are better than others.....Right?.
I'm divorced I'm divorced.
He had 2 other women-- that I know of He had 2 other women-- that I know of.
I want... I want....
Joke of the Day Joke of the Day.
In all honesty In all honesty.
Pulled from the Powdah Room... Pulled from the Powdah Room....
I Either Helped Myself, OR Screwed Myself Over! I Either Helped Myself, OR Screwed Myself Over!.

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