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Absent wife isn't jealous - wtf? Absent wife isn't jealous - wtf?.
It doesnt hurt so bad anymore It doesnt hurt so bad anymore.
though of the day. not interested in learning these life lessons though of the day. not interested in learning these life lessons.
Forever Blue Forever Blue.
2months, bday, proposal date 2months, bday, proposal date.
Is there a reason? Is there a reason?.
Broke up a week ago Broke up a week ago.
Boy was I wrong twice!! Boy was I wrong twice!!.
Need Advice about this one! Please Need Advice about this one! Please.
Moving On Moving On.
Hits the nail on the head! Hits the nail on the head!.
just hit a realization just hit a realization.
stuff you dont' want to hear about stuff you dont' want to hear about.
its been two years its been two years.
that's fair? isn't it? that's fair? isn't it?.
getting depress getting depress.
Impermanent Things Impermanent Things.
interesting evening with ex and ow interesting evening with ex and ow.
"Song" by Adrienne Rich "Song" by Adrienne Rich.
Moving upward in a huge way Moving upward in a huge way.
Signed the papers today...want to share Signed the papers today...want to share.
Open Once Again Open Once Again.
~Is Anybody Else Getting Booted Of Ojar?~ ~Is Anybody Else Getting Booted Of Ojar?~.
im sorry im sorry.
Your Daily Horriblescopes 2/18. Back on track! lol Your Daily Horriblescopes 2/18. Back on track! lol.
SEX SEX.
The Picture (Sheryl Crow / Kid Rock) The Picture (Sheryl Crow / Kid Rock).
letting go ? letting go ?.
I lied I lied.
I don't know what to do anymore I don't know what to do anymore.
Children and Moving Children and Moving.
The service The service.
role + importance of talking role + importance of talking.
I Hope You Dance I Hope You Dance.
Going crazy Going crazy.
Lust + Time = Love ??? Lust + Time = Love ???.
IS THIS WRONG IS THIS WRONG.
die neighbor die (not really) die neighbor die (not really).
Just did adumb thing Just did adumb thing.
Mini Vent!! Mini Vent!!.
dead and dying flowers dead and dying flowers.
Okay, Please Explain! Okay, Please Explain!.
Panic Panic.
I want my life back!! I want my life back!!.
My STBX's GF had a pregnancy scare. He told me AS SHE WAS PEEING ON THE STICK. My STBX's GF had a pregnancy scare. He told me AS SHE WAS PEEING ON THE STICK..
Stormy Stormy.
recovery times? recovery times?.
Thank You Thank You.
frustrated frustrated.
It's official..She's moving out. What now? It's official..She's moving out. What now?.
Friday Night Friday Night.
Wanted Wanted.
Am I crazy? Am I crazy?.
feeling blah tonight feeling blah tonight.
My son, my x-h and I My son, my x-h and I.
Nervous Nervous.
tossed aside!! tossed aside!!.
Went for a........... Went for a............
The Faithful The Faithful.
Your Daily Horriblescopes. 2/19 Your Daily Horriblescopes. 2/19.
My Story My Story.
what to do...about webjournals what to do...about webjournals.
can't go on not loving you! can't go on not loving you!.
Feeling lost Feeling lost.
packing - overwhelmed packing - overwhelmed.
Perhaps this will give some people hope... Perhaps this will give some people hope....
Another Saturday night alone......naturally. Another Saturday night alone......naturally..
Anyone???????????? Anyone????????????.
I feel so stupid I feel so stupid.
Guys, where ARE YOU?! Guys, where ARE YOU?!.
My story. My story..
importance of relationship importance of relationship.
Your Daily Horriblescopes. 2/20 Your Daily Horriblescopes. 2/20.
compete or not compete...that is the question. compete or not compete...that is the question..
Scared Scared.
Oh the guilt!! Oh the guilt!!.
Letting go Letting go.
hating him hating him.
The highs are so The highs are so.
Time to think......... Time to think..........
I'll learn..... I'll learn......
On the verge of divorce #2 - HOW??? On the verge of divorce #2 - HOW???.
Deams Deams.
Online Dating! Online Dating!.
I hate my fiance I hate my fiance.
so alone even though I am not so alone even though I am not.
Im sick of everything Im sick of everything.
My Story My Story.
New here...Not sure where to start New here...Not sure where to start.
Alone Alone.
aim chat room is open for business! aim chat room is open for business!.
Wasted 9 Years? Wasted 9 Years?.
open letter to the other woman open letter to the other woman.
Timespan to heal Timespan to heal.
New here and very sad New here and very sad.
Your Daily Horriblescopes. 2/21 Your Daily Horriblescopes. 2/21.
ready for marriage?...and when should I know he wants that too?..m/f input wnted ready for marriage?...and when should I know he wants that too?..m/f input wnted.
Watched a few movies over the weekend... Watched a few movies over the weekend....
Interesting Rollercoster But Getting Stronger! Interesting Rollercoster But Getting Stronger!.
You Still Believe In Me You Still Believe In Me.
How do you survive separation? How do you survive separation?.
Do all Women Cheat?? Do all Women Cheat??.
Unanswered questions....... Unanswered questions........
Today's Highs and Lows Today's Highs and Lows.
Womens Confidence Womens Confidence.
making me the bad guy making me the bad guy.
Property question?? Property question??.
What kids can say! What kids can say!.
ho hum... ho hum....
confused confused.
Crossfade- So Far Away Crossfade- So Far Away.
Dating people with kids?? Dating people with kids??.
Had a bad day! Had a bad day!.
My wife left with no warnings... My wife left with no warnings....
happy? happy?.
Dating and free Dating and free.
Dreams of betrayl Dreams of betrayl.
Am I an idiot? Am I an idiot?.
In Hell In Hell.
most important, by not thinking about her! most important, by not thinking about her!.
hi hi.
Driking makes it worse! Driking makes it worse!.
What am I Doing???? What am I Doing????.
Your Daily Horriblescopes. 2/22 Your Daily Horriblescopes. 2/22.
Ojar at the ZOO Ojar at the ZOO.
Ojar at the ZOO Ojar at the ZOO.
The ring The ring.
It ain't over 'till it's over, folks... It ain't over 'till it's over, folks....
Advice on planning an upcoming first date Advice on planning an upcoming first date.
It ain't over 'till it's over, folks... It ain't over 'till it's over, folks....
Reading other posts and saddened... Reading other posts and saddened....
feeling ok till..... feeling ok till......
Fiancee's Enormous Debt Fiancee's Enormous Debt.
Top Self-Help Books Top Self-Help Books.
The Way It Is The Way It Is.
Games People Play Games People Play.
Paradise Paradise.
In a Bad Way right now In a Bad Way right now.
Attitude Attitude.
Tenacious D Tenacious D.
CHEATERS, I JUST DONT UNDERSTAND......... CHEATERS, I JUST DONT UNDERSTAND..........
Ojar Ojar.
Michael. About YABB... Michael. About YABB....
When you're Smilin' When you're Smilin'.
A must for anybody who needs some happy music A must for anybody who needs some happy music.
Wife is Dating - Ouch !!! Wife is Dating - Ouch !!!.
Confused Newlywed Confused Newlywed.
A very real sadness has set in A very real sadness has set in.
The choices we make The choices we make.
Quick rant... Quick rant....
Autism...anyone know anything Autism...anyone know anything.
guess what the kids told me now?!?!?! guess what the kids told me now?!?!?!.
Hes on my mind tonight Hes on my mind tonight.
OJAR Chatroom OJAR Chatroom.
Struggled with this one... Struggled with this one....
Chicago Hotel Chicago Hotel.
How do you know? How do you know?.
~What Hotel Are We Choosing For Chicago Gathering?~ ~What Hotel Are We Choosing For Chicago Gathering?~.
something i wrote in my LJ something i wrote in my LJ.
Ex's ex-bf just contacted me... Ex's ex-bf just contacted me....
OJAR chat instructions OJAR chat instructions.
i hate you. i hate you..
Where do I turn? I look up Where do I turn? I look up.
I brought a train ticket to an unknown destination, turned out to be rock bottom I brought a train ticket to an unknown destination, turned out to be rock bottom.
What are the rules? What are the rules?.
Your Daily Horriblescopes. 2/23 Your Daily Horriblescopes. 2/23.
rejections rejections.
How long can a man be strong? How long can a man be strong?.
kids are great.. kids are great...
It has been a year It has been a year.
Feeling Alone Feeling Alone.
Been thinking... Been thinking....
mixed messages mixed messages.
Pet names and such. Pet names and such..
garth brooks- she gonna make it garth brooks- she gonna make it.
Just when I needed you most Just when I needed you most.
Wow did the board shrink? Wow did the board shrink?.
I'm new here, but thought I'd vent I'm new here, but thought I'd vent.
Feb. 28 Feb. 28.
I'm sorry bubba I'm sorry bubba.
Alimony? Alimony?.
no one to care no one to care.
Today was a great Today was a great.
Oh, yeah! Now I remember why we're divorced... Oh, yeah! Now I remember why we're divorced....
Selling my house! Selling my house! .
what you have taken what you have taken.
Feeling weird Feeling weird.
How could I love a liar? How could I love a liar?.
Your Daily Horriblescopes. 2/24 Your Daily Horriblescopes. 2/24.
What You Give What You Give.
confused and thinking confused and thinking.
Anybody from Louisiana? Anybody from Louisiana?.
watch out wichita, here we come!! watch out wichita, here we come!!.
tears tears.
Is it Just me...... Is it Just me.......
???How do I just let go??? ???How do I just let go???.
OUCH!!!!! OUCH!!!!!.
Never My Love Never My Love.
How do you know when it's over or not? How do you know when it's over or not?.
Rules of Chicago! Rules of Chicago!.
How is everyone feeling/doing?? How is everyone feeling/doing??.
should I confront my stbxh? should I confront my stbxh?.
the unseen cost the unseen cost.
condoms in the freezer condoms in the freezer.
Denial goodbye Denial goodbye.
This feels so confusing! This feels so confusing!.
what should i do with pictures what should i do with pictures.
the straw that broke the camel's back the straw that broke the camel's back.
Sup Sup.
Sex After Divorce Sex After Divorce.
Here I am woo hoo!!! not Here I am woo hoo!!! not.
Just bored in Idaho Just bored in Idaho.
shut up shut up.
STOP WONDERING!!! STOP WONDERING!!!.
Head's a Mess Head's a Mess.
Guess what Guess what.
Chat Room Chat Room.
Suddenly missing my old life Suddenly missing my old life.
bad day... sure could use a little good new bad day... sure could use a little good new.
Another loser this week Another loser this week.
Ammunition for those dips on the rollercoaster Ammunition for those dips on the rollercoaster.
I want answers I'll never get. Goodbye I want answers I'll never get. Goodbye.
4:15 a.m. phone call 4:15 a.m. phone call.
Dear STBX Dear STBX.
who here has used a keylogger? who here has used a keylogger?.
Have a nice life Have a nice life.
He finally made contact..but still no remorse He finally made contact..but still no remorse.
Job Interview Job Interview.
Just cant stop!!!!! Just cant stop!!!!!.
fluffy divorce-court dress question fluffy divorce-court dress question.
Your Daily Horriblescopes. 2/25 Your Daily Horriblescopes. 2/25.
Splendor Splendor.
i hate my job!!! i hate my job!!!.
what he says and he means what he says and he means.
[b]listening to my new message[/b] [b]listening to my new message[/b].
Have a nice life Have a nice life.
Out of reach, further and further Out of reach, further and further.
Cold Cold Heart Cold Cold Heart.
I Hang My Head And Cry I Hang My Head And Cry.
Defining yourself... Defining yourself....
MOVED: Dating and free MOVED: Dating and free.
I don't need.......... I don't need...........
Just some stuff Just some stuff.
Please tell me there's a life at the end of the tunnel Please tell me there's a life at the end of the tunnel.
Hands Tied Hands Tied.
last unsent letter... last unsent letter....
sorry am new, but :( sorry am new, but :(.
The Storm The Storm.
Please Please.
Wheres has my peace gone? Wheres has my peace gone?.
Executive Single Parent Dating - Lol! Executive Single Parent Dating - Lol!.
feeling like a loser feeling like a loser .
Stop Me Please!! Stop Me Please!!.
Today was...................... Today was.......................
how long? how long?.
Almost over Almost over.
AIM interst??? AIM interst???.
Email sent during moment of weakness Email sent during moment of weakness.
Hurting bad today. Hurting bad today..
Your Daily Horriblescopes. 2/26 Your Daily Horriblescopes. 2/26.
can there be no sex in a one year affair? can there be no sex in a one year affair?.
my story my story.
KIDS!! KIDS!!.
A man said to the universe (Stephen Crane) A man said to the universe (Stephen Crane).
dating women w/kids pt 2 dating women w/kids pt 2.
bills! Yep.. bills bills! Yep.. bills.
Is there a magical balance? Is there a magical balance?.
How long does it hurt? How long does it hurt?.
Since You're Gone Since You're Gone.
Last straw... Last straw....
Nearing the Edge Nearing the Edge.
~DRIVE~ ~DRIVE~.
marriage? marriage?.
Statement of No Contact - Copy, Paste, Adapt Statement of No Contact - Copy, Paste, Adapt.
I don't get it... I don't get it....
A query about phantom ring feeling A query about phantom ring feeling.
Marriage without intimacy Marriage without intimacy.
As if my life couldn't be any weirder... As if my life couldn't be any weirder....
BORED? Saturday Night! BORED? Saturday Night!.
A little trust milestone... A little trust milestone....
came to conclusions about my ex came to conclusions about my ex.
Rusty Cage Rusty Cage.
ALIVE ALIVE.
Nightrain Nightrain.
CATS IN THE CRADLE CATS IN THE CRADLE.
Suck My Kiss Suck My Kiss.
Under The Bridge Under The Bridge.
Judgement Day Judgement Day.
Man On A Mission Man On A Mission.
Live Wire Live Wire.
my ex went back to her ex husband my ex went back to her ex husband.
Your Daily Horriblescopes. 2/27 Your Daily Horriblescopes. 2/27.
This is just the perfect metaphor for my marriage This is just the perfect metaphor for my marriage.
Men and emotions Men and emotions.
can't get past this...... can't get past this.......
Fathers rights....its a joke ladies! Fathers rights....its a joke ladies!.
Here is another one! Dont try this at home guys! Here is another one! Dont try this at home guys!.
Give it too me straight! Give it too me straight!.
Since I Started Drinking Again Since I Started Drinking Again.
betrayed by friends? betrayed by friends?.
Sleep to Dream Sleep to Dream.
Moving... Moving....
Epiphany Epiphany.
AIM chat--Ojar room AIM chat--Ojar room.
Sex and the City! Sex and the City!.
he took the salad tongs! he took the salad tongs!.
I think I might have graduated.... I think I might have graduated.....
i miss him on sundays the most i miss him on sundays the most.
Mad and venting Mad and venting.
Ever feel this way? Ever feel this way?.
My story... My story....
Married but in love with another. Married but in love with another..
MOVING!!!!!!! MOVING!!!!!!!.
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!geezzzz!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!geezzzz!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.
She intentionally ruined me, as she sees me She intentionally ruined me, as she sees me.
whew, watta week! whew, watta week!.
lONELY, ABOUT READY TO CALL HIM lONELY, ABOUT READY TO CALL HIM.
Why do woman not like nice guys?? Why do woman not like nice guys??.
Your Daily Horriblescopes 2/28 Your Daily Horriblescopes 2/28.
Does anyone EVER divorce without someone else waiting? Does anyone EVER divorce without someone else waiting?.
Need Some Advice ASAP....Please Help Need Some Advice ASAP....Please Help.
new bad habits... new bad habits....
I need some happiness!!! I need some happiness!!!.
STBXH and his GF came to visit and it was fine STBXH and his GF came to visit and it was fine.
Whats wrong with me? Whats wrong with me?.
Don't Go Away Mad (Just Go Away) Don't Go Away Mad (Just Go Away).
Girls, Girls, Girls Girls, Girls, Girls.
Is my wife a lesbian? Is my wife a lesbian?.
Court Today Court Today.
I Can't Tell You Why I Can't Tell You Why.
ask for my money? ask for my money?.
Say WELCOME BACK TY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Say WELCOME BACK TY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.
ex's parents know the truth? ex's parents know the truth?.
My life is a mess My life is a mess.
Greetings Greetings.
get outta my dreams get outta my dreams.
And the Drama continues...do I apologize now? And the Drama continues...do I apologize now?.
The One The One.
Where I am. What do I want to do? And where do I go... Where I am. What do I want to do? And where do I go....
he's gone he's gone.
life's ironies life's ironies.
He wants to leave after 8 months of marriage He wants to leave after 8 months of marriage.
IMPORTANT POLL IMPORTANT POLL.
Whats better, crying or being happy... Whats better, crying or being happy....
Seeing them in person Seeing them in person.
how to eat after the gym? how to eat after the gym?.
Gah.. IRA's! Gah.. IRA's!.
Tax Return Tax Return.
Anyone send divorce announcements? Anyone send divorce announcements?.
Why do I still love him? Why do I still love him?.
It's theoretically over tomorrow. It's theoretically over tomorrow..
she's killing me inside she's killing me inside.
I feel like I am the star of my own soap opera I feel like I am the star of my own soap opera.
Only 2 months and I'm heartbroken Only 2 months and I'm heartbroken.
Chat? Chat?.
cant eat cant sleep cant eat cant sleep.
Oscars!!!!!!! Oscars!!!!!!!.
What the f... is the matter with these people What the f... is the matter with these people.
I lost her I lost her.
Update: Today makes 1 month! Update: Today makes 1 month!.
To close to home To close to home.
Someone to Watch over Me Someone to Watch over Me.
Always and Forever Always and Forever .
Eating like a pig Eating like a pig.
stupid stupid ex.......... stupid stupid ex...........
Your Daily Horriblescopes. 3/1 Your Daily Horriblescopes. 3/1.
Breakaway Breakaway.
Trying to get back together with my ex Trying to get back together with my ex.
Ex's tattoo ... your opinions? Ex's tattoo ... your opinions?.
a woman and a fork a woman and a fork.
Send Her My Love Send Her My Love.
Tell Me Why Tell Me Why.
Oh Lonesome Me Oh Lonesome Me.
How do I keep my house? How do I keep my house?.
Them Bones Them Bones.
Would? Would?.
Run To The Hills Run To The Hills.
And, it's over. And, it's over..
Razor's Edge Razor's Edge.
I Stand Alone I Stand Alone.
BLAZE OF GLORY BLAZE OF GLORY .
Voodoo Voodoo.
Sooner Or Later Sooner Or Later.
Alive Alive.
Wicked Garden Wicked Garden.
Rusty Cage Rusty Cage.
What Happened To Us? What Happened To Us?.
The Four Horsemen The Four Horsemen.
Fast Facts Fast Facts.
Jerry Springer... Jerry Springer....
Marriage Marriage.
Knockin' On Heaven's Door Knockin' On Heaven's Door.
Women & Men ... last one is best! Women & Men ... last one is best!.
Have a nice life Have a nice life.
Funny thing my attorney said... Funny thing my attorney said....
Judge Not... Judge Not....
SO pissed and a little hurt SO pissed and a little hurt.
"Lewinski" Etiquette "Lewinski" Etiquette .
For the guys - Reasons to be Single For the guys - Reasons to be Single.
Husband-Mart Husband-Mart.
So Manipulating So Manipulating.
A Separate Reality A Separate Reality.
Out Here Out Here.
Drifting, Falling Drifting, Falling.
Don't Go There Don't Go There.
Touch me Touch me.
Reality TV Reality TV.
i can't stop hoping he'll come back i can't stop hoping he'll come back.
Not really a vent.......... Not really a vent...........
things are a little better things are a little better.
how do you go on ? how do you go on ?.
Leaving Shore Leaving Shore.
Strange Strange.
Some People Should Not Dance Some People Should Not Dance.
Self Image Self Image.
strange feelings............ strange feelings.............
Strange comforting numbness Strange comforting numbness.
Things I learned today Things I learned today.
The proposal The proposal.
;Dlonely,but still hanging in there!! ;Dlonely,but still hanging in there!!.
~The Peope Who Cant Say Good-Bye~ ~The Peope Who Cant Say Good-Bye~.
it goes on! smile and dream it goes on! smile and dream.
Papers????? Papers?????.
Just got final court date Just got final court date.
Not sure how to start this but here goes... Not sure how to start this but here goes....
i miss her so much.. i miss her so much...
new names/handles new names/handles.
Starting today out just great Starting today out just great.
Great quote I heard this morning Great quote I heard this morning.
Obsessing Obsessing.
MAKE ME STOP!!!!!!!! MAKE ME STOP!!!!!!!!.
lol!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!.
just got served just got served.
Landslide Landslide.
Fear of Falling Fear of Falling.
Nothing Much of Anything Nothing Much of Anything.
I Liked You Better When You Hated Yourself I Liked You Better When You Hated Yourself.
Wife 1.0 Wife 1.0.
The Irony of it all... The Irony of it all....
~Just Had To Share This:)~ ~Just Had To Share This:)~.
I'm just a guy, help me understand I'm just a guy, help me understand.
Politically Correct Politically Correct.
Confused Confused.
What are women thinking? What are women thinking?.
Not sure........... Not sure............
Fun poll of not so masculine songs!! Fun poll of not so masculine songs!!.
A New Level "PARD" A New Level "PARD".
Walk Walk.
Rise Rise.
Bring The Noise Bring The Noise.
Startin' Up A Posse Startin' Up A Posse.
Room For One More Room For One More.
Survivor Survivor.
Foreclosure Of A Dream Foreclosure Of A Dream.
Symphony Of Destruction Symphony Of Destruction.
Walk In The Shadows Walk In The Shadows.
Damage, Inc. Damage, Inc..
Having A Blast Having A Blast.
More Food for thought... More Food for thought....
What's all this about?? What's all this about??.
Friendship Friendship.
Closure Closure.
I must be F*CKING invisible to everyone around me I must be F*CKING invisible to everyone around me.
beer & boobs beer & boobs.
Have a nice life Have a nice life.
Have a nice life Have a nice life.
Have a nice life Have a nice life.
feeling insecure feeling insecure.
She doesn't know what she wants.... She doesn't know what she wants.....
You know what else bugs me?? no face to face time... You know what else bugs me?? no face to face time....
Is anyone military or married to military? Is anyone military or married to military?.
quick question here...i need some advice on this quick question here...i need some advice on this.
For No Reason For No Reason.
Dear B Dear B.
F U you b@st@rd F U you b@st@rd.
Fine (slight change of pace for me) Fine (slight change of pace for me).
AIM? AIM?.
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