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Eisley.....Telescope Eyes Eisley.....Telescope Eyes.
Whatever Happened? Whatever Happened?.
Question about your "weekend off"... Question about your "weekend off"....
Good News, For Once!! Good News, For Once!!.
My sister's done it again... My sister's done it again....
Poor kid... Poor kid....
Two Sunday's Worth Two Sunday's Worth.
Playing with a 5 yo in the bath Playing with a 5 yo in the bath.
I Know The Truth I Know The Truth.
Dumb jokes Dumb jokes.
Why I'm up so late Why I'm up so late.
This one time ... in Canada .... This one time ... in Canada .....
You F'ing C You Next Tueday You F'ing C You Next Tueday.
After court, what did you do? After court, what did you do?.
Mirena anyone? Mirena anyone?.
I blogged this, not sure it would help anybody but just in case I blogged this, not sure it would help anybody but just in case.
Help Help.
WASN'T SURE IF I SHOULD POST THIS.....SORRY IF IT'S TOO MUCH WASN'T SURE IF I SHOULD POST THIS.....SORRY IF IT'S TOO MUCH.
Am I obligated? Am I obligated?.
Broke no contact after 1 damn year....... Broke no contact after 1 damn year........
why why.
Find you are attracted to the same signs? Find you are attracted to the same signs?.
Powdah Room 10/23 Powdah Room 10/23.
What do I do???? What do I do????.
Pittsburgh??? Pittsburgh???.
Getting over physique. Can a bangin' personality make up for a non-bangin' body? Getting over physique. Can a bangin' personality make up for a non-bangin' body?.
this weekend this weekend.
Trapped in a car with a clueless driver Trapped in a car with a clueless driver.
Sick and tired of the OW.... Sick and tired of the OW.....
I know better, always have! I know better, always have!.
no closure, no understanding, I have been literally left with nothing no closure, no understanding, I have been literally left with nothing.
These Pictures These Pictures.
Dear Dad Dear Dad.
I'm Drained I'm Drained.
Need Advice? Need Advice?.
J is divorced! J is divorced!.
I'm getting tired of this!!! I'm getting tired of this!!!.
What to do? What to do?.
Nina Simone - Feeling Good Nina Simone - Feeling Good.
Full Disclosures Full Disclosures.
am i retarded? yes i am am i retarded? yes i am.
Far Away Far Away.
Taking time Taking time.
emails from exes emails from exes.
Panic! at the disco Panic! at the disco.
She's gone She's gone.
A Good Excuse to Bake a Cake A Good Excuse to Bake a Cake.
Serious Girl Troubles Serious Girl Troubles.
I'm sorry for what I did.... I just wish I knew what it was.... I'm sorry for what I did.... I just wish I knew what it was.... .
7 years and told i'm not to blame... 7 years and told i'm not to blame....
steps toward divorce steps toward divorce.
2nd year in a row, Baby!! 2nd year in a row, Baby!!.
Maybe I should just do tally marks... Maybe I should just do tally marks....
Almost as good as "Conflama"...................almost. Almost as good as "Conflama"...................almost..
Divorce jokes for Trish's act Divorce jokes for Trish's act.
Random Neighbor Call Random Neighbor Call.
divorce by default?? divorce by default??.
not been here for a while(finally caught them together) not been here for a while(finally caught them together).
Sarah answers her critics... Sarah answers her critics....
Just Want You To Know Just Want You To Know.
Aime - pure prairie league Aime - pure prairie league.
HAPPY FREAKIN BIRTHDAY TNT (Tattered -n-Torn) !!!!!!!!!!!!! 10-24-06 HAPPY FREAKIN BIRTHDAY TNT (Tattered -n-Torn) !!!!!!!!!!!!! 10-24-06.
I know I deserve better than this.. I know I deserve better than this...
Central/Upstate NY???? Central/Upstate NY????.
Over my dead body. Over my dead body..
ALL TRUE OJARIANS NEED TO READ THIS.....MAYBE ITS TIME TO GIVE BACK ALL TRUE OJARIANS NEED TO READ THIS.....MAYBE ITS TIME TO GIVE BACK.
Getting through the pain & anger Getting through the pain & anger.
So pointless So pointless.
Self Awareness Poll Oct. 24, 2006 Self Awareness Poll Oct. 24, 2006.
Powdah Room 10/24 Powdah Room 10/24.
Now I know its over Now I know its over.
Impatient Impatient.
Question for all. Question for all..
Article: Women Fess Up About Cheating Article: Women Fess Up About Cheating.
When it is dead it is dead When it is dead it is dead.
Had a realization last night Had a realization last night.
I'm jelaous that my Ex is getting some and I'm not. I'm jelaous that my Ex is getting some and I'm not..
The Men's Room 10-24-2006 The Men's Room 10-24-2006.
I'm in helll :*( I'm in helll :*( .
Why me Why me.
Why? Why?.
You Have No Clue You Have No Clue.
Yoga/Meditation Yoga/Meditation.
So Angry So Angry.
Los Angeles Divorcees Los Angeles Divorcees.
How did your attorney help your divorce? How did your attorney help your divorce?.
Cold dating doesn't seem to happen in my world. Cold dating doesn't seem to happen in my world..
Is this Damaging to My Daughter- Or am I Overreacting??? Is this Damaging to My Daughter- Or am I Overreacting???.
Do you ever just get tired? Do you ever just get tired?.
House of Carters House of Carters.
Bubble Baths Bubble Baths.
Women sought for documentary in Los Angeles, CA Women sought for documentary in Los Angeles, CA.
Dear G Dear G.
Gay Marriage Gay Marriage.
Missing the anger Missing the anger.
Supposed "friends" Supposed "friends".
my fortune cookie (really) my fortune cookie (really).
Car-Bike Accident Car-Bike Accident.
Why do I feel a twinge of jealously? Why do I feel a twinge of jealously? .
Planned site downtime Planned site downtime.
the other side of sorrow the other side of sorrow.
Question: If You become a Poligimest and get more than 1 Wife how many ? And ? Question: If You become a Poligimest and get more than 1 Wife how many ? And ?.
re: breaking up re: breaking up.
Just going to gripe out loud Just going to gripe out loud.
Just passed the 1 yr mark Just passed the 1 yr mark.
Isogenix Isogenix.
Marie Antoinette Marie Antoinette.
Song that best describes your situation (hook up a link if you can) Song that best describes your situation (hook up a link if you can).
juggling juggling.
Pittsburgh? Pittsburgh?.
Crumbling in quiet Crumbling in quiet.
Mixed signals Mixed signals.
Ojar City Ojar City.
Name that puppy! Name that puppy!.
Super Friends Office Space Super Friends Office Space.
Wow Wow.
Powdah Room 10/25 Powdah Room 10/25.
A little update from me! A little update from me!.
Dating in the tech age...is it even worth the effort? Dating in the tech age...is it even worth the effort?.
Highest Paid Dead Celebrities. Highest Paid Dead Celebrities..
Any other ojarians fly? Any other ojarians fly?.
SMALL PENIS ISSUE SMALL PENIS ISSUE.
4 months now 4 months now.
overwhelmed with fear today overwhelmed with fear today.
Appreciation Thread Appreciation Thread.
The Men's Room 10-25-2006 The Men's Room 10-25-2006.
My burn box. My burn box..
Why can't it jsut go away.... Why can't it jsut go away.....
The First Separated/Divorced Christmas with Kids The First Separated/Divorced Christmas with Kids.
GAAAAAH - what am I supposed to think of this???? GAAAAAH - what am I supposed to think of this????.
When to start dating again? When to start dating again?.
Some disjointed thoughts (a letter to myself).. Some disjointed thoughts (a letter to myself)...
serious sex question serious sex question.
WTF? WTF?.
Death Penalty Death Penalty.
Almost 5 months after... Almost 5 months after....
Grrrr Baby Grrrr Baby.
True Forgiveness True Forgiveness.
Yellow Balloon (Images #1) Yellow Balloon (Images #1).
What's going on? What's going on?.
Feeling guilty, but want to leave Feeling guilty, but want to leave.
gdit JimB gdit JimB.
A Piece Of My Story A Piece Of My Story.
What Next What Next.
Boston - Part 2 Boston - Part 2.
Idiotic spammers Idiotic spammers.
To the dumpee's who... To the dumpee's who....
I Got Lucky I Got Lucky.
Strange Condition~~~Pete Yorn Strange Condition~~~Pete Yorn.
Re: feeling down Re: feeling down.
I am in the I hate my friend who is not my friend I am in the I hate my friend who is not my friend.
Afraid Afraid.
Trapped Trapped.
Baby, I love you. Baby, I love you..
Fishing for good luck Fishing for good luck.
The Men's Room 10-26-2006 The Men's Room 10-26-2006 .
Goodbye~~Natalie Imbruglia Goodbye~~Natalie Imbruglia.
Confused and wanted advice from non-friends/family who are going through it Confused and wanted advice from non-friends/family who are going through it.
Temporary Husband? Temporary Husband?.
Sperm Donor? Sperm Donor?.
I just want this to be over I just want this to be over.
HELP!!!! : Gaaaaaah - the sequel. HELP!!!! : Gaaaaaah - the sequel..
Happy Birthday, Lilly10 and Melbel!!! Happy Birthday, Lilly10 and Melbel!!!.
I just need to vent ...would like to punch something but this is less violent! I just need to vent ...would like to punch something but this is less violent!.
Powdah Room 10/26 Powdah Room 10/26.
The morning air DIDN'T remind me of her. The morning air DIDN'T remind me of her. .
stop this ride.... i want to get off stop this ride.... i want to get off.
awful today awful today.
So sad........ So sad.........
I rather fancied my counsellor. I rather fancied my counsellor..
A "parable" I wrote a long time ago.. A "parable" I wrote a long time ago...
Close to home (Images #2) Close to home (Images #2).
Why do we never listen and take the advice we should? Why do we never listen and take the advice we should? .
We need to have some fun... We need to have some fun....
Long hair or short hair Long hair or short hair.
almost there almost there.
I think I'm addicted to....Part 2 I think I'm addicted to....Part 2.
"My Immortal" "My Immortal".
Goodbye to all Goodbye to all.
What the? What the?.
Please don't say goodbye!!!! Please don't say goodbye!!!!.
Forsaken (Images #3) Forsaken (Images #3).
My laptop has broke........help........ My laptop has broke........help.........
Its just a shame Its just a shame.
Just a Tap... Just a Tap... .
How much is that Barbie in the window? How much is that Barbie in the window?.
How do I go on? How do I go on?.
A request to new posters... A request to new posters....
Ojar - What do you bring to the party? Ojar - What do you bring to the party?.
When does it stop hurting? When does it stop hurting?.
Anyone still around in AZ? Anyone still around in AZ?.
Like a ton of bricks... Like a ton of bricks....
From the Cell of my Ojar Prison From the Cell of my Ojar Prison.
WTF WTF.
We need a board called "Ha Ha!" We need a board called "Ha Ha!".
The Nine The Nine.
I must be getting better. I must be getting better..
Cooking Crabs for the First Time..................sooo funny! Cooking Crabs for the First Time..................sooo funny!.
YEAAAAA! YEAAAAA!.
The Men's Room 10-27-2006 The Men's Room 10-27-2006.
So, that's it then. So, that's it then. .
I guess I'm ready I guess I'm ready.
Week 8 NFL Picks Week 8 NFL Picks.
how dare you how dare you.
No 'Lost' Thread??? No 'Lost' Thread???.
Powdah Room 10/27 Powdah Room 10/27.
wish i had kids wish i had kids.
leaving ojar.... leaving ojar.....
Headlice! Headlice!.
She moving out! She moving out!.
Are You A Multiple Divorcee? Are You A Multiple Divorcee?.
Breast enhancements (question for ojar girls) Breast enhancements (question for ojar girls).
EX Remarried EX Remarried.
Be still Be still.
Halloween plans!!!! Halloween plans!!!! .
A Long Story... Im a little lost. A Long Story... Im a little lost. .
So I dont forget how scummy she is So I dont forget how scummy she is.
Tired of it all! Tired of it all!.
Second dates - anyone else hate them? Second dates - anyone else hate them?.
Best Financial Advice Best Financial Advice.
to me- enough of this to me- enough of this.
Blonde Phone Blonde Phone.
Do People who Respond to Personals Ads even READ Them ? Do People who Respond to Personals Ads even READ Them ?.
A friend just got engaged!! A friend just got engaged!!.
this will be the end this will be the end.
am I fooling myself am I fooling myself.
Thoughts please Thoughts please.
Word of the day: Alcoholiday Word of the day: Alcoholiday.
Hostility Hostility.
Backs against the wall Backs against the wall.
Creativity Creativity .
Beer turns you into a woman! Beer turns you into a woman!.
flip flop flip flop.
Shout out Loud! Shout out Loud!.
I have such a jaded view of marriage. I have such a jaded view of marriage..
MOVED: How f'ed up is this? First praise, then a threat of being fired. MOVED: How f'ed up is this? First praise, then a threat of being fired..
How much warmth does a four-year-old need? How much warmth does a four-year-old need?.
christmas christmas.
Unfortunately, sometimes nothing can be said or done...... Unfortunately, sometimes nothing can be said or done.......
Reconciliation board Reconciliation board.
Kind of long, but helpful... I hope! Kind of long, but helpful... I hope!.
Please Leave Please Leave.
I Should Be I Should Be.
Don't try this at home!! Don't try this at home!!.
I hate my ex!!! I hate my ex!!!.
Don't forget... Don't forget....
EPIPHANY~! EPIPHANY~!.
I miss... I miss....
I don't know how to deal with depression I don't know how to deal with depression.
I'm a Mess I'm a Mess.
What is your costume this Halloween? What is your costume this Halloween?.
Tarheel, I am your father!! Tarheel, I am your father!!.
need to vent need to vent.
My Story My Story.
I must go I must go.
Feeling it really bad today. Feeling it really bad today..
A LOT of the THINGS We do IS Because of one thing.....The TV A LOT of the THINGS We do IS Because of one thing.....The TV.
Stunned we are over Stunned we are over.
We didn't even have a chance... We didn't even have a chance....
Holy Crap! Toooooo funny! Holy Crap! Toooooo funny! .
Flavored Coffee! Flavored Coffee!.
Good Day Good Day.
Favorite Scents! Favorite Scents!.
Only One Too Only One Too.
The Way I See It #177 The Way I See It #177.
What do you do? What do you do?.
might as well get it out there might as well get it out there.
Lost and Alone Lost and Alone.
Found something he shouldn't have found Found something he shouldn't have found.
advice advice.
For My Girls For My Girls.
I am so sorry, for us AND you I am so sorry, for us AND you.
Rainking shoots....he scores!!!!!!!! Rainking shoots....he scores!!!!!!!!.
back.... back.....
It Finally Happened but...... It Finally Happened but.......
doesn't get better..... if you want to go back to the X... doesn't get better..... if you want to go back to the X....
My own private little island in hell My own private little island in hell.
sigh.... sigh.....
Your Confession Your Confession.
cell phone timers cell phone timers.
Bad luck or just life???? Bad luck or just life????.
Not quite over. I can't do this alone :( Not quite over. I can't do this alone :(.
I Hate This House I Hate This House.
PLease, hear me out, Ojar.. PLease, hear me out, Ojar...
Uninvited Uninvited.
The Car Accident The Car Accident.
Today is the day --court Today is the day --court.
want to send..maybe too inflammatory? want to send..maybe too inflammatory?.
Powdah Room 10/30 Powdah Room 10/30.
Snooping. Do the ends justify the means? Snooping. Do the ends justify the means?.
Oh crap I had sex with her(stbx) yesterday...... Oh crap I had sex with her(stbx) yesterday.......
You're the man now, dog - site. You're the man now, dog - site..
The Men's Room 10-30-2006 The Men's Room 10-30-2006.
question for the guys question for the guys.
Having a very hard day and can't seem to catch my breath Having a very hard day and can't seem to catch my breath.
Why am I so upset? Why am I so upset?.
What's your Will say? What's your Will say?.
update ... she was right update ... she was right.
I was given the gift of OJAR!! I was given the gift of OJAR!!.
WHO'S YER DADDY? WHO'S YER DADDY?.
Quite an Ego Boost, But Ewwww Quite an Ego Boost, But Ewwww.
I want to win him back I want to win him back.
Defamation of Character.... Defamation of Character.....
Okay I need serious advice here Okay I need serious advice here.
I got an A on my first legal-writing memo! I got an A on my first legal-writing memo!.
Here we go agian, but it sure feels nice. Here we go agian, but it sure feels nice..
Take my Ex please Take my Ex please .
Dating someone with no long term potential? Dating someone with no long term potential?.
How many of you actually speak to your stbx or x???/ How many of you actually speak to your stbx or x???/.
moved topics? moved topics?.
Family vent... Family vent....
Losing Weight Losing Weight.
"If you are going through hell..." "If you are going through hell...".
Have a... Have a....
reese witherspoon reese witherspoon.
Sloppy Seconds Sloppy Seconds.
is it possible to reconcile? is it possible to reconcile?.
What do I do What do I do.
This Book Will Save Your Life by A.M. Holmes This Book Will Save Your Life by A.M. Holmes.
Spooky Huh ? Halloween True Story for Halloween ! Spooky Huh ? Halloween True Story for Halloween !.
Serial Dating; why you shouldn’t. Serial Dating; why you shouldn’t..
Lawyers Lawyers.
Do I love you?? I dunno.... Do I love you?? I dunno.....
Happy Halloween! Happy Halloween!.
When I am Sleeping When I am Sleeping.
Argh!! Why do I care? Argh!! Why do I care?.
The relapse The relapse.
what are the warning signs when he's about to pounce? what are the warning signs when he's about to pounce?.
What helps you forget about the pain? What helps you forget about the pain?.
Powdah Room 10/31 Powdah Room 10/31.
sorry for a stupid question sorry for a stupid question.
The Men's Room 10-31-2006 The Men's Room 10-31-2006.
happy holoween happy holoween.
heart pound heart pound.
Turning Turning.
So I had this dream last night... So I had this dream last night....
Getting over my break-up Getting over my break-up.
Any tips for getting over emotional dependency? Any tips for getting over emotional dependency?.
Happy Halloween!!! :) Happy Halloween!!! :).
Loneliness in the news Loneliness in the news.
"I love you" in 21 different lingos: "I love you" in 21 different lingos:.
The Spot The Spot.
No other way... No other way....
Confused & Don't know what to do Confused & Don't know what to do.
Got back together, now I'm having problems Got back together, now I'm having problems.
If you were cheated on, read this... If you were cheated on, read this....
A joke for the golfers here. A joke for the golfers here..
Ghost Hunters Ghost Hunters.
kick a$$ scalloped potatoes kick a$$ scalloped potatoes.
Divorce is bad for women. It's science! Divorce is bad for women. It's science!.
What to make of this What to make of this.
It's damn hard, moving on It's damn hard, moving on.
The Five Love Languages The Five Love Languages.
It still hurts It still hurts.
My feelings My feelings .
My Story... My Story....
peice of garbage cop peice of garbage cop.
I'm addicted to sex I'm addicted to sex.
Nevermind me, I am good Nevermind me, I am good.
WELCOME TO THE NEW OJAR WELCOME TO THE NEW OJAR.
MOVED: WELOME TO THE NEW OJAR MOVED: WELOME TO THE NEW OJAR.
Did I do the right thing? Did I do the right thing? .
The Men's Room 11-1-2006 The Men's Room 11-1-2006 .
What do you do when you just don't love him no more? What do you do when you just don't love him no more?.
Powdah Room 11/1 Powdah Room 11/1.
my sob love life story pt 3 my sob love life story pt 3.
my sob love life story pt2 my sob love life story pt2.
sob love life story pt 1 sob love life story pt 1.
I hate thives I hate thives.
struggling struggling.
i just don't know anymore i just don't know anymore.
Newbie tells her story Newbie tells her story.
Oasis - Wonderwall Oasis - Wonderwall.
Call? Call?.
I AM an Extraordinary Machine I AM an Extraordinary Machine.
Survey... Survey....
UGH this sucks UGH this sucks.
Is This Sight Only For The Fresh?? Is This Sight Only For The Fresh??.
Random quote thread.... Random quote thread.....
Grieving Grieving.
Obama for president Obama for president.
Anyone hiring in Michigan? Anyone hiring in Michigan?.
See you when you're 40 See you when you're 40.
Why do I do this. Why do I do this. .
Question for the OJAR ladies out there... Question for the OJAR ladies out there....
I talk too much I talk too much.
Ugh, I am beating myself up Ugh, I am beating myself up .
Well, apparently I'm a basket case - are you? Well, apparently I'm a basket case - are you?.
HELP - need help for a friend. HELP - need help for a friend..
Are We * Learning Yet * ? Are We * Learning Yet * ? .
Final Final.
more of my story more of my story.
Today's NEW Snapshot of Premium for Those thinking about Joining Premium Ojar Today's NEW Snapshot of Premium for Those thinking about Joining Premium Ojar.
If anyone knows momof3 - please PM me! If anyone knows momof3 - please PM me!.
i am f*ckin p*ssed i am f*ckin p*ssed.
Movies alone?? Movies alone??.
Chat.... Chat.....
When is it REALLY over??? When is it REALLY over???.
Not a joke, but something I found funny... Not a joke, but something I found funny....
Celebrity Paranormal Project Celebrity Paranormal Project .
Lips of An Angel-Hinder Lips of An Angel-Hinder.
Does it offend you? Does it offend you?.
feeling so low after breaking up with my lovely boyfriend. feeling so low after breaking up with my lovely boyfriend..
Letting Go Letting Go.
I remember... I remember....
F*CK IT!!!!!!!!!!!!! F*CK IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!.
"How do you deal with stress, depression?" "How do you deal with stress, depression?".
The Men's Room 11-2-2006 The Men's Room 11-2-2006 .
new level of hate new level of hate.
Feeling it bad tonight... Feeling it bad tonight....
what next what next.
Television in Bedroom Television in Bedroom.
Powdah Room 11/2 Powdah Room 11/2.
A Sad Story to share A Sad Story to share.
The Story of US The Story of US.
Being friends with an ex... Being friends with an ex....
holidays affected by distance holidays affected by distance.
Shadow Shadow.
Three Things Guys Wish Women Learned Growing Up.... Three Things Guys Wish Women Learned Growing Up.....
Some advice needed Some advice needed.
Divorce is so freaking difficult!! Divorce is so freaking difficult!!.
rollercoaster relationship rollercoaster relationship.
Questions with no answers... Questions with no answers....
just thinking out loud... just thinking out loud....
Tests Tests.
What bad days are coming up for you? What bad days are coming up for you?.
Lord, give me strength Lord, give me strength.
second guessing second guessing.
Patents Patents.
Saw III Saw III.
a letter for my baby a letter for my baby.
a letter for your baby a letter for your baby.
I had a dream about my boss... I had a dream about my boss....
need some support today need some support today.
Long but Interesting divorce story - Plse read Long but Interesting divorce story - Plse read.

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